I would want to date a woman because a guy cannot get pregnant on his own and a man and a woman are needed to have a family, and I'm a man that would be open to having a family. Of course, it shouldn't be forgotten that there must be a mutual attraction. I'd rather not be with her if I'm not attracted to her, and I'd rather not be with her if she's not attracted to me. Women tend to have a kinder personality, and I like that a lot.
first impression ( looks yes i really mean it ) she has to be attractive for me second it comes to personality compatibility ( same life values , attitude for life) and other stuff when everything is ok im good to go but there are some hard NO NO's when i met a woman but its another story :)
Well... in my case is kinda weird. I just follow my gut. I know im into a girl for a real relationship when i feel curious about his way of acting and thinking.
If she got his own opinions and can express them without worry about hurt the feeling of others. Thats a big plus on my list.
For me it's the story she has of her past and all the adventures she experienced to get to where she is, other times its her smile or laugh that makes me want to see and hear it more often
Obviously personality you click and when you click it can go a friendship way or a romantic attractio way sometimes a mixture of both. Genuinely can't explain go on instinct through the click and the building of a connection.
If she's filthy, stinking rich, supermodel beautiful, a nymphomaniac and dumb enough to sign all of her assets over to me once I've decided she's not the best girl ever anymore. Y'know, pretty much what makes women choose men.
Beyond the initial physical attraction, it's how fun she is to be around, and how interesting she is. The ability to distract from the day to day monotony of life and it's troubles is a plus.
I actually find myself taking to slower with girls I really like. But that has backfired on me on the past. They see chivalry as beta behavior if you are not careful. I got friendzoned four different excruciating times for waiting too long make a move (I was waiting for her to ask me)
Anyway she has to be honest, flexible and giving. Feminists are rarely the last two. Hoes are never the first and third. Domineering women are obviously never the middle.
Why did you wait for them to ask you? Of course you got friendzoned. Girls don't make moves to avoid being rejected. They want a confident man that chooses them, not settles for them.
@MusicMayhem well no shit they like confidence. Nowadays if I like a girl I don’t hide my intentions.
But having to push sex early just show where I stand gets depressing at times. I would like things to build up that moment without getting screwed over.
Her personality is the most important thing, her real self not the image of her, it might be a beauty queen in the physical aspect but hollow in the most important side
Attractive AND funny. Many girls don't have this as they are conditioned to give nothing back to guys early in interactions so most guys walk off and they don't learn how to banter.
Isn't it annoying when GaG decides to change the picture without even asking you. They do it all the time.
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There have been a few times that I thought she would be a good compliment to me. We are both very similar in many ways, but we have several traits that the other doesn't. I'm more of an introvert and she is more of an extrovert. It just works well in my opinion
I respectfully disagree with this opinion, ma'am. If anything, I'm more likely to be less interested in her if she hasn't had many sexual relationships with men.
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I would want to date a woman because a guy cannot get pregnant on his own and a man and a woman are needed to have a family, and I'm a man that would be open to having a family. Of course, it shouldn't be forgotten that there must be a mutual attraction. I'd rather not be with her if I'm not attracted to her, and I'd rather not be with her if she's not attracted to me. Women tend to have a kinder personality, and I like that a lot.
first impression ( looks yes i really mean it ) she has to be attractive for me
second it comes to personality compatibility ( same life values , attitude for life) and other stuff when everything is ok im good to go
but there are some hard NO NO's when i met a woman
but its another story :)
Well... in my case is kinda weird. I just follow my gut. I know im into a girl for a real relationship when i feel curious about his way of acting and thinking.
If she got his own opinions and can express them without worry about hurt the feeling of others. Thats a big plus on my list.
For me it's the story she has of her past and all the adventures she experienced to get to where she is, other times its her smile or laugh that makes me want to see and hear it more often
You really deserve her because of your strong thought.
Hopefully one day I can find her, but for now I will keep working on myself so I can support her
And go on or own adventures and expand upon the stories
Great!
List not all inclusive or in order of importance but:
Attractive, funny, complimentary personality (we get on well), intelligent, fun, kind, generous.
Simple
But it is mostly to fuck them cuz they do not realisr what matters and not
1. Attractive
2. Trait Preferences
Like I like a modest girl, not dressed like a slut, seems like normal/good
Some might like a party girl wearing barely anything...
3. Traits
Does she seem nice? Helping others? Doesn't complain? Hard worker/not lazy?
Obviously personality you click and when you click it can go a friendship way or a romantic attractio way sometimes a mixture of both. Genuinely can't explain go on instinct through the click and the building of a connection.
If she's filthy, stinking rich, supermodel beautiful, a nymphomaniac and dumb enough to sign all of her assets over to me once I've decided she's not the best girl ever anymore. Y'know, pretty much what makes women choose men.
Beyond the initial physical attraction, it's how fun she is to be around, and how interesting she is. The ability to distract from the day to day monotony of life and it's troubles is a plus.
Someone who's trustworthy, loyal, friendly, sense of humor, likes to smile... I guess a lot of similar qualities that girls would like from guys.
She exhibits enough class and femininity to invoke my buried and suppressed gentleman qualities.
Guys want to date a wholesome girl, they just want to screw a Ho.
Amen to that!!! m😊💞
Can you blame them? Some girls just wants to screw too.
I actually find myself taking to slower with girls I really like. But that has backfired on me on the past. They see chivalry as beta behavior if you are not careful. I got friendzoned four different excruciating times for waiting too long make a move (I was waiting for her to ask me)
Anyway she has to be honest, flexible and giving. Feminists are rarely the last two. Hoes are never the first and third. Domineering women are obviously never the middle.
Why did you wait for them to ask you? Of course you got friendzoned. Girls don't make moves to avoid being rejected. They want a confident man that chooses them, not settles for them.
@MusicMayhem well no shit they like confidence. Nowadays if I like a girl I don’t hide my intentions.
But having to push sex early just show where I stand gets depressing at times. I would like things to build up that moment without getting screwed over.
Her personality is the most important thing, her real self not the image of her, it might be a beauty queen in the physical aspect but hollow in the most important side
Attractive AND funny. Many girls don't have this as they are conditioned to give nothing back to guys early in interactions so most guys walk off and they don't learn how to banter.
Would she have a positive impact on my life? Is she interested in me or am I just wasting my time with her?
Isn't it annoying when GaG decides to change the picture without even asking you. They do it all the time.
There have been a few times that I thought she would be a good compliment to me. We are both very similar in many ways, but we have several traits that the other doesn't. I'm more of an introvert and she is more of an extrovert. It just works well in my opinion
Most men don’t want to date a woman who had been with more than 10 men. They’ll sleep with them, but not date.
Actually, I never cared how many guys have fucked her, as long as she can be loyal
@hiker10 I second that. This “slug shaming” is more female paranoia and problem among women than men nowadays.
If she slept with 50 guys, managed not to catch any serious STDs or get knocked up but she is 100% loyal to me... so be it.
“Slut shaming”. Yeah those poor slugs...
I respectfully disagree with this opinion, ma'am. If anything, I'm more likely to be less interested in her if she hasn't had many sexual relationships with men.