Does accepting expensive gifts from a man make a girl a Gold digger?

[Anonymous]

He is her admirer, they aren't dating or anything..

[PeekABooItsMe]

She's only a gold digger if she is staying friends for the gifts. If she's friends with him not for the gifts then she isn't. He sounds very needy though...

[Asker]

Off topic, but You look gorgeous <3

[Asker]

I like your make up :)

[PeekABooItsMe]

Awwww thankyou! That's so sweet! That was last Christmas so very recent haha x

[Shelina77]

This is just being polite. And if you feel like you're a gold digger bc you accept those gifts you can always say thanks but no thanks

[EndlessCrow]

Gold digging is seeking or taking advantage of a rich person and only because their rich if he by his own desire gift her things then i'd say no

[IlyaTheImpaler]

It makes her a Gold acceptor.

[IlyaTheImpaler]

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[Asker]

I'll be in your debt forever 😂😂😂

[IlyaTheImpaler]

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[Asker]

:) <3

[PrincessPie]

Nope, if she didn't ask for it, i don't see any issues.

[ChronicThinker]

Depends. If she just takes it for monetary gain and has no interest in him, then yeah, kind of.

[yoshi_wanna_ask]

If he's just a nice guy you know who's trying to get your attention with gifts, that on it's own, isn't a Gold Digger.

You qualify as a Gold Digger if;

- You demand he gives you expensive things
- You expect him to give you expensive things whether you say so or not
- You know he's not so stable financially but you accept the gifts and don't say anything
- You know he's married/engaged/a father who has to have the money to pay for things for his family/partner/kids but you ignore this and accept the gifts anyway

Something else Gold Diggers tend to do is show little to no gratitude for the things they receive, so, I include being ungrateful for expensive gifts but not everyone would. It's basically accepting things from someone who has other important expenses (who usually can't afford it) or treating their money as if it's your own. Usually these peoples are mistresses ('cheating hoes') who manipulate a guy away from his family and friends to spend his time/money/attention on them instead.

[Dawsonwc]

Yep. You know the gifts are expensive. You know that very few people who aren’t related to you give you gifts of this cost this often. It’s not your birthday or a holiday and even if it is I’m assuming these gifts are more expensive then you believe appropriate for these events. You are keeping the gifts and you’re not giving gifts in return that suggest you’re sacrificing an equivalent amount of your wealth. So you as the gift reciever are actively accepting gifts and experiencing a disproportionately beneficial lifestyle at the expense of the gift giver. If you wish not to be a gold digger ask for him to stop giving you gifts. I’m not condemning your behavior if he’s okay with being used in this way then no harm is done but if you aren’t in the relationship for the financial benefits reject them otherwise you’re a gold digger or you’re lying to yourself.

[BadAssHunter]

Broke men^ lol They get me every time.

[Dawsonwc]

@BadAssHunter I’m not broke I’m just not giving away money to a women who isn’t worth it.

[Asker]

Worth it.. wow.

[Asker]

What makes a woman worth giving gifts to?

[Dawsonwc]

If you can’t provide for my family If I were to die and HAD to depend on another random stranger to care for my children I don’t think it’s WORTH the risk and efforts of dating her or in other words she’s not worth it. Hate me if you like I’m not going to cave to your insulted ego and change my opinion. I care about my family both past and future and I refuse to see anything wrong with that

[Dawsonwc]

Nothing. No body is worth a gift. It’s a choice I make. It’s the risk and effort that I’m stingy with. The gifts are things I do out of my own desire after I feel confident in her and our relationship

[Asker]

I'm sorry I didn't mean to offend you in any way..

[Asker]

I don't understand the children part though..

[Dawsonwc]

I judge who I date based on whether or not I feel confident potentially having a family with her. Otherwise you’re a friend with our without benifits at best. Building a family means I have to trust you to care for my kids. If we have a kid and I die before they’re old enough to care for themselves I on my deathbed have to hope that you can raise and protect them without me. I don’t want to date a woman who HAS to depend on another man to do that. I don’t want her risking placing my daughter in the home of a rapist or something because she has no other way to provide for them. I want a wife who has the ability to do everything on her own so that she could make calm and wise decisions. I don’t care if she remarried after my death or a divorce I just want the comfort of knowing my kids are safe.

[Asker]

Oh that's understandable.. You seem like a wise guy.. I hope I can be like that too once I get older and have a job and stuff...
But.. is it wrong to be a housewife?

[Dawsonwc]

Nope nothing wrong with that at all. My favorite aunt is a stay at home mom married to a physicist. But she reads every day has a degree in mathematics and taught school for a few years. She volunteered as a career and college counselor at her daughter’s school. There house is always clean, she cooks nearly everyday at a professional chef level, and handles nearly all of their monetary business. Or in other words she’s in no way lazy. She has a resume and constantly builds skills and if my uncle had died while their kids were younger she would’ve done just fine. I’d love a wife like that. I don’t need a women who’s going to work a paying job just one willing to work and work hard.

[Asker]

That's really cool. I like your aunt. So basically become a lady that can support herself and the children if something happens to the husband..
Nice

[Dawsonwc]

Yep pretty simple. I’d give the world to that women if I could

[BadAssHunter]

Oh but he'll sleep with worthless women. Makes so much sense.

[Dawsonwc]

@BadAssHunter Yep sure do and I tell them upfront how I feel about them.

[Dawsonwc]

@BadAssHunter I do however take offense that you’ve twisted my words to say that these women or worthlesss. I said they weren’t worth it and by it I mean the extra effort I put into dating. Nothing wrong with having sex with a friend. So far none of them have had a problem with it

[Dawsonwc]

I feel like both of you are attributing the word worth to the girls when I’m not intending for it to be seen that way. A girl could be a absolutely perfect but if she lives over seas and I have to sell my body just to see her she’s not worth it. Sometimes girls have specific personality traits which aren’t bad things but make them very difficult to date she’s not worth it. I guess it is really referring to the struggle involved in making a relationship work. Poor wording on my part I guess I’m just unsure how to express that concisely.

[BadAssHunter]

The opposite of worth is unworthy which is worthless. You will sleep with someone you wouldn't even marry. "Nothing wrong with having sex with a friend" what? Know the difference between a friend, a girlfriend and a lady of the night. You don't have sex with your friends. Friends aren't sexual partners.

[BadAssHunter]

Someone like you talking about worth of a woman. Please.

[Dawsonwc]

@BadAssHunter What backwards ass world do you live in where you can only have sex with someone you’re going to marry? I’m not having sex with people who obviously want more than I can offer but people definitely just have sex sometimes. I mean birth control exist for a reason. Have you never stepped foot on a college campus before because casual sex is rampant at nearly all of them?

[Dawsonwc]

Also unworthy is not a synonym of worthless

[BadAssHunter]

Backwards? You're the backwards one. Banging your friends.
Did I say that? Read again. You don't sleep with your friends, weirdo. People you sleep with are either women you have hookups with (not friends) or a girlfriend or wife.

[Dawsonwc]

@BadAssHunter We clearly live in very different environments and honestly at this point I feel like you’re just trying to come out of this conversation feeling like you’ve one. So sure you’re right I’m a bad person. I’ll try and learn from this.

[BadAssHunter]

You obviously have no self worth because you sleep with those types of women. Unworthy and worthless are basically the exact same thing.

[BadAssHunter]

You're so fake. Don't talk about other worthiness to be with you while you yourself have no self worth whatsoever.

[Dawsonwc]

@BadAssHunter you’re right. Thanks for setting me straight. I’ll try and be a better man for you.

[Dawsonwc]

Actually no I’m not going to sarcastically walk away from this conversation just because I find @BadAssHunter to be an exhausting hypocritical bully. 1. Every date you go on you judge the other person you put in a certain amount of work to see if the relationship will work out. That’s normal. If you see something wrong with deciding to stop putting in effort into a relationship that you don’t think is going to work out no one will critique you for it but if I choose to do literally the exact same thing all of a sudden I’m seen as disrespecting women. Yes I’ll admit that I may have used poor word choice but I tried to correct that and yet you choose to continuously paint this picture that I’m treating women like trash. Fuck you. 2. You don’t know my sexual history. I don’t sleep with trash. No one I’ve laid a hand on has been anything less than a fantastic women but absolutely everyone comes with circumstances.

[Dawsonwc]

The world isn’t some fantasy where I live happily ever after with every girl I have emotions for. I’m sorry that most people I’ve slept with don’t have a problem with remaining my friend. I am extremely cautious about who I sleep with In fact I’ve never slept with a woman I haven’t known for over a year. So again fuck you. 3. Where the fuck do you come off demeaning me telling me that I have no self worth while simultaneously chastising me for saying a women isn’t worth it. What kind of inconsistency is that. If you want to talk to me as if you’re some authority on how other people can and can’t live their life at least provide some substance. Keep down voting me I don’t care I’ve literally done my best to help thousands of people on this site I’m bound to get a couple wrong. Sue me.

[Dawsonwc]

None of this is directed at you @ZELLxoxo you’ve been a pleasure to talk too

[BadAssHunter]

How am I a hypocrite?
Never said that and you sleep with your friends. Using see the point of sleeping with people you don't see a future with. You're using these "fantastic women" for sex and vice versa. You both have no self worth.

[BadAssHunter]

Your words mot mine so be mad at yourself. You just had to throw in profanity. Bravo 👏

[BadAssHunter]

You're bashing a woman for accepting expensive gifts and not giving any back. Funny how you're judging them for something petty like that and calling them gold diggers yet you sleep with women and keep then as "friends" to screw any time you want. So, what does that make you?

[BadAssHunter]

Your female friends are literally sex dolls and you expect a woman to be "worth" continuing to date someone like you. PLEASE. you deserve exactly what you are and nothing better.

[Dawsonwc]

@BadAssHunter That gave me everything I needed. I have no reason to continue this conversation. My friends aren’t sex dolls they’re conscious, free willed, intelligent, human beings that use their life and their body as they please. They’re artist, scientist, business women, teachers, soldiers, and any other FUCKING thing they wanna be. Deciding to have sex when they want isn’t a crime and has absolutely nothing to do with their self worth and people like you are the reason little girls grow up believing their only value to society is pumping out babies. You can reply back to this if you want but this will be my last time replying to you. Stop telling other women what they can and can’t do with THEIR bodies. Stop insulting and demonizing women who enjoy sex. Stop trying to force everyone into your shallow morally restrictive box. Maybe YOUR only value to men is what’s in between your legs and YOU can’t keep a man without using your body as bait but don’t you dare drag other women down

[Dawsonwc]

For the record I’ve never slept with a gold digger every women I’ve had any kind of sexual relationship with payed her own bills. It’s true I chose not to date them but it was not because I didn’t find them financially responsible enough.

[Dawsonwc]

In fact I’ve never slept with a women I didn’t see as marriage material. A few of them are married now. Their husbands like me. I’ve held their babies. Even attended their weddings. Human beings have the capacity to have sex and be emotionally attached to each other without assuming that every relationship end in marriage. Seeing as all but one of the girls I’ve had sex with still communicates with me to this day and all but two are currently in healthy stable relationships I don’t think I’m doing anything overly damaging to anyone. You seem to be clinging to the values of a different era and being someone born raised and currently living in Alabama I’ve been coming into contact with girls like you for years and I’ll end by saying you have all the right in the world to believe whatever you want too about how the world works but be careful assuming you can’t be wrong because like every other human being you’re probably wrong a lot. Failure is nothing more than an opportunity to grow.

[BadAssHunter]

"I'm done with this conversation" *writes a novel response*

[BadAssHunter]

And you're the reason why little girls grow up thinking they're just a sex doll for thristy, pervy men like you.
How about you stop telling women what yet can and cannot accept from a man and stop calling women gold diggers just because wealthy men want to spoil them. You're just mad because you don't have bank. You get free sex from your sex friends. Yeah, that says a lot about yours and their worth.

[BadAssHunter]

You are absolutely no sense. I use my body? You and your friends use each others body and apparently to you the only value of you and your friends is what's between your legs. Terrible comeback because you just contradicted yourself. You're literally speaking about you and the people you have sex with.

[BadAssHunter]

You have no sense of right or wrong buddy lol yYouve held the babies of women you used for sex and you are friends with their husbands? That's real sick. I don't even wanna know what's going on there but thanks for sharing your dirty lifestyle with everyone.

[BadAssHunter]

Says women can be whatever they wanna be but bashes ones who chose to be gold diggers. Oh, but ones who are promiscuous are fine. They're ABOVE a girl digger because they give free sex.

[Dawsonwc]

@BadAssHunter...

[BadAssHunter]

Good boy :)

[Dawsonwc]

@BadAssHunter 1. I mention my friend’s family to express that I’m still an active part of their lives despite no longer being in a sexual or romantic relationship with them because even though we have a sexual history they’re still my friends and important to me. 2. From what I understand you are the product of a sexual relationship just like everyone else in this world. I have no shame in admitting I enjoy sex. If that makes me a perv, fine. 3. In my first post I wrote “I’m not condemning [“golddigger’s”] behavior if he’s okay with being used in this way then no harm is done”. I do not care if you like dating men who just give you everything. 4. I’ve never claimed anyone was better, just better for me. 5. I really doubt @ZELLxoxo is enjoying this pointless back and forth. I’d love to end this accepting that we are differently minded people if that’s okay with you. Unfortunately I’m assuming it’s probably not. Either way feel free to state your opinion but don’t misrepresent mine.

[system73554]

I don't think it would make her a gold digger. It's kind of awkward and I would probably not except the gift.

Then I've also known some people who make good money and give things away like nothing, where for me relatively would be way out of my range. One friend gave me a 300 dalar computer drawing pad which I could not afford. I turned it down but they insisted as they had a new one and don't use it. I took it great fully and have since been her free go to graphics and 3D print specialist. Figure it's the least I can do.

[Anonymous]

Let's re-phrase this question for a second: Does a man trying to buy his way into a woman's pants make him kind of a sleazeball and/or just a TAD dubious? Why do we always shame women for being golddiggers instead of calling out men for using their money in order to manipulate women into sleeping with them? It takes two to tango. Goldiggers and the men who indulge have an unspoken agreement between them: You give me what I want, and I'll give you what you want. If one person doesn't uphold their end of the bargain, than the other can simply just terminate the relationship. So, please; men like this know what they're getting into. Calling a woman a golddigger after she takes the bait is a bit like calling somebody a thief, right after you've handed them your wallet, with a signed note saying , "Please, take me."

[FinalVow]

that is some old fashioned right there. that sounds like courtship dayum haven't seen or heard of that in my life until now. I guess it really depends on the intention behind both parties. if he has romantic feelings and that is how he expresses well there are better ways but whatever. if she doesn't have romantic feelings and is accepting them because they are expensive then she is leading him on (in which case slap the fk out that ho) and absolutely she is digging for gold harder than the miners who went to Alaska for gold during the gold rush.

[PrettyKitty31]

Ehhh I don't think it makes her a gold digger but I think it puts her a step closer to being one. While I wouldn't characterize her as a gold digger I think what she's doing is kind of shitty. Flowers is one thing, expensive gifts is a whole other ball game.
The fact that's she's excepting them is encouraging him to have expectations of more with her. That's pretty unfair of her to do to him. In the end she's going to be called a gold digger and he's going to be the guy that insists every woman is a gold digger. They both need to stop this shit now, in my opinion.

[Terge942]

It depends - if he is starting to buy you some stuff no matter what it is it's a clear sign he's trying to make you his property, guys don't do that if they are not expecting something from you. If you don't like him as a guy better don't and explain that you can't accept it. If you are just feeling uncomfortable accepting these gifts accept to not offend him and try to pull on some flirty joke like "thanks, but you know you can't buy me with material stuff, " or smth like that. Be grateful but meanwhile try to make him understand that it is not needed

[VegetaSSB]

i don´t think she could be considered a gold digger for just accepting a freely given gift from someone, having or not a relationship with said person, i would consider it being gold digging if she tricked the guy into giving her an expensive gift even when she doesn´t have any interest in pursuing a relationship, by faking she would be interested.

[Porcelaine]

no, not at all. the only way it would make her a golddigger is if she only stays with him for those gifts, or if she only looks for a man who will give her expensive gifts and wouldn't date him if he gave bi gifts. but if all the gift giving stopped or if he got broke, it will show whether she is a golddigger if she leaves him or not.

[Porcelaine]

*if he gave no gifts, lol.. ;D and I just saw you said it's just an admirer, not a person she dates. well that still wouldn't make her a gold digger, but perhaps she is leading him on. if an admirer is giving gifts, he is probably expecting something in return, so unless she is willing to do something for him, she should stop accepting those gifts and giving him false hope.

[cosmicc]

If a guy gave me a gift. I would be hesitant but will take ot anyways bc I live receiving gifts tbh💕💕 from anyone. Would live if my boyfriend gave me gifts more often ;(. I would gift him back and let him know that it was out of kindness and friendship and nothing more than that

[yeahbaby7783]

Only under false pretenses. If you take advantage of someone because they are attracted to you. Then yes. Anyone who does this to anyone for personal gain is not just a gold digger but is being delusional with themselves. You should always take into account how your actions effect others on a personal level. Ask yourself where do you draw the line with morals? Just be honest with yourself and others. If you don't care. Say that. If you can't do that people you are in the wrong. I can respect people who are real. And believe in their convictions. Don't be afraid for people to know who you Are or what you believe no mattwe what that is. But be prepared and ok what others think about it. If its wrong any same person knows that inside. Always be open to the idea that you can be better. If your a gold digger say it proudly. That doesn't mean I respect your ideals but I can respect your honesty. I hope that one day you aspire to be a better person.

[kenssxd]

Golddigger - a woman who forms relationships with men purely to obtain money or gifts from them.

Simply accepting gift, of course not a gold digger.
But taking expensive gifts , if not romantically interested, is wrong. Still not gold digging but morally wrong

[nocarter]

Completely agree.

[pookybear123]

I couldn’t accept it if I was not attracted to this person. I had a friend who was trying desperately to get with me. He would try to shower me with gifts. I just had no interest in him like that so refused them. He might have liked the chase but I didn’t.

[Anonymous]

You’re only a gold digger if you lead him on and let him believe he has a chance with you when he doesn’t. If you’ve made it clear that you are just friends and he still buys you gifts then there is nothing wrong with that. Just be careful because someone people give gifts because they expect something in return - other people are just really generous and caring.

[HolyPrepuce]

I think a rose, or a flower of some kind, would be more fitting for someone I admire.
Buying you expensive gifts, when he's just an admirer... isn't that a little too forward? And no ofcourse it doesn't make you a gold digger. It rude to refuse gifts, after all.

[DianaCrimson]

Accepting them dosnt make her a gold digger, BUT expecting them from him does. there's a thin line between being polite by not refusing a gift someone got for you depending of the intentions/ and actually using this person for those things. If he got those things with the intentions to sleep with her or something sexual and she isn't into this it would be best to refuse and make things clear.

[Gianna17]

As long as she isn't leading him to believe she wants a relationship when she really doesn't then no. Just make it clear you don't want anything from him or you want to stay friends and he will probably stop, if not then you can gladly accept it because if that's the case he's probably not just doing it because he likes you.

[Alice2398]

If it's all the time and she's telling you to buy that stuff for her then yes she's a gold digger. My dad constantly spoils my mum to death with expensive gifts but she deserves it and sometimes I wish I had someone who'd do the same once an while for me. If a guy constantly bought me expensive gifts I'd feel guilty and uncomfortable. I'm more of a sentimental person rather than a materialistic person. Id be happy he but thought in to it rather than the money

[DuhBeefWeasel]

I wouldn't exactly say so. If these things are genuinely gifted to her then there's not much to argue there. Now on the other hand though, if there is no other reason for her to want to hang around this guy other than to receive gifts, then I would say she is a Gold Digger. It's one thing to ACCEPT gifts and a completely different thing to EXPECT gifts.

[bacca400]

No. When she demands gifts, of any kind, that makes her a gold digger. If he offers, that does not necessarily make her a gold digger, but it could make him a sucker, that is, if his gifts overshoot his budget.

Source: As soon as I found out a girl I was dating was a sexist gold digger I dumped her.

[shan_shan]

A gift is nothing but many expensive gifts from someone you have no interest or relation yeah unless she likes him otherwise she is just misleading the guy

[purplesparkle]

No. A gold digger is a woman (or a man) who dates and/or has sex with someone only because they're rich and is taking advantage of it.

A woman who prefers rich men and likes to receive expensive gifts or expects a guy to pay on a date is not a gold digger.

[pleasestopthis]

I personally wouldn't accept expensive gifts from a man I'm not interested in.
I don't think a man would spend a lot of money without wanting something in exchange. If a girl knows it, and still accepts the gift, she's being silly (to say the least) because he may use that against her later if she doesn't give him the interest he expects to receive and say she's a b**** and a gold digger.

[pleasestopthis]

But to be explicit: She's a gold digger if she tries to keep his interest alive to receive gifts from him, or if she thinks he has an obligation to give her gifts in order to gain her affection.

[drafted]

No, gold diggers seek out men with money and engage in relationships with them - primarily because they have money (they would not speak to them otherwise). Accepting a gift is just accepting a gift. It's not good form to accept gifts for a long time without confirming/clarifying no strings are attached, just to be sure.

[Rasmus0008]

It is only ever golddiggin if you exspect og ask for something if the boy out of pure kindness gives you a present be happy for it 😉

[candycanehearts]

no, as long as she actually likes him and she's not leading him on because she wants gifts or money or whatever, then it is fine and super cute!

[BExNeko]

If he offers you the gift, then no. at least that's my opinion... But I mean... It's logic right? It's offered to you for god's sakes 😂😂😂 not your fault 😂

[sadismyname]

If you're not in a relationship it's really weird to accept expensive gifts. It will give him the feeling that you want to be with him. And if you don't want that just don't accept it. It just wrong. You're not a gold digger but it still isn't right.

[Pirate_bunny]

It's a gift. If he didn't want to get it for get then he shouldn't buy it, she's not a gold digger.

[Udbhav_Bantwal]

Who doesn't like getting nice gifts? You would become a gold digger if you were being with him just for his money or house or whatever... It's ok to accept gifts, that doesn't make a girl a gold digger...

[Edanurus]

It surprises me how many girls on here seem to take no issue with this. Not from the side of being a gold digger but because it seems like the sort of thing that could lead to problems.

In my opinion it doesn't make you a gold digger since your not actively searching it out but to pretend that an 'admirer' would buy an expensive gift just as a friendly gesture is either trying to justify taking it or naivety.

[Jmcmanning]

If she is not asking for hinting for the gifts, no she is not a gold digger. I would be curious of why she continues to let this person buy her expensive gifts but otherwise it's her choice and no one elses for what she does.

[rylee_may]

No I mean its nice to receive gifts i mean they put in money in effort for you

[Anonymous]

You already know the answer to this question. You're just hoping someone will tell u it's ok. It's not okay, and yes, gold digger it fitting.

[macdaddy36]

It depends on the reasoning behind it.. if a man is giving it with a romantic or such intention and a women accepts knowing she has no interest in him other than his wallet then yes

[dee93]

I’m not sure the situation, but I would say it depends on both the girl and the relationship. In general, no. But I think if the relationship is based on that, and she loves his gifts but not him, clearly yes

[Razal]

Nope. It does not.
But if it becomes a habit then possibly

[Anonymous]

It depends, if you have absolutely 0 intention of doing anything besides taking his gifts, then yes. Some guys are bad at flirting, so they buy things you might like, but it sucks when someone takes them and runs off. At least be sure they really want to give it to you and aren't just trying to get you to notice them.

[Anonymous]

Not if he is just giving it too her... She's smart... He is the stupid idiot... Only way I buy a girl expensive gifts is if I have been in a relationship over 5-6 year or married... That's it... Would never by a girl an expensive gift just because I liked her..

[zulfiqarali]

Yes in this case... if there is no relationship or intend to have one then it's not appropriate or ethical to accept expensive gifts.. it's just a bribe either receiving which need to pay in future

[bubble_tea]

You're not if you didn't hint (repeatedly?) that you wish you had the money to get all those stuff yourself.. and he then 'surprised' you with those gifts.

[howiethree]

Not at all, unless she asks for gifts, it's entireley up to him to give or not!!

[howiethree]

If he's going to buy a gift, she would be a fool not to accept, but she has to let him know where he stands in her life , not to lead him on , but except gracefully👍

[eMaNnUeL]

No, what makes a woman a gold digger is when she seeks out materialistic things. When she uses a man just to get the things she wants or when she pretends to be into a man simply because he is wealthy. Accepting a gift isn't being a gold digger.

[Jisoo_lover5683]

No
I believe she would be if she sought him out because she knew he was wealthy and wanted to use him

[BobbyLoveless]

If the guy doesn't know how to get a clue, then that isn't her fault... Now, if she is leading him on, playing with his emotions or using him, then yeah, Peru much she's a good digger...

[TisforTori]

I would never accept a gift from someone that wasn’t a friend, family member, or partner. That’s just weird

[zenbullet]

It's the first step
Be more worried that you will learn lame nice guys will always buy you stuff

And that will ruin you as person

[name_is_eric]

Does it really matter in the end?
Let's say it's considered being a gold digger, what's the big deal?

In my opinion, it's not being a gold digger. How I see a gold digger is s woman who dates a rich man, like that Playboy guy.

[Jbuff39]

No more like she's using his interest in her as a way to get what she wants he's in the "friend zone" women do it all the time. I can't hate. Get it I just don't like a woman I'm serious with to accept those gifts from others

[Mexicoman101]

No, not if he wanted to give it to her & understands their dynamic won't change because of it.

[S24GX02]

Well since it's a gift. No. Although some men might want to achieve something with these expensive gifts.

[JustKaiB]

Nope. That's just taking advantage of free stuff. A gift is a gift. Its the guys fault if he thinks giving a gift makes a woman owe him something.

[kaymark]

Depends if that's the only thing keeping you with him or communicating with him

[tiny2013]

I think asking for expensive gifts would make her a gold digger. Accepting them is just being polite

[AquaBoo]

If you're interested in him, no it does not. If you are giving him false hope for a future relationship, then yes.

[dragonfly6516]

No, gold diggers specifically go looking for rich men and only date then for their money.

[i7iu7e]

No. It makes you naive thinking strings aren't attached

[fauchelevent]

Not really unless she purposefully maintained contact with him to get gifts.