I can't believe Glenn Quagmire, of all peoplez is getting more upvotes than me🙄Jk😂That's a really well written perspective :)
this is an unrealistic expectation ;D im sorry but girls although high achievers in school leavers exams, go downhill soon after. Between the ages of 20-30 they have mental illness (depression, personality disorders, etc) and they are happier when they are with their girlfriends. I do agree, there may be this odd girl who is different and thats the girl you marry.
haha wow look at this one, you're a joker seriously. You clearly have the wrong perception.We dont want a dependant girl, we are not your bank account. We do want a girl who can stand on her own two feet and has self-respect for herself. We hate insecure girls, they constantly moan and worry and its depressing. Most insecure girls are depressed, do you know how it feels to be around a depressed person? I'll tell you, they make the guy feel bad, they have mood swings hot and cold, you dont know if they are unhappy because you're around them or some other reason. We want a happy girl who treats dates like a fun experience. If you have this wrong perception of guys, it will carry in your personality around them.
The fact that m independent and single should tell u enough. Every relationship that i observe has insecure girl in it. I mean the way they make fuss on small things is attractive to boys because they think its cute.
lol no darling, we have to put up with this shit. I've met a lot of girls and i realise perfection doesn't exist so i compromise, the more attractive a girl is the lesser personality they have. Girls are submissive and so they become insecure because they like guys pushing them around and hurting them and the feeling of dependancy builds up. When they break up, the next guy is dealing with an absolute mess. This is the dating pool. This is how girls choose to be, if a girl didn't put up with shit and guys didn't put up with shit, everyone would be single.
Hahaha when u say it like that i think i will be single for the rest of my life. So i dated this guy couple of months back and we genuinely liked each other but after some time he backed out and didn't text or call and when i asked him why he did that he said and i quote "you are too independent ".
He clearly didn’t like you to come up with something like that and say it in that way. First of all, it shows he’s clingy and has no life of his own (his own friends, his own hobbies) his own achievements and you’re better than he is. If he has any respect for you he’d be happy that you’re in control of your life, he maybe didn’t trust you and that’s his problem. To put into a small sentence means he doesn’t actually make any effort. These are the thing I pick up from just a small sentence. True or false?
But see he is not the only one...
There are many like him but there are many who aren’t. You’ll find one.
I hope so but its just so difficult i have been on many dates but none of them seem to work out
This may sound lame to you, but if you develop friendship initially before dating it filters out the ballbags. Initial rejection is also a factor in filtering out the ballbags. If you're interested in him, you'll naturally like him and its then up to you to let him know in a gentlewomanly way (btw these complex hints are also designed to filter out the ballbags). The ones who stick around and work out your interest are high value. I have currently succeeded in this way with a 24 yr old girl, she demonstrated that she is not easy to get (breathes)
Wow this is a great idea
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I hope there are not guys that have never "just fucked" a girl as well!
@virginbish I certainly didn’t need to wait until marriage, but I did need to like her well enough to see a potential future with her.
Oh and we gota be like besties... bffl like obvs type stuff
This was so incredibly cute, I really hope she finds you soon! You seem to really want to smother her with affection, and that gal would be very lucky
Ah probs no chance of it happening any time soon cause i can't even approach girls but ohwells someday it will happen and i look forward to that day 😂
This is just incredible!
@virginbish incredibly rare I suppose. :)
Your response was indeed xD
@virginbish it is true. My brain is still replaying the events of yesterday on repeat. we spent 4 hours just sitting together hugging. The last half hour we started kissing. though time seemed to elongate because it felt like hours passed. there was a lot of talking during the first 3 hours though. my brain was thoroughly happy with the exercise it got.
Aweee :) I love it when my mind gets exercised and feels like it's doing happy jumping jacks xD it's very rare to find someone who offers your mind such happiness indeed ahah
@virginbish She is the girl that is wife material :). It was really interesting when I look back on the past events leading up to now. I had pretty much realized I was going to be single forever and I stopped looking. I came back home from a different state and got a job and boom she appeared. spent a while talking to her and getting to know her asked her out and she didn't say yes or no she said "this is crazy I am so much older than you" (11 is not that much) So we became friends sort of. I had realized that I might have a chance so I kept that in my mind. She kept saying how she wasn't right for me and this and that and then apparently her heart decided to take over because we started getting closer. nothing fancy just physical contact. Then she had a war with herself and I guess her heart won because she started hugging me and then yesterday she started kissing me.
Aweeeeee 💕💕💕 and no, 11 years in some cultures is still considered okay (not conventional) but can definitely work. And whos to judge anyway? If you two are happy, that's all that matters ;)
Are u really 15? U have quality expectations for someone your age, that many people in their 20's don't even have! Don't ever ever change!
I think I've actually found some girls like this too.
@virginbish ; Why should I not change?
Because you are quite intelligent and seem to already know what a good partner is all about. For someone so young, you really impressed me :) and I hope you continue to use your noodle as you age and don't succumb to peer pressure when the guys/girls are all wild... I don't see any benefits to their actions and I hope you realize that as you age as well
@virginbish ; Well, I don't succumb to peer pressure easily. And the reason I want to date a girl like that is simple, all those traits are some I have. Course, I know not everyone will be like that.
Well u have the type of personality that will easily be able to form a long lasting bond with someone, when given the chance :) And it's good that you don't succumb to peer pressure easily, I didn't either when I was younger, and altho I was bullied for that lol, it was sooooo worth it
I'm never bullied. But to be fair, I have the build of a football player and I always look angry.
😂😂😂😂😂 that would help it for sure ahahah I was quite petite and friendly, so I guess I was seen as the optimal target for all the raging hormones and insecurities the other teens were dealing with
I'm friendly, but I don't look friendly.
I know multiple people that are similar to the type of girls I like.
@virginbish ; I know four girls that are the type of girl I like.
Really? That's quite good tbh! Growing up that wasn't the case for me ahah, everyone always seemed to have the same personality 😂😂
Yeah. And they're all my friends except for one😊.
But it is mostly to fuck them cuz they do not realisr what matters and not
You really deserve her because of your strong thought.
Hopefully one day I can find her, but for now I will keep working on myself so I can support her
And go on or own adventures and expand upon the stories
Amen to that!!! m😊💞
Can you blame them? Some girls just wants to screw too.
Why did you wait for them to ask you? Of course you got friendzoned. Girls don't make moves to avoid being rejected. They want a confident man that chooses them, not settles for them.
@MusicMayhem well no shit they like confidence. Nowadays if I like a girl I don’t hide my intentions. But having to push sex early just show where I stand gets depressing at times. I would like things to build up that moment without getting screwed over.
funny, sports, hats, or passion for something that sounds cool, or just "clicks"
Actually, I never cared how many guys have fucked her, as long as she can be loyal
@hiker10 I second that. This “slug shaming” is more female paranoia and problem among women than men nowadays. If she slept with 50 guys, managed not to catch any serious STDs or get knocked up but she is 100% loyal to me... so be it.
“Slut shaming”. Yeah those poor slugs...