What to do for my boyfriend when we have a long distance relationship?

We’ve been together for a year now and I moved about a month ago, he seems kind of stressed lately and I want to cheer him up. My friends are helping me but I don’t know what to do. We’ve thought about getting him to go to a room and have a video call with me but we do it all the time so it’s not that special. Any ideas?What to do for my boyfriend when we have a long distance relationship?

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Most Helpful Guy

  • you can order a surprise delivered for him! no reason you can't go online and just order something near where he lives. when i lived 8 hours away from my SO they ordered me a pizza one evening it just showed up out of the blue, it was great. i also ordered them flowers at one point which they loved. it's a great way to give him a gift without having to wait for it to go through the mail. just search for delivery in his area of something he likes.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • try to watch movies together, listen to your favourite songs (it's fun when you say "3, 2, 1, go and play the song at same time)
    I liked waking up to a vid from my ex boyfriend where he was just filming a view from his window ir his nostrils πŸ˜‚ and saying hello.
    You can also send him something... a T-shirt, your fave scarf, whatever that will make him feel closer to you. And hand written letters are really sweet. There are also those bracelets especially made for people in LDR. When you touch it, he can feel it... which is pretty cool cuz that will remain you both that the other one is thinking about you.
    And some cute pics of you will also do in my opinion...
    Wish you all the best ^^

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What Guys Said 6

  • Listen ima just say it how it is

    Eventually he's gonna break, he's gonna go cheat on you cause he has sexual desires that you can no longer fulfill

    there's nothing you can do now, cut your losses and move on. Dont get tour heart broken for no reason. If suddenly he stops being stressed out out of no where you'll know why

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  • Well I've sended her a message in the bottle, on sea. But I made sure that she gets it.
    Said to her that I've sended a message but at the same time her best friend got my message by mail and took her on beach where she prepared the bottle in sand. She totally loved it.
    And message was "I miss you!"
    So if you're able to do that it would be great.
    Good luck.

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  • I studied abroad in Japan for a semester (6 months) while I was dating my girlfriend of 3 years. We had distance, internet availability, and a 14 hour time difference to put up with. The thing that kept us together was remembering that we'll eventually get to see each other again but we didn't constantly talk about the distance. That just made us sad. When we were stressed, we'd send eachother 1, long heartfelt message and then give each other some space. Another thing that helped was staying loyal and faithful to one another, but also honest. It was best for us to make our feelings or discomforts known to each other, rather than stress about whether or not the other person is happy or faithful while waiting for the chance to call or text. In summary: Be hopeful, be considerate, be loyal, and be honest. No shame in not being able to handle long distance. It isn't easy and it requires a lot of self control and even more faith in the other person. Good luck!

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  • tell him to get a drivers license, or learn to fly a plane?

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  • send. nudes.

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  • show him your feet on a video call and tell him next time you see him you'll let him do whatever he wants to them, lick them kiss them sniff them whilst you give him a blow job.

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    • You weird motherfucker

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    • @teamvic because you're ugly

    • Rightt. But at least i dont get turned on by a fucking footπŸ˜‚

What Girls Said 4

  • Just comfort him that you'll still meet up and these moments will be more precious and valuable. Well, it is just one more obstacle to strenghten your love, but that's okay to feel sad for some time, just don't make it a big problem. Relationship is hard, but if you really love each other, you both have to make it work

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  • Do a surprise
    If he likes roses get him roses
    If he wants something from Amazon.. liked wolves etc get him something from there

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  • Maybe watch a movie together through the phone, or send him something more personal, like a playlist or a handwritten letter via snail mail.

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  • FaceTime Sex

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