Would you take a girl seriously if she’s wearing skimpy clothing?

[Richareens]

Say, you’re on a date or she’s your girlfriend. Or even a stranger you see in the streets.

[Vixysparx]

General rule is if the occasion lends itself to it, you can show off your legs or your cleavage... never both!
Girls who show off both tend to be desperate for attention (not all the time but it gives off a bad vibe)
Personally I like to show off for my boyfriend when we’re out but only with what we’re both comfortable with.
And at the end of the day you can still chat to a girl in a pool or on the beach in a bikini so why not a short dress?

[Salsacumbia]

I used to wear skimpy clothes, and guys just didn't take me seriously, just used me for fun.

[Salsacumbia]

Thanks for the MHO

[TheDamnYankeeLad]

Probably not (depends on context; if one is in the gym or out jogging, for example, skimpy clothing is practical and expected). If it’s my girlfriend wearing, say, party clothes or something like that, we’d need to talk about it, as I find it hard to be around people that don’t respect themselves enough to cover their ass.

[hahahmm]

If i see a total stranger dressed skimpy in a setting where that’s not normal, I think she’s desperate for attention & it tends (99% of the time) to be a turn off. Otoh if I talk to her & learn she’s not desperate that feeling would go away.

With women I know, I never judge based on clothes.

[Logorithim]

I always take my girlfriend seriously. Not necessarily anyone else, regardless of what they're wearing.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I don't judge anyone for their appearance, lest they judge me.

[Ranger2019]

It does depend. I don't run around wearing a speedo and a tankini.. if that's even a thing.
If i did tho... even the most open minded people would be cocking an eye at me. I think it's more acceptable for woman to show more skin and wear short skirts. But i have seen some in public where what she's chosen to wear in is similar to clothing in anime porn. Not sure if she opened a political discussion with me if I'd engage or say... ummm, I'm sorry but your lower lips are showing.

[Richareens]

Lol anime porn

[FoxnEagle]

No, not really...
Would you take a guy seriously if he was trying to show how big his junk is by wearing latex pants?

[Richareens]

😂😂

[Q-tip-boy]

That's not the case. You can't simply compare women's skimpy clothes with men's skimpy clothes

No, don't make direct comparison. It shows that you misunderstood everything. It shows that you haven't thought enough about it.

Women's clothes can never be compared with men's clothes.

Women's body can be compared with men's desires to look at women's body.

You should have asked whether women will take a guy seriously if he stares at some other women or not. That's the proper way of making comparison.

Although, Nature loves symmetry, Nature itself is not symmetrical.

[FoxnEagle]

@Q-tip-boy
Do you think women don't size men up? (Maybe not as much, but it's still there)
What is a "ladies bar" if not for women who do just that?

A man's lust and a woman's jealousy are two different things, why would you say that is a proper comparison?

[Q-tip-boy]

They do try to size up. But it's just bcoz of lack of understanding. What do you expect from " bewdas" and "bewdis". or. " drinkers " ?

Also, you're being inconsiderate by calling it "jelosy".

Why am I saying that it is a proper comparison?

Because nature is not symmetrical.

Women's power lies in their attractive bodies.

Men's power doesn't lie in their bodies. because men's body is not as attractive as women's body.

Men's power lies in their desires and attention. Men have greater desires.

That's why men are more aggressive and dynamic creatures that makes them more " action-centric"

If there are no desires, then there's no sexual attractiveness.

Similarly if women's body was not attractive enough then men's desires cannot exist.

[Q-tip-boy]

Men don't want their wives and daughters in revealing fashion.

It's because they take pride in the fact that their women give this privilege to a special someone.

Similarly women take pride in the fact that their sons and husbands give their attention to special someone

[Q-tip-boy]

Men crave for women's body but woman crave for men's attention and desires, not for their (men's) body.

Men's body is not attractive to women as much as women's body is attractive to men.

Men would want to kiss a women's feet, legs, hips, pelvis, belly, back, etc..

Women are devoid of these desires and that's why men's power lies in their desires... not in their bodies.

Most men have no clue what is attractive about their body.

But women are well aware of what makes them attractive.

[Anonymous]

Never. It's a DEAL. BREAKER

I would stop having sex with her if my starts doing it.

I will stop being nice to my wife or daughter if they're doing it.

I'll stop talking with them unless I feel serious need to talk with them.

[Richareens]

You sound like my dad😂 he’s very strict.

[Opinion Owner]

So your father would be potentially a good friend of mine?

[Richareens]

Perhaps 😁

[Opinion Owner]

Good to know. Time doesn't affect the importance of morals

[Burgerboy21]

If she dresses skimpily (is that a word?), I don't think I'd ever even date her in the first place.

[Richareens]

Why’s that?

[Burgerboy21]

Well, I like to consider myself a pretty good judge of character. And in many of my experiences, despite the quote "Don't judge a book by its cover," I have found that the 'cover' alone reveals actually quite a lot about one's character.

[Richareens]

Pretty understandable :)

[Q-tip-boy]

Yeah because we expect woman to look "good" outside the house and
"Sexy" inside the bedroom. That's more dignified.

We take pride in the fact that our women look good by wearing clothes and not just by not wearing clothes.

In the same way a mother takes pride in the fact that her son doesn't stare or look at random strangers (women) in a sexual way.

[daz96]

In my opinion depending on the clothing and if it suits her you can take her more seriously. Its like a guy wearing a suit. If you can exude confidence in what you wear it can make you have a much larger presence.

[Kelliblondebabe]

I wear outfits which I feel comfortable in and they can be sexy and skimpy but remember it's only an opinion! Some will compliment others will call you a slut

[jrmitchell2629]

Yes of course I dont judge not only is it not my job but i don't get paid for it

[jrmitchell2629]

Besides to each there own

[MrCryptic]

I personally wouldn't take her as seriously as I would with a girl who was dressed modestly. When women flaunt too much of their goods it makes the male brain just think about sex with them.

[Finchie40]

I would take it that she seriously wants to get fucked

[Kit_Kat88]

I won't if she looks like a whore on the first couple of dates. It gives the wrong impression that she's not classy. Same with a girl I see outside.

[Kit_Kat88]

I can't control what she wears on a date and she has the right to wear skimpy clothing but it's still distasteful.

[Kurαȷ]

No, the dress code for people who I'm willing to give the benefit of the doubt (or ever consider dating material) is strictly outlined within my mind.

[MikeAndMolly]

Yes.

I respect women regardless of their clothing choices.

[villyg]

No reason not to take them seriously. If they hot it will be very hard not to stare tho

[someoneosome]

Nope... I would never get into anything remotely permanent with her... maybe be friends but that's it.

[mintmint1990]

If she's my girlfriend yes. If not my girlfriend, hell no.

[CJC1993]

Honestly I wouldn't care, tend not to care what people wear.

[Hans222]

I try not to judge on clothing, I'd just notice it and focus on other things :D

[naraku]

It doesn't matter, it all comes off anyway!

But seriously, it doesn't matter at all. What she wears doesn't change who she is. As long as she's not too lame, like go out in her pj's.

[Aynsof]

Sure
Don't see the relevance of her attire
I would take her serious until such a time as she demonstrates through words or actions that she is not to be taken serious

[TheAceholeSupreme666]

If she has something valid and important to say, yes. If she's just hustling and trying to bullshit to get something out of me, I keep walking and pay her no heed.

[9teen]

I can't have respect for those who don't respect themselves.

[Nik1hil]

No I would not, but if she proves a worthy conversation than I will taken her seriously

[catmandoes]

I would certainly think she is interested more into attention and her appearance than I care for

[Crocuta_Hyaenidae]

Nope!

If it's hot outside, dresses exist, and look very pretty.

Class and modesty are important to me.

[Drumlin2001]

Clothing dosent change the person. I'd treat them seriously if they'd earned it.

[Syrian_survivor]

Can't take a girl seriously if she can't take herself seriously
Sorry 🤷

[Eleni91]

It depends if she wears all them time. Cause beach and clubs going have a good time. But 24/7 and I got see it before I judge.

[thebigc]

I don't see why not. If it was a job interview or an academic presentation then I might not take her seriously.

[MisterAnon69]

I do. My girlfriend likes to wear tight clothes. Although she started after we started dating. She says she likes how much I like it.

[gunducci]

I'd be distracted sure, but if I'm having a conversation with this person then it is my obligation to take it seriously.

[Lance1965]

Yes, why wouldn't I?

They are just clothes. You could ask the same question about some of the clothes guys wear.

[chrisbigman]

It depends on if it's appropriate or not. The more skimpy it is, the less I would take her seriously.

[Sha84]

Very very seriously if hot body showing, if ugly would not matter if naked no interest at all

[Giggletr0n]

Sure as long as she had something interesting to say

[TsubasaCorrupted]

Sure. Clothing doesn't tell me anything about life goals, moral declarations, religion, politics, ethics or anything else.

[Rick912]

Sure why not? If this is what she likes to wear, it is OK with me.

[On_the_other_hand]

Skimpy for me or skimpy for thirsty strangers?

[Richareens]

Both.

[On_the_other_hand]

I wouldn't take her seriously as girlfriend potential. But I guess it would depend on how skimpy. It if is barely legal. And I'm all for free the nipple, but that isn't about getting attention.

[Richareens]

Ahaha nope, no blatant exposing of nipples.

[Q-tip-boy]

Both* ain't an option in a relationship.

[Q-tip-boy]

The truth is when we get committed to a single person, we ditch all others...

[On_the_other_hand]

@Q-tip-boy Skimpy is an option if it is for me.

[Q-tip-boy]

Nah, not outside your court or on the main roads unless you're a construction worker or you're visiting the saloon

[AtomicMuseliBar]

Neither of my girlfriends would ever wear skimpy clothing in public. Especially Esther. Esther still hasn't completely broken free from the indoctrination from the cult she was in, so she's still sensitive about showing even a little skin.

[Longshot1965]

Dressed like a Nun or a Nudist yes I would generally take her serious.

[Sixgun77]

Sure. I love skimpy clothing and have met some wonderful ladies who wear it.

[Dark93]

I'd assume ot was just a weird fashion trend that'll change in 2 weeks

[bubblesframe]

Are we talking about business? no.

Is she talking about the future and her dreams and her goals in life and relationships? Of course!

[Glen68]

Yes because her self expression doesn't define who she is

[LegendarySir]

Wait what? 😂

[JP_Man]

Why not? Good looking clothes gets my attention easier on the woman wearing them.

[Anonymous]

NO, girls with a lot to show have very little to offer.

[linds34]

Yeah, that's normal to wear in spring/summer.

[ChronicThinker]

How skimpy is skimpy?

[FunkyMonkee]

Sure, what do clothes have to do with it?

[lealpm]

Idgaf honestly, everyone wears what he wants

[Browneye57]

To fuck maybe. [shrug]

[ROCKS128]

I don't think so.
Until i know better...

[winterfox10]

It's never been an issue for me before

[oaster]

Always, who cares what they are wearing

[Prinçe-Noir]

YES i have to take her seriously... is a person

[VV3ZZY]

I dont take anyone seriously

[vald9inches]

I would take her period

[GreatnessBack]

Depends on where and what occasion.

[TisTheTruth]

I don't judge her by her clothes

[Zama6]

skimpy?

[Richareens]

Short and revealing.

[Zama6]

I will kick her out