Girls, would you break up with your boyfriend if he is a hardcore gamer?

[Anonymous]

Yes definitely

No not necessarily

Depends on what games he’s into

Other answer that isn’t listed?

[musicbrain5]

What’s with the feet?

Anyways, if he is gaming to the point where it’s taking over other priorities in life, and he’s not doing anything to fix it, yeah I would leave. For example, if he’s choosing gaming over spending time with me or family, or doing household chores, or caring for his children (if any) or caring for himself, or staying up all night… yeah that is concerning. At that point, it’s an addiction.

[Asker]

I game with my feet up on the table because it’s relaxing lol, are they that disgusting? Sorry..

Yes hopefully it doesn’t reach the levels of addiction.. I’d break up with myself if I got addicted to gaming

[spiderwoman1997]

“What’s with the feet” hahahaa

[lululemonangel45]

Nope I lowkey think that's kind of hot - good gamers tend to be good with their hands, have quick reaction times, and tend to be good problem-solvers. Just as long as he has other things going I wouldn't mind

[Asker]

Wow that’s the best response any gamer would want to hear thanks friend you made my day 😊

[lululemonangel45]

haha no worries :D

[yeahisaidit2]

You just said in another comment that you think that a gamer guy was lazy you arse

[lululemonangel45]

@yeahisaidit2 i said someone with no aspirations was lazy, stop stalking my posts wierdo

[yeahisaidit2]

🤡no ones stalking you, your arse is just on a lot of posts, you're not as interesting or important as you think

[acooke-13]

Very much depends, if he wasn't able to keep a healthy and happy relationship with me and give me what I need, then yes I would break up with him.

[Asker]

Yes that makes sense but if you’re satisfied and he makes time for you but still games on a daily basis would that be a problem?

[acooke-13]

@2good2btru No it wouldn't be a problem :)

[Asker]

Nice thank you 😊

[HorggleThorp]

No.


My boyfriend is a great man of God. I wouldn’t dump him if he became a hard core gamer (like myself).

[Asker]

Great 😊

[bubblegunnn]

Nah ofc nah definitely nah. But, if he's being that way inspired by games, id break up right away

[Asker]

If he’s inspired by games? Whatchu mean?

[DancingQueen16]

Well maybe I'd break up with him if never pays attention to me and is only interested in his video games

[Asker]

Fair enough dancing queen

[EmmaMary]

He wouldn't be my boyfriend to start with... Simples.

[Asker]

Why not though? Isn’t that a preconceived notion that all gamers are bad?

[EmmaMary]

If he wishes to spend more time with his bloody stupid, pathetic little games than he does with me, then I'm not remotely interested in him.

[Asker]

But I didn’t say that he would

[EmmaMary]

But at the same time you haven't said he wouldn't.

[Asker]

Yes that’s true because I want unbiased opinions.. if I had said “he’s a gamer but also would love you take care of you spend all the time with you yada yada yada” then people would have less reason to share their true feelings

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the explanation, this now makes absolute perfect sense.

[Asker]

Thanks for understanding 🌹

[AsaKyo]

If that's all he did and had no life outside of video games, then yeah, I probably would

[Asker]

Probably has a life outside of video games just not a crazy life like you see in movies

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t mind it if he gamed but if he put his toes on my TV I’ll probably punish them

[Asker]

You will punish his toes? Ahahaha wtf what does that even mean?

[Opinion Owner]

I’ll spank them with a wooden spoon until they turn red.. I don’t play games hun

[Asker]

Damn 😱 please don’t ma’am I apologize sincerely that would be painful

[marshmallowcream]

Wouldn’t date someone like that in the first place

[Asker]

Why not?

[marshmallowcream]

Because he would be spending too much time playing games. All girls need attention and if I’m not getting it/not spending enough quality time with that person then is not going to work out

[Asker]

What if he gives you attention but also games? Would you try to change his hobbies because they’re deemed “unhealthy”?

[marshmallowcream]

No , you should never try to change someone , As long as their not actually unhealthy (I. e addicted to gaming/can’t live without playing a day in his life ) and as you said they’re not lacking giving attention and also being a good partner , then there’s no issues

[Asker]

Makes sense and absolutely true

[WhitneySnow]

No not necessarily

[Asker]

Good

[DesiUwU]

I wouldn't, time to hardcore game with him

[Asker]

You’re cool.. high five

[DesiUwU]

*misses your hand and hits your face* my bad... hehe

[Asker]

Lol I didn’t see that coming

[DesiUwU]

me either tbh 😔😮‍💨

[Asker]

It’s ok we’ll just let bygones be bygones