General rule is if the occasion lends itself to it, you can show off your legs or your cleavage... never both!
Girls who show off both tend to be desperate for attention (not all the time but it gives off a bad vibe)
Personally I like to show off for my boyfriend when we’re out but only with what we’re both comfortable with.
And at the end of the day you can still chat to a girl in a pool or on the beach in a bikini so why not a short dress?
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I used to wear skimpy clothes, and guys just didn't take me seriously, just used me for fun.
Probably not (depends on context; if one is in the gym or out jogging, for example, skimpy clothing is practical and expected). If it’s my girlfriend wearing, say, party clothes or something like that, we’d need to talk about it, as I find it hard to be around people that don’t respect themselves enough to cover their ass.
If i see a total stranger dressed skimpy in a setting where that’s not normal, I think she’s desperate for attention & it tends (99% of the time) to be a turn off. Otoh if I talk to her & learn she’s not desperate that feeling would go away.
With women I know, I never judge based on clothes.
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I always take my girlfriend seriously. Not necessarily anyone else, regardless of what they're wearing.
I don't judge anyone for their appearance, lest they judge me.
It does depend. I don't run around wearing a speedo and a tankini.. if that's even a thing.
If i did tho... even the most open minded people would be cocking an eye at me. I think it's more acceptable for woman to show more skin and wear short skirts. But i have seen some in public where what she's chosen to wear in is similar to clothing in anime porn. Not sure if she opened a political discussion with me if I'd engage or say... ummm, I'm sorry but your lower lips are showing.No, not really...
Would you take a guy seriously if he was trying to show how big his junk is by wearing latex pants?Never. It's a DEAL. BREAKER
I would stop having sex with her if my starts doing it.
I will stop being nice to my wife or daughter if they're doing it.
I'll stop talking with them unless I feel serious need to talk with them.If she dresses skimpily (is that a word?), I don't think I'd ever even date her in the first place.
In my opinion depending on the clothing and if it suits her you can take her more seriously. Its like a guy wearing a suit. If you can exude confidence in what you wear it can make you have a much larger presence.
I wear outfits which I feel comfortable in and they can be sexy and skimpy but remember it's only an opinion! Some will compliment others will call you a slut
I personally wouldn't take her as seriously as I would with a girl who was dressed modestly. When women flaunt too much of their goods it makes the male brain just think about sex with them.
I would take it that she seriously wants to get fucked
I won't if she looks like a whore on the first couple of dates. It gives the wrong impression that she's not classy. Same with a girl I see outside.
No, the dress code for people who I'm willing to give the benefit of the doubt (or ever consider dating material) is strictly outlined within my mind.
Yes.
I respect women regardless of their clothing choices.No reason not to take them seriously. If they hot it will be very hard not to stare tho
Nope... I would never get into anything remotely permanent with her... maybe be friends but that's it.
If she's my girlfriend yes. If not my girlfriend, hell no.
Honestly I wouldn't care, tend not to care what people wear.
I try not to judge on clothing, I'd just notice it and focus on other things :D
It doesn't matter, it all comes off anyway!
But seriously, it doesn't matter at all. What she wears doesn't change who she is. As long as she's not too lame, like go out in her pj's.Sure
Don't see the relevance of her attire
I would take her serious until such a time as she demonstrates through words or actions that she is not to be taken serious
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