Would you date a sex worker?

[Anonymous]

Okay so i am a sex worker and I find that most guys I've come across don't have a problem with it On the other though i find a lot of guys refuse to have anything to do with girls like me not that those kind of guys and me end up in the same world anyways doe.
I find most guys accept it endless im doing more than just selling pictures and videos so my questions for you guys is how would you feel & what would you say if you found out the girl you like/dating is a sex worker?

[emeralddays]

I went out with a guy who did a few strip parties and i didn't know at that time but a friend who knew his cousin told me about it. I didn't believe it at first but when confronted he told me he did.

[Asker]

How did you feel about that?

[emeralddays]

I was a bit dissapointed because he didn't tell me about it.

[Asker]

Makes sense hun he should have definitely mentioned that from the start 🙌💯

[emeralddays]

Yes sister

[newPython]

No, it's not him that should have mentioned it from the start. It's you who should have been interested enough to go out on a date with him that you would be interested in asking questions about his life, instead of being a passive participant. Asking what someone does is such a basic question. Makes me think you just went out with him to get a free meal instead of wanting to genuinely know him. Guys, who are smart at least, don't tell everything about themselves, as a test to see what questions a girl is going to ask them.

[DublinRollerGirl]

Dating a sex worker is like asking Target for a free TV. You can ask but the answer will obviously be no.

[Asker]

What do you mean lmao xD

[Halucinator]

I don't know. If it's just pictures and videos and I really like her, maybe yes. But if it's actual sex, that would be more like cheating so a big no

[Asker]

I 100% feel that! I definitely only sell pictures and such because I know having actual sex is a bit TOO FAR

[Halucinator]

Yep. That's all I gotta say. Moreover, I look too ugly to date a sexworker🤣🤣

[Asker]

Im sure you don't lol :) if you've had a girlfriend before you can date a sex worker honestly you never know what girl is js

[Anonymous]

I have before, and I would not have a problem with it.

[Asker]

Lovely I love that !

[Stevepro68]

Well.
My girlfriend is a SW. Originally I was a customer occasionally for a 2 years. Then one day suddenly she asked me out. We have been together now for 4years. She still works as a dancer. It's a negotiation long term.
We both had to accept that she needs to make her money be secure in herself. She had to live with the fact that I was a guy who visited such places. I saw that she was a kind good hearted individual. She had a horrible life abused, raped and beaten by an ex husband. Despite all that she always tries to help others in need. She is a good mother and more than I could hope for in a partner.
We share I don't judge, if what she is saying about her work bothers me, my safe word is TMI. She knows to stop. I don't pretend it doesn't happen or try to get her to quit.
On the upside I have a good living we have tons of cash. Take spectacular vacations. I love her more deeply than I ever thought possible.
When she is with me she makes me feel like I am the only person in her world.
I guess because we met that way there was no horror about discussion. My family is very opened minded. They know, don't ask don't tell works for them and it's fine they care about my happiness. Her family loves me.
It's not easy it can be done we're happy. Someday she will quit or age out one way or another I will be there. Some friends don't get it. With rare exception everyone you date has done things with other guys. My girl has strict limits for her activities. Yet she is so beautiful and personable guys just throw money at her and fall in love with her all the time.
Me I am just in awe that she picked me to be the one guy that gets all of her not just show that is her at the club.
There are other perks. She does like girls as well.. Fill in the blanks 2 to 3 times a year she picks someone for me to approve and we have fun.
Sex is just sex if you link it to your ego, or love, or intimacy. You will fail to keep your SW relationship
In my humble opinion

[ChkltCat]

This was beautiful to read. I hope you guys are happy in life. Especially that lady.

[mattdzz]

For me exclusivity is key with a girl, and this entails her past/ current behavior as well. If she's been with more than 2-3 other guys, then it's a no go, and the same goes if she's got her nudes all out there. She's gotta be more moral than me, and that's a big no to cam girls, or prostitutes.

[Asker]

"More moral" than you if you're not what you're asking for do you actually believe you deserve that? 🤔

[Philyouup]

A cam girl? No issues. A strip dancer, as long as I could trust. To many std’s to worry about.

[Asker]

Understandable and you should be getting an std check before any relationship sex workers or not :)

[Philyouup]

Absolutely right. The sex worker would be less inhibited as well and that is only a positive.

[Philyouup]

I prefer the open mind.

[Philyouup]

And for the asses that go right to the “whore” moniker, ignore and block. It worth your time.

[Philyouup]

It’s not worth your time. Stupid autocorrect. Lol

[Philyouup]

😏😉👍

[Drumlin2001]

Depends on what you are doing and how regulated it is.
One if my biggest fears woukd be around diseases, so if you're exposing yourself in anyway i'd certainly have an issue.
Even porn stars pick up HIV, i wouldn't want to pick up anything

[blkgold33]

Do you actually have sex with people or just like send video and pics?

[blkgold33]

If she just send videos and pics that I be fine with dating a girl. It be really hard if she have sex cause I feel like I should be the only one to do that with her since we dating

[Asker]

Yes just pictures and videos and yes i agree i feel the same way and nobody wants to be cheated on :(

[blkgold33]

Yeah being cheated on freakin sucks. Pics and videos not bad I date someone it be hard to explain to other people what you do if they ask tho lol

[normalice]

depends on what kind of work she does.

[Asker]

What would you deem as acceptable and non acceptable?

[normalice]

anything that involves actual sex with actual men would likely be non-acceptable.

[xTom98]

Sure, if I like her a lot 😄

[Asker]

Nice ! :)

[Anonymous]

When you say "sex worker," do you mean whore or do you mean something else?

[Asker]

You had to be an old guy lmao bye dont ask no more questions your not worth actual responses

[Opinion Owner]

"Sex worker" is an ambiguous and broad term. Some whores like to call themselves "sex workers" because it sounds more dignified. I made no assumption; I asked you what you meant when you used that term. If you don't want to answer. . . that tells us the answer.

[Asker]

Its a dignified job and anybody who thinks otherwise isn't actually worth considering i am a proud sex worker :)

[Opinion Owner]

Do you discuss this dignified job with your parents?

[Kenni]

Do you feel proud talking about your dignified job with your kids?
Do you feel proud when they introduce parents jobs in front of the whole class?
Do you feel proud when they're made fun of their whole childhood?

[Asker]

Yes? Why wouldn't I? My parents still love me :)

[ChkltCat]

perhaps not for a serious relationship, as I don't want my kids to have a mom like that

[Anonymous]

I will never date a sex worker.

[Asker]

Why? If you don't mind me asking

[Opinion Owner]

"SEX WORKER"

[Asker]

Thats not helpful lol

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks

[LegateLanius]

Hell no.

[Asker]

Why not if you dont mind me asking?

[esotericstory]

No because whores are the scum of the earth.

[Asker]

I bet you're probably not even attractive enough to date a sex worker in the first place lmao only an incel would say some shit like that 😆😂

[esotericstory]

I've fucked some whores, one of them gave me her phone number. Just because I hold an opinion you dont like doesn't mean that I have to be ugly.

[Asker]

Did you have to pay her first lol? And most guys who have strong ugly opinions like that tend to be ugly themselves and that wasn't just an opinion either it was definetly an isult

[Asker]

And the way your calling sex workers "whores" and how cool you think you sound saying you got her phone number 😥😂 bruhhh Lmaooo your practically screaming INCEL at me 😂

[esotericstory]

Keep living in your fantasy world.

[esotericstory]

That you consider the word 'whore' insulting says more about what you think of your line of work than I do.

[Asker]

Buddy im js and I've dealt with A LOT of guys woman like me definetly have a strong radar for incels we KNOW when your one

[esotericstory]

You are just projecting bullshit right now.

[Asker]

Lol probably not most decent looking guys or decent guys who actually have choices in general don't speak so low on woman or sex workers due to the fact they have actual access to most and they have the choice to pay or not and most incel men if not all HATE sex workers because it eats them up alive that they can't just have her for free and she has the nerve to even charge you I know it brings down less attractive guys self esteem just being asked if they want to buy something you can AlWAYS see or hear the anger because they feel Like men like them are the only ones paying and they want to be different from those guys they dont want to accept they do have to pay and they can't just date girls not even the average ones like the average man and yeah typically men like that turn around call us out our name there has definetly been angry ass incel men who have went as far to kill us due to how low they think we are and we all know it's not sex workers they hate its themselves incel men live sad angry lives and most go crazy over not having all the pussy they expected growing up despite trying to do and ve everything soceity told them woman like when deep down its not their personality thats holding them back its their looks and that's a sad reality but yeah incels love taking that out on sex workers lmao

[esotericstory]

Big wall of bullshit. Still bullshit baby.

[esotericstory]

You have no idea of how a man speaks in private about whores and women, keep dreaming that fairytale dream.

[esotericstory]

"Pussy" as you call it is far lower on the list of priorities of a man than you think it is.

[Asker]

LMAOO most men don't talk about woman as much as you're tryna make it seem hun and i know that i know men aren't wild horny dogs i understand how this works and I also know exactly what kind of men are the ones who are actually misogynistic asfk and I'll tell you this it's typically not an attractive nor average guy who had the actual privillage of bonding with woman

[esotericstory]

In my country a prostitute costs 30 Euros, that's less than 40 dollars or something. It doesn't actually make incels angry. Also incels seem to be mainly an American phenomenon.

[Asker]

That still doesn't take from the fact that thats a quick 30 dollars for those low rate girls and they still got a few more clients and you still probably couldnt date her because a more attractive guy probably still would like her and there wouldn't be a need to fall into the arms of an incel lmao and it doesn't matter where your from if your an incel you an incel im sure the incel man lives in all corners of the world there's countless stories from all over the world of angry men lol

[esotericstory]

I dont think attractive guys want to date whores since they are all eastern european gold diggers looking for a rich western man because the eastern block is a post-soviet shithole.

[Asker]

I mean all I've dated has been attractive men and honestly they don't mind they aren't the ones actually paying? And its not sex its pictures and videos so yeah false lol as a sex worker i can vouch hot men fw still

[esotericstory]

Seems like you are such an average narcissist Snapchat whore too cheap looking for actual whoring.

[Asker]

I've been an escort doe lmao I decided to stop if i want i can easily do it again and its for 3 bills and up not 30 dollars 😊 my pics vids and videos are pretty expensive too hun im definetly not cheap average maybe LMFAO BUT CHEAP NEVER (;

[esotericstory]

If I got access to your date a would file you with the IRS woman.

[Asker]

Im already paying taxed smart one LMAOOO I SELL PICTUREA AND VIDEOS AND VIDEOCALL im clearly paying back taxes to sell on sites the fact that you have no actual education on sex work 😥

[Asker]

Incels forever making themselves sound like goofies lol

[esotericstory]

I'm the one here using proper punctuation, not you. You are so uneducated you have to resort to the lowest job possible. Meanwhile I'm a graphical artist and studying to become a massage therapist while you have to resort to sell your body as low level scum.

[Asker]

What if i told you I LOVE my work and probably make more than you and i never went nor plan to go to college 😊 i have enough money to start my own buisness which i am (; this body of mine is a BLESSING hate on it lol

[esotericstory]

That you never went to college is crystal clear to me.

[Asker]

Most ACTUAL sucessful people never do sometimes what's best for you in life doesn't always have to be about scholl that's a silly cookie cutter idea

[esotericstory]

Most people that go to school have good grammar though.

[Asker]

Why would i care? It's the internet i purposely typing fast and using and missing all the period and commas because I don't actually care? I think what im saying is a lot more on the internet lol this isn't a class sweetie I don't have to pay any attention to my grammar rn

[esotericstory]

You come of as someone you would expect to be a whore. Doesn't surprise me.

[Asker]

And im still living a better life than you 💕 WHORES life for life lol (; 💰 this ain't classy money !!

[esotericstory]

No you dont.