Would you date someone who has been a sex worker?

Question

I'm not a sex worker. I am far from it. I am only asking this question.

humpbackjack · Accepted Answer

To be honest it would depend on a lot of things of course std test results what areas she worked how long ago what’s her means of making money now was there actual sex involved with her client was her sex work her choice or forced did she have a pimp is she carrying emotional scars that haven’t been dealt with and a few others I’m sure along with my normal stuff when I was a kid I knew some prostitutes (lived in hooker motels) and I still would consider them friends even though it’s been close to thirty thirty-five years since I last talked to any of them they were good people if you were in their inner circle more loyal than any other friends they would throw themselves in front of a bullet for you if they cared about you but if you weren’t then they would rob you blind or at least set you up to get robbed didn’t matter how cool you were or how generous you were so this mentality is what I’d be Leary of because even though the level of loyalty for their loved ones was unreal the side they showed to the ones that got robbed was scary but the main thing I’d be wore about is the baggage they might be loaded down with of course there were a couple of them that didn’t do that level of robbing and would probably be as level headed and drama free as they were back then and other than them being to old and it would be to weird for me I’d say they’re probably better relationship material than most women

AncientWisdom · Accepted Answer

I think many men would date a sex worker , however marrying one is another story. That’s not something I would advise anyone to allow into their family and to mother their children. I don’t have anything against them but they chose the life of a multitude of men using them as a “cum repository” anytime a woman has sex with a penis that is not covered in latex and he ejaculates inside of her vagina she absorbs that genetic material into her body through the mucosal membranes that line her vagina. Even if he doesn’t ejaculate

elizamichale1 · Accepted Answer

Well darling there's no harm in being a sex worker...
I am a sex worker and i am proud of my work...
And yes many guys have dated me n love to date me but also many guys dont want to date prostitutes or strippers

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

Sex work isn’t work - mopping toilets and counting money is work.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I did.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yes I would.

when you consider just how wide a sector that is covered by the term.

You can have a girl studying at University and doing an Only Fans site.

She qualifies and stops it.

People see a Doctor, a lawyer, etc.

I am friends with a few people like that, also girls that were dancers at clubs but are either doctors / consultants or in one case training to be a Midwife.

Society is still messed up on that it tars people for their history, views them as damaged goods.

Maybe society should be just as hard on say guys who messed up in their teens and have a police record, or other stuff happen that is not your normal teenage, young adult life.

for me, it’s all about how the person is, what they are like when I am dating them, I do not really care if they spent a couple years running an only fans site, danced at a club. It’s the person in the present that really counts.

Talon364 · Answer

Depends what sex work they did. And this may be sexist: Male pornstar-- go for it ladies. Female pornstar--- run from it men.
It just seems that men separate real and porn world a little better. Male pornstars, currently, are suprisingly normal guys. They work much more than the women. Because there are less of them. So they see their job as just job-- a little better than the ladies. Female PS's have to do photo shoots. Competition is very fierce. Lots of backstabbing. The men support each other, go in do their job, and retain more anonymity. Because there are like only 30 guys who are in demand talent. The guy's aren't the focus of a shoot. And are more desperate to have a "normal" private life to balance everything out.

MCheetah · Answer

Probably not. I could never trust them to be faithful, loyal, or attracted to me. And I'm not even talking about the "sexual intercourse" sex workers; I mean even the strippers, webcam girls, or Twitch thots. And OnlyFans is a hard dealbreaker; I can't respect anyone who would not only do half-assed, lazy pseudo sex work, but exploit lonely loser men, as well. Even drug dealers have more integrity than OnlyFans whores. But regardless of OF and escorts, I just could never trust a sex worker to be loyal to me. Trust is a big deal with me. Not that any women are clamoring to date me anyway. I'm just saying, hypothetically.

Adam_DoesArt · Answer

Never, I'd not even consider dating someone with an OnlyFans. Men need to have some standards for themselves. Women are able to get away with just about anything, and yet still have armies of simps, crawling over each other, for a little attention from her, it's disgusting.

Kittycurious · Answer

As a random date. Out of curiosity if they are willing to talk about their experience. No sex. And definitely no relationship. Relationships are hard enough without adding that to the mix. I don't put anyine down for doing it. But not something I would want in a committed relationship. Probably causes a lot baggage. And we all have enough of that.

Finchie40 · Answer

Define sex worker? Are you talking about an escort or a prostitute or a porn star? Then My answer is No , If she was a Stripper or a cam girl then yes just as long as she doesn’t have a history of being with multiple partners and selling herself for money , but if she was just showing nudes for money I could handle that

Citizenkirk · Answer

If sex seems like work, than you are not doing it right. I did hang out with a prostitute who liked getting skin treatments and bath's from an amateur, recreational skin care therapist "hey it's my fantasy b******* make believe job so I can call it whatever I want" I think she just liked being pampered and fondled by someone she didn't have to put up with John bullshit from. Doing things for money probably took the prospect of romance on a one way trip down the 🚽🧻🪠.

Anonymous · Answer

Sex workers are self claimed. Average women in the US isn’t ! What’s the difference , guy do date sexy worker in way..
in the US sex activity starts at 11 years old let’s say someone gets married at 30– > > that’s 19 years of sexual activity with a highly potential up to 50+ most likely more (partners)!

Same goes to men women do date sex workers too lol. At the end of the day we are all bitches.. cry me condom I mean a river

PeterQuillsAlive · Answer

Depends on the person
but probably not.

I would care more about who the person was, as opposed to their previous work history.
If this person happened to be a sex worker in the past... but I truly cared.. then fine.

However, I would just go finding a sex worker to date.. cause im lonely

Rizwan_khan · Answer

No I never date a sex worker. but it doesn't mean I'm not respecting sex worker although I never met any sex worker in my life. And I thought nay girl in the this world love to be sex worker. Their must be some solid story of that girl who choose or put in this type of work. I rather date sex worker not for sex but fir long talk coz I love to talk.

Anonymous · Answer

Snow bunny queen of spades  Depends on the initial connection, everyone is human and some beak that barrier early than others. No judgment should be passed, if they are genuine to start then you never know… If you had to choose in the situation you did end up having a night with a sex worker (male obviously or whatever your into) but hypocritically it were to happen then you might really like what you getting, what would you choose as a top scene for you to be involved? Kind of star male, race and performance…

Cherry234 · Answer

Yeah because the past is the past. As long as he doesn't do it currently then I don't have a problem with that.

Anonymous · Answer

I “sorta” did this for a while. I helped financially support a widow with two kids who used to be a sex worker. But I felt very conflicted when I had sex with her. She legitimately liked me so the fact she enjoyed it made me enjoy it to a certain extent. She was very attractive too. But at the same time I felt conflicted. I was trying my best not to judge her but it was very tough.

weysally · Answer

I will answer this for my husband, he says what is in the past stays in the past, and if I had been a sex worker then it would be a yes

Anonymous · Answer

If it was involuntary or they had no other option, and they have no STDs or drug habits, then perhaps. Sadly, many people are forced into the industry, and I won't hold that against them. If they just did it for fun, then no.

mstbooblover · Answer

Why not? At least, and on top, I would certainly learn something from her experience. My answer is thus YES. And sure there's a way to deal with the potential health problems.

dustybiker · Answer

That past is part of what makes the person that you are attracted to standing before you. We all get STD tested these days.

t-8900 · Answer

Wouldn't touch one, wouldn't date one. Just gross 🤢

Avicenna · Answer

Of course not. A guy shouldn't want to date a woman who's used to extracting as much money as she can from men and has had sex with perhaps thousands of men.

Wester1967 · Answer

I did. More than once. I would not recommend it at all. The body count is way over the 16 limit and pair bonding is like a bad joke. However, the general non delusional relationship to reality is very refreshing.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

I honestly won't say that I might or probably wouldn't but I definitely be hesitant because they might have too many sexual diseases, plus most sex workers likely come with quite a lot of baggage to be frank.

Anonymous · Answer

Really it depends on why she was let go from the position. If she left on good terms and had good reviews then I would definitely be okay with that. If she got fired from her sex job then I would have to ask more questions like was she fired for stabbing someone with a stiletto heel? Or was her boss overbearing and she wanted to settle down?

Kaneki05 · Answer

Been or Is I am cool with it. My mind does no lead to conservative values.

msg999 · Answer

Depends on why she is a sex worker. Many women are forced to be sex workers by mafia, criminals e. t. c. Nobody has any right to blame them to be a sex worker but if she is a sex worker by choice. My answer is no.

Anonymous · Answer

I never had a girlfriend and had a boundary of not dating bad girls before. But as years pass, I am seeing there's actually no difference between good and bad girls. Both of them want tall hot rich outgoing guys and as of my age, both of them will gonna have way more experience than me. Plus so-called good girls hate virgin guys, they want experienced guys, I got ditched at a date because of this. So a former sex worker is fine with me, assuming she doesn't do that anymore and has no STDs.

Soyyo9 · Answer

Can’t hold anyone’s past against them. We are human we all do things we’re not proud of. I could write a book on my wrongs but there’s not enough typing space.

Somegirl678 · Answer

yeah sure why not, i tried camming before myself lol so i dont mind

LoneWolf21 · Answer

Nope. Not interested in dealing with any of the bs that comes with that situation.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

No, I feel sorry for them if it was their choice. Still no either way.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes.  im married to a girl that use to be a porn star, And. She Use to get around. Even before that.  it didn’t make me disqualify her as a potential partner

20yearsolder · Answer

As long as they're tests come back clean, I would absolutely date a sex worker.

ImJustSomeGuyLol · Answer

No, personally I would not. It's just a respect and values thing for me.

annabananna · Answer

If it was in the past and he was a really good person I wouldn’t see a problem with it.

Truthatanycost · Answer

'what is in the past stays in the past' Until it doesn't... and isn't...

I_want_a_moustache · Answer

Yes, why not? If we fall in love the past is history we don’t even have to talk about it I’m okay with being kept in the dark when it comes to people I love.

Bdsmaster · Answer

I would luv, I have done things that I don't regret doing but we're different so why should I judge the girl.

DanielBlack1904120 · Answer

If life dealt her a shit hand & that was her way out & I really liked her than yeah but if she's some haggard ass chick who was lazy & did it cause she liked to fuck than no way

michael1469 · Answer

Prolly not interested. But I did date an wx strippee fora while... she had daddy issues. But if was sex every damn day for 6 months. I actually glad when it qas over... i waa sleeping only 2 to 4 hrs a night...

imjustadude · Answer

If she has had all of the tests and shots and come back clean, sure.

AviatorTom · Answer

For a hookup, yes. For long-term relationship, probably not.

notwoke · Answer

yes, you know she would be good at sex and probably not having hang ups about giving it when you needed and maybe she was not totally in the mood. A definite plus.

TsAubreyKate · Answer

Sex workers are better at sex than normal women who lie about their body count anyways and a lot of them don’t get check ups as often as sex workers so why not

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. Using one's sexuality to earn a living is not something I have interest in or respect for.

lovey44 · Answer

If they give it up to be with yiu sure!! Not a sex worker mysekf but I have had SOME sex in my day!! What's the difference?

Scotte1us · Answer

Have seen it but it takes a lot of guts for a men to accept it , Not many men would do it , he has to be sick in the head or would not be real love

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

I messed around with a couple women who were sex workers, but I never fucked them not bad I ever paid for anything. Sure you aren’t.

TheFlak38 · Answer

>whores herself in front of a camera  >"I'm not a sex worker yeah right

LaMiSch · Answer

No i wouldn't. Sounds selfish, but I always had in mind that she only fucked men for money, passion is something else for me. i know weird

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, I would. I almost dated a pro domme but I was afraid it would complicate my child custody if it became known.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Yes to your question But No to your update many men are not as short minded as you think

Wise4myage · Answer

I might if she was clean and no longer involved in it.

Massageman · Answer

No. But I digress - - - - - - - at least someone would know what's going on - - - - - - - -

ctgent · Answer

Sure, if she is no longer doing it. Nobody is perfect, and sometimes people do things for a reason, or a season. Nobody is perfect.

Guanfei · Answer

Depends on what kind of sex worker. And only if she stopped completely.

yucel_eden · Answer

Only if it’s in the past… Hard to love and be loved when 5 guys fuck you every day

Dchrls78104 · Answer

A sex worker? Probably not. She might not want to date me either.

Shiningtempest · Answer

@marish01 I would never date a woman who's a sex worker because that acts as a sign she'll be unfaithful or spread sexually transmitted diseases.

AkshiJanjua · Answer

No way, I want a normal person. Sex worker lifestyle is not normal in my opinion. Doesn't mean it's wrong but not everyone is up for that

Anonymous · Answer

No. That’s gross. Not saying it should be illegal, I would just prefer never having anything to do with it.

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