Say for example once I match with a girl and then I start a conversation like "that's awesome that you're a teacher! I have a few cousins that do the same thing it seems like such a rewarding career"
However no response and then like 3 days later I said "So for teachers do they go back a week earlier than students or do you also start the day after labour day?"
Is that a sign of desperation or neediness? I'm not super experienced with this stuff