Girls, is it bad to double text on tinder?

[starzcapz]

Say for example once I match with a girl and then I start a conversation like "that's awesome that you're a teacher! I have a few cousins that do the same thing it seems like such a rewarding career"

However no response and then like 3 days later I said "So for teachers do they go back a week earlier than students or do you also start the day after labour day?"

Is that a sign of desperation or neediness? I'm not super experienced with this stuff

[xristinar28]

No it isn't bad in my opinion. You don't even know these girls so why not send text them more than once? You have nothing to lose

[starzcapz]

yeah true I mean most girls have like 100s to 1000s of matches so I guess that's one way of sticking out haha

[xristinar28]

Yeah but you have to send more unique messages
Or more interesting flirty ones in my opinion

[ChronicThinker]

I wouldn't bother. She didn't even give you the decency of a reply.

[starzcapz]

So generally speaking if a girl doesn't respond to a first message don't bother to send another

[ChronicThinker]

Yes.

[Fitness-Fanatic]

Only if your first message is a question, and they ignore it.

The first message is just a statement , it doesn't necessarily warrant a reply.

However, I wouldn't text anyone back again if they ignore your message after you've asked them a question.

[Il0ve29]

No! This is totally okay! Sometimes I forget to respimd to guys on tinder 😂 double texting is okay. It can serve as a reminder sometimes. But triple texting ! That's something else. Don't do that if they don't reply.

[kinda-confused]

She seems like a waste of time get somebody who values you.

[starzcapz]

thanks! Yeah people can suck sometimes

[Anonymous]

Personally, I don't want to talk about work while messaging with a potential date. I've had guys message me multiple times, and it can start to seem a bit desperate and then like they're pressuring me, but on the other hand, I can forget about them otherwise. Truth be told, though, if the first message is intriguing, I'll respond immediately.

[starzcapz]

She actually did respond back but that makes sense only reason I talked about work was because that was in her bio

[Gentle_Jess]

I'd stop messaging her. Move on. If she doesn't feel you are worth responding to, she doesn't deserve your advances. Wasted energy.

[ihaveaquestionpls]

Well for me no, sometimes girls have a lot of matches and it gets Tiring having all those conversations

[TacosRAwesome]

If she didn't reply in 3 days she's not interested and you should move on. I'm fine with double texting while you're in a conversation but if that conversation stopped you move on.

[ShoeGirl24]

I think it’s fine. It was 3 minutes after your first so was an afterthought message, one you forgot to include with your first!

[Bianca914]

Yeah. Plus you're saying too much plus you're talking about work.

[starzcapz]

Yeah true I should keep it to a few sentences but she did respond back

[Jessgem]

She probably busy or found a man.