Have you ever dated someone who was ashamed of you?

[Anonymous]

Like hid you on social media, embarrassed to be seen with you in public

[SteveSmith1985]

Nooo... and neither should you dude. That's messed up. Nobody deserves that. If someone is ashamed of you, they aren't right for you. Period.

You're supposed to be proud to be with someone. That's the appropriate way to feel about your significant other.

This is not ok. If you're sure this is happening (its clear she's hiding you and your relationship) then you should break up with her.

Ask her why first, there might be some reasonable answer (maybe she's got an insane violent ex who just got out of prison, or something that makes some sense)

[PeachyPie93]

No but I was friends with a guy like that.. We would have fun and get along great but like as soon as one of his friends who didn't live on our street came over he would act like he don't know me and like I'm a loser and he would start bullying me.. and his friend would just be standing there like "isn't she your friend?" And he would be like no.. He acted that way with me until we went to high school where I became more popular than him. I would NEVER date a guy who was like that and embarrassed of me because it shows he is super insecure with himself.

[Rosexøxø]

Never and I would absolutely never engage with someone like that. I don’t even allow any basic person to do that to me. If I’m disliked I’m detached from them for good.

[Avicenna]

When I was an undergrad I dated a former professor who was worried we'd run into her colleagues so she insisted on either meeting up at her place (for sex) or another part of town if it was in public.

[IslaTheWitch]

nope... and I wouldn't date such a person... I don't hate myself :D

[Hawaiikai]

Yep. They even gave me false hopes as if they were gonna take me out on a date. Turns out it was just a lie and they just wanted to hang out at home and order out food

[Gayuglycowardv3]

@Hawaiikai LOL

[zagor]

I wouldn't put a picture of anyone on social media without their consent. I don't use it anyway, so anyone who would expect me to put couples pics on social media would be thoroughly disappointed.

[Nikki1989]

Of course not. Who would put up with that?

[Asker]

Well I did before i actually knew what was going on it hit me one day when i realized she didn’t have a single picture of me or us on her phone or her social media. Like she had her friends, our pets, her family

[PrincessC16]

Yes, when I first met my boyfriend I felt the same way as you.

[NicholasRedone]

Chuckles 😋 🤭 🤭 🤭 🤭 hmm mmm & surely no 🙂😁

[Fireguy17]

nope, not at all.
I must be a better catch than I think I am.
Who knew?

[lorenzomichael]

Why would I date somebody? Who’s ashamed of me? Wouldn’t that be like? marrying somebody who hates me?

[Anonymous]

I date someone who I was ashamed of because of his origins and my family are White supremacist but the reverse never happened to me.

[Account]

Never. I have dignity.

[RedInnocent69]

Yeah, it was a long time ago, and we both knew it was wrong in the context

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Nope.

What the heck? Dump them, they're weird AF.

[Manuelwe]

Sadly yes. only sex and must keep secret. Stop when someone found out

[Anonymous]

Probably. Aren't all women ashamed of the men they're with on some level?😆

[On_cloud_wine]

means he/she is just using you

[serious]

No. Never dated in my life

[Phoenix98]

Not exactly but something similar.

[Anonymous]

Why would I do that?

[Asker]

Yeah this girl never posted pictures with me on social media she had pictures of herself, our pets, her family, her friends I never made it and she was a social media addict

[Grap83]

Why would anyone want that?

[jahaims]

No i have self respect

[Anonymous]

No, I never dated at all :(

[Sono83]

Why would anyone do that?

[itsannalee]

Nope

[DrPepper12]

No? Huh?

[missindiana93]

Nope