Are narrow hips a dealbreaker?

[Anonymous]

I always hear how guys prefer wider hips. Mine are not straight but I'm definitely small compared to others with a defined dip. Is that considered unattractive?

[Anonymous]

some do some dont. sure its more attractive to have wider hips but some guys are not super attracted to it and most guys are attracted to a variety of different looks or we would be extinct by now. i have narrow hips as well but i lift weights for it and i dont like them but im not very insecure about them anymore (but maybe thats because i dont want to have children so my hip size doesn't really matter that much).
plus as long as they are proportionate who cares? there are a lot of attractive women out there who dont have the best looking bodies but guys will still find them attractive.

[wingattebaby16]

I had narrow hips before my prego and when i lose weight they will be narrow again.

Yes, a lot of guys stare at and a lust after a girl with nice wide sexy hips.

Yet, when i am in bed with a guy, having narrow hips really turns some guys on. it is easier to do some positions and guys love grabbing my hips hard when we are doing doggy.

TBH, the real problem with narrow hips is when you have a baby. It can make having the baby hard.

But i think you have to get guys to tell you what they like.

[Dark93]

Wider hips are generally more attractive because it triggers an instinctual part of our minds that says that body type is good for bearing children. However with advances in medicine it doesn't really matter what your hip size is. And it certainly doesn't make you unattractive.

[Asker]

Hips size has little to do with ability to bear children though. I've got a bunch and had no problem at all.

[Dark93]

It does in fact make it a little easier to have children, a wider pelvis can expand further as the baby passes through that area. But women's bodies are made to basically funnel the baby out. Wide hips simply make it a little bit easier.

[GuyWhatRunsThePlace]

Smaller = better. Then again a petite frame is my strong preference.

[Asker]

Thanks. I'm glad some guys think that.

[GuyWhatRunsThePlace]

Yeah, I'm an outlier it seems. Small chest, petite frame, tomboyish personality.

[Asker]

Well, I'm not small chested but I am petite.

[GuyWhatRunsThePlace]

Need more girls like you in the world, for sure.

[genericname85]

it doesn't matter how wide your hips are in comparison to your friends. it matters how wide they are in comparison to your waist and chest. if they are pretty narrow that's i guess you could say "less then perfect" but who is perfect? it doesn't make you sexually unattractive or anything. it just makes you you.

[FinalVow]

it is just an evolution thing women with wider hips aka baby making hips have higher odds of having healthy offspring which is a good thing when trying to contribute to the survival of the race. So I wouldn't consider it a deal breaker as clearly there are way to many of us so we surviving just fine.

[gcusack]

People are geneticly wired to look for others that look like they have strong genes to pass on to their offspring wide hips in women tend to be that sign, I personally look for an athletic build which is not usually hugely wide but big enought that you can't draw a straigh line from shoulders to ankles. Also everyone has a type for some its super skinny

[Anonymous]

You're right, it's said that guys like wide hips (wouldn't say prefer). However, I think that's only said to appease women with wide hips and is mostly said by other women...
Personally, I've wide hips and thick thighs and think most (white) guys actually prefer women with narrower hips. Just look at top models and most famous Hollywood celebrities.

[blondfrog]

No not really. I mean yes your right and I know where your going with this. As its been scientifically proven that us men find women with wider hips more attractive. Your also going to get some undecided and untruthful answers. That's just because this is more of a subconscious feature that us men find attractive.

[TsundereMatrix]

I say not a dealbreaker. I have small hips too because I’m a small person and no one comments on them unless they are commenting on my size

[debi2622]

Mine are the same. I always envied those that had more curves there. But my boyfriend thinks mine are perfect. To each their own!!!

[Anon-ymous1]

Uh you've heard wrong. Only idiots like wider hips. Slimmer hips are more attractive... by a lot.

[Agent]

Nah. Wide hips are reflective of high estrogen, smart ass.
Looks like we're going to have to meet up and fight irl.

[Anon-ymous1]

@Agent Alright. Let's do it.

[brettam]

No. Slender/delicate is still quite lovely. People have just watched too much of the Kardashians.

[Hidden_P]

It’s partly about proportion but no, I think it only matters to men who want you to birth a rugby team.

My friends are all very small framed bar a couple and have been more desirable than me and my fellow thunder hip buddies

[AnanSeven]

It depends on the guy. Many guys like variety, so no, it wouldn't be a dealbreaker for them. Other guys like the twiggy look. One of the most beautiful women I ever saw was tall and thin with a small chest and narrow hips.

[BoshoM]

Am 100% sure you are beautiful as you are.

Doesn't matter what they like, it shouldn't be the body they are looking for, it should be your personality

[ariadneR]

I do not have an hourglass figure at all, and I kinda sorta hate it. But is there anything I can do about it? No. In my eyes I look like a H.
But my boyfriend thinks I am fine the way I am. And that's all that matters to me.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Not really. It's a preference and all features are attractive to different people. Personally I like petite girls with narrow hips. They look ticklish and it turns me on.

[Alan180188]

it's natural instinct for men to love wider hips since it's a sign of greater fertility abilities, but that's the cave man side, mostly men are more interested in the face nowadays...

[TripleAce]

I personally look at a girls hips as one of the first things lol... I like pronounced hips

straights hips don't work for me... I need to see or feel a curve... no curve it feels like a dude

[harun5]

According to ur age definitely u will have nice structure... A true lover won't see those type of hip, b--bs, blablabla... To fuck u definitely guy will see those...

[Shimy]

There are some guys who prefer girls with smaller hips. And there are some guys who don't care at all

[CubsterShura]

While it is not always attractive to everyone, it is not a deal breaker to most guys either. Don't worry.

[neoagent1]

You have an adorable face.

[Udbhav_Bantwal]

To me it is... I like curves and wider hips and stuff and so do many other guys but there are a lot of guys who also like small hips and petite women and stuff...