Have you ever dated someone who you were embarrassed by? Or has your partner ever been embarrassed by you?

[Allie_Oops]

I'm talking like even being seen with you or introducing you to friends and family. We all do little embarrassing things, but has anything been so embarrassed that your partner did not want to be seen with you or vice versa?

[vishna]

Mmm I wasn't regularly embarrassed by him... but my ex was a weeaboo, he was, no way around it. On fb his name is in English and Japanese... his business card was in English and Japanese, he dated a thai girl online (b/c the Japanese girls probably weren't biting)... but when I checked his okcupid profile his location was set as Japan >.> bench was living in the deep south.

So, his slight obsession with Japan (but never ever ever China lmao XD) was a bit off putting... also, I like Mandarin (as a language) more than Japanese, and I don't think he liked that very much XD

But he was really cute and had a great ass and a thick dick... so, I wasn't like mortified (plus he wasn't sooooo bad, he could cook well too) but yea, he was a weeaboo.

[pingiluv]

Yes lol my daughters dad... he was such a geek ugh. And he thought he was “killing it” when he showed up in full cowboy gear on one of our dates to my friends 21st. I was so embarrassed, keep in mind I’m a city girl. I feel bad being so superficial but cowboys aren’t my thing

[Platypus007]

OMG! Yes!!!
There is a specific type of girlfriend, I have no idea what the percentage is, maybe 1 out of 8 or 10, who are perfect when alone, you feel perfect behind closed doors. However, once they have to share you, with the rest of the world, they see the rest of the world as “competition and/or threats” in one way or another, their whole strategy is to distract you, let you know amazing sex could be happening if it were not for “being normal humans socializing” and when she doesn’t get her way, then the gloves come off, and the embarrassment begins.
I think every guy, who are experienced, have all dealt with this profile of girlfriend before

[tysthename]

I have unfortunately, back in my sophmore year of high school I dated a gothic/emo chick because I thought i liked her even though I was embarrassed to be seen with her by my friends or other school kids because she had more of an I don't give a fuck attitude and was seen more "dude like" even though she wasn't, she just wasn't the typical blonde girl cheerleader, I admit it was quite shallow of me to not want to do things in public with her or even in front of my friends.

[Logorithim]

Yeah, a couple of divas, who really made scenes. It didn't last more than 3 months with them.

I mostly don't care what other People think of my Partner; it's what I think that Counts, but everyone has their Limits and dealbreakers.

[ragequeen]

Yeah, my ex embarrassed the hell outta me once. He gave me one of those candy bras you get at sex shops OPENLY IN THE SCHOOL CORRIDOR. Everybody laughed and looked at me. I was so mad at him.

[Queen-of-Hearts]

Well it didn't start this way, but my boyfriend, once he started drinking, got very embarrassing very quickly. He can't hold his beer worth anything, and he'd drink too much anyway, all the time, and so I'd have to come pick him up from the library, grocery store, his ex-workplaces, or I'd come home to him sitting on the front steps passed out in some stupid position-- if not on the sidewalk somewhere on my way home... Almost every time the neighbors or someone from where he'd been would call me afterwards and ask if he was okay, because of course they saw everything...

So ya, that was pretty embarrassing for me at least. But he never did anything SUPER bad, like cuss people out or flash anyone, so I guess it could've been worse...

[Kibler]

At first I will admit I was embarrased by my boyfriends hairstyle. He wore pigtails that looked like something a little girl might wear, and it looked even worse to me when he dyed his hair red. But after a while I started to love how bold he was and how he was the only grown man who could pull off pigtails so well.😂 I learned to love the things about him that stood out. They were no longer flaws to me they were the unique things that made him special. His clothing, the way he acted, his friends, all of it was something I would have been embarrassed about had I not realised how much there was to love about everything that came with him.

[JellyDonutguy96]

was he "special" though?

[winterfox10]

I haven't dated anyone like that, however, my family is a source of constant embarrassment for me. It's to the point that I'm actually scared to bring any potential romantic interests around these people. I would never want to be seen by anyone who matters, for example, with my brother, for fear that he would speak ill behind my back and try to destroy my relationship, or that he would spout off his anti-muslim and anti-immigrant views.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'm in that situation right now... my wife has become something I am ashamed to be with. She's fat, doesn't brush her teeth, and doesn't shower so she has dandruff and it's disgusting. I've tried shaming her into making some changes but she just doesn't care.

To make it worse, she still expects intimate contact, which only results in her being so offended by my remarks of how she should clean up.

Yeah, I am ashamed to be seen with her in public. She's nasty.

[laurieluvsit]

How about when I took a couple of girlfriends to a nude beach who had never been to one before and told them to "strip". Does that count as a "date" ... lol

[JellyDonutguy96]

is that you on the top?

[laurieluvsit]

@JellyDonutguy96 Hi Mr JDG. Most pictures I post are from the internet. On occasion I sneak one in that is me, or one, or both of, my sisters, but I do not disclose which ones are, or are not, for security and privacy purposes, but thank you for asking! :)

[JellyDonutguy96]

I about to say though

[thisGUYknows]

i went hiking and smoking with some friends and a girl I was newly dating. when my date and I were alone she asked if we (meaning NASA i guess) landed on the sun. that's when I asked myself if the sex was worth it.

9/10. might or might not do again

[secretmom]

I wouldn't say dated bc he was a creeper who insisted we were dating even though we weren't. But he was a bull rider, and a mooch. He only wanted to be around me to use my shower and sleep on my couch. He wasn't homeless, just a rodeo moron. 🙄 I hated being seen in public with him but he was like a leech.

[PinkMichae]

Yes. I met this really nice guy. Next thing you know we were going out. Now I knew he drank. But what I didn't know is he would get sloppy drunk every night. He must have been on his best behavior the first week and during the day he wasn't drinking cuz he was working. I brought my girlfriend out with me to meet him and I was so embarrassed by his drunken behavior. He even fell down a few times he was so drunk. Needless to say I ended things a week later.

[Lance1965]

Dated? I was married to one. Of course she never embarrassed me in the first few years, her embarrassing behavior came years later. She gave up dressing nice, instead she opted for looking like a bum and people would stare. It came to a point where there were times I didn't want to be seen with her but it didn't stop at appearances. She became very abrasive in the way she would talk to people and I found myself having to apologize for things she would say to people.

[DaddyslilGoodGirl]

I don't know if any guy has been embarrassed by dating me. I've been embarrassed by one though cause my friends didn't like him and said there were better guys and tried to hook me up with others, but I snapped and realized that I actually like him a lot and that there's no need of being embarrassed by him cause he's actually really amazing. It's the longest relationship I've been in

[MrKinktastic]

My ex sometimes, she can be pretty inconsiderate of others in general and it gets extremely uncomfortable when we travelled, especially in 3rd world countries.

[RuthAnn1781]

I don't know why I would bother dating someone that I was either embarrassed by/of or who was embarrassed by/of me, it seems kinda dumb so no

[YourTypicalUsername]

Why date somebody you are embarrassed by, especially if it outweighs your feelings toward eachother orrr limits your experience..

[depeche2015]

no, i haven't but i think they were. they never talked about me and he'd always hide me from his family/ friends.

[Selena2418]

Yes I've been the embarraser before... mostly because I'm really clumsy and tend to drop, spill, or break things.

[rgb008]

Toward the end of the relationship yes, I was embarrassed by him. He knows. I made it very clear.
It wasn't like that in the beginning.
But now I know what I want and what I won't tolerate.

[TacosRAwesome]

Unfortunately yes. My first long term boyfriend didn't shower and was too busy to fix his hair. According to everyone he smelt like shit. He was also overly argumentative and everyone hated him.

[sassygirl13]

Silly things yes.
Not as big as embarrassed to seen with each other. That would be a red flag to me

[Sevenpointfive]

Yes, but she gave great head and was a good person.

[rmk123]

I went out with a girl once who constantly spoke in our native tongue in public, even when we were with people who didn't understand it. As someone who's hung around people who used to do this, I know how frustrating it is. Didn't last very long...

[Silver_Knight]

Umm I once was with my girlfriend at a restaurant. She had Down syndrome so I couldn’t blame her for yelling ‘Yes!’ when she found out fish were on the menu. But it still sort of embarrassed me because everybody stared at me.

[opurba]

If u r embarrassed then y u r still with them? Emotional?

[kaskas19]

My ex cussed while we were in church. That was a but embarrassing.

[kaskas19]

Bit*

[X_Unknown_X]

I am dating my brother's ex-girlfriend. I don't know how to tell Mommy and Daddy that one

[AoiKaito]

I only became embarrassed to be with her when I found out that she was a chronic liar...

[RonThirdWheelWeasley]

Me ex was just such a disgusting person. Didn't care about hygiene at all. She wasn't like this at first...

[PrettyRegular]

Haven't dated but I would try to be a perfect boyfriend and make her happy everyday.

[Hunterb]

other people don’t embarrass me if anything I embarrass myself

[Slim57]

No way I was never embarassed to date anyone, and I hope they werent embaressed to date me but I dont know for sure

[michaelwatsonnn]

Yeah. One was really full of herself and smoked like a chimney.

[blondeAlex98]

I had to ask my ex shower, and brush his teeth he was 26 I was 18.

[pizzaman123]

Check him out before u date him so u won't be embarrassed.

[someonesomewhere31]

No, if so you shouldn't be together.

[VaIiant]

Yes, and I broke up with him when I realized it.

[JenniferAllen]

I'm never ashamed of what I love ;)

[zenithF]

This here is best answer ever!

[JenniferAllen]

@zenithF Thank you ;)

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

No this has never happened to me.

[maddithebaddi]

😂🤣🤣 😆that pic says it all

[JesseTheMan]

"He's eating a burger oh no embarrassing!"

[samiii1]

I've been embarrassed by them

[junglist97]

Yes by being so drunk she couldn't stand up

[Spencer2003]

Ya
It is not a good feeling

[Zenurus]

Yes... and yes. 😁

[Pink2000]

Never

[LegateLanius]

Never been that far

[britpop]

Yes and yes

[Anonymous]

EW hell no

[Kelly6]

No and nope

[LuWe22]

Nope

[BlackSunAeon8]

Shaggy

[chasePCT]

Fucka nah

[TheNephilim]

No..

[Nadim171]

No 🤣🤣🤣

[cynical_]

no lol

[godamn]

Yes...