I am only asking this question.
Are you so hopeless that you can find a quality partner that you consider dating a sex worker?
To be honest it would depend on a lot of things of course std test results what areas she worked how long ago what’s her means of making money now was there actual sex involved with her client was her sex work her choice or forced did she have a pimp is she carrying emotional scars that haven’t been dealt with and a few others I’m sure along with my normal stuff when I was a kid I knew some prostitutes (lived in hooker motels) and I still would consider them friends even though it’s been close to thirty thirty-five years since I last talked to any of them they were good people if you were in their inner circle more loyal than any other friends they would throw themselves in front of a bullet for you if they cared about you but if you weren’t then they would rob you blind or at least set you up to get robbed didn’t matter how cool you were or how generous you were so this mentality is what I’d be Leary of because even though the level of loyalty for their loved ones was unreal the side they showed to the ones that got robbed was scary but the main thing I’d be wore about is the baggage they might be loaded down with of course there were a couple of them that didn’t do that level of robbing and would probably be as level headed and drama free as they were back then and other than them being to old and it would be to weird for me I’d say they’re probably better relationship material than most women
It’s got nothing to do with hopelessness or being desperate cause I’ve never had a problem getting girls it’s the fact that as long as they’re done with all that and are clean no stds and no emotional drama from it still haunting them then they’re a person just like anyone else and for most of us our pasts aren’t squeaky clean but judge me for who I am now of course you can’t just forget history or it can repeat itself sometimes but you can’t hold I over their head constantly you just remember it enough to watch out for warning signs and there’s different kinds of sex workers but they’re all human
I think many men would date a sex worker , however marrying one is another story. That’s not something I would advise anyone to allow into their family and to mother their children. I don’t have anything against them but they chose the life of a multitude of men using them as a “cum repository” anytime a woman has sex with a penis that is not covered in latex and he ejaculates inside of her vagina she absorbs that genetic material into her body through the mucosal membranes that line her vagina. Even if he doesn’t ejaculate
Well darling there's no harm in being a sex worker...
I am a sex worker and i am proud of my work...
And yes many guys have dated me n love to date me but also many guys dont want to date prostitutes or strippers
Regarding update... Really? U feel whoever agrees to date us is hopeless how?
@elizamichale1 Don't listen to her. Like I've said before, there are always going to be people who are judgmental and have outdated beliefs.
@Cherry234 thanks darling😘😘
So as @Cherry234 said it is hopeless to talk to u... Maybe u r so stubborn that u won't listen or maybe u r just jealous
@elizamichale1 Yw 🥰 There's no point in arguing with ignorant people.
@Cherry234 sometimes i just feel like getting back at them with full anger n harsh words
@elizamichale1 I do too. There are a lot of people on here I don't like but there are the good people too I can tolerate and even consider friends.
@Cherry234 @elizamichale1 I totally understand the desire to tell ignorant people off on here lol
@Cherry234 yes absolutely right and i also am with friends with many people and even on here interact with people who do not approve of my work but also do not make me look bad or look down on me... all they say is if i am ok with this who are they to criticise they just see me as a person how i interact with them
and to be honest we need people like these who believe in live and let live
yes jealous and i know many girls who only treat me badly coz they are not able to get any guys so start saying bad things about me or me fellows
@marish01 why shit on those who don't matter to you? kinda odd. maybe you are jealous. ohhh
@Still-alive I am not stoping them from selling their bodies. I only said it is disgusting to mr necause IT IS.
How can I envy people because they do what I consider physically and morally disgusting? Use your brains please
@Cherry234 whom I respect or not, judge or not is my personal choice.
@elizamichale1 It really is a shame some people are very disrespectful. They have no right to criticize you. It's your life and you can do whatever you want. You're not harming anyone. The type of people who criticize you are the ones who need to get a life.
Ok younthink it’s disgusting. Why share that with everyone? What do you get out if doing that instead of minding your own business?
@Still-alive talking about my preferences is my business and my choice.
You’re shitting on other peoples business….
@marish01 @Cherry234 @Still-alive thats exactly what those girls say that they hate to do what i do n they only want to be with only one man n that would be their husband but i have seen some of them desperate for guys n some even became fine with me after getting guys with them... n you are saying absolutely the same
and yes this is true that people who date us shouldn't be judged n neither should us tbh coz when i am at work i am not causing any harm to anyone and instead i can quote so many examples where my clients were so into depression and worried but coz of me they could came back to their regular life and routine and some of those are now one of my good friends
how can selling my body be disgusting huhh i believe it takes much more efforts n work than any other walk in life it doesn't just take hardworking but actually physical work of my body plus the emotions...
n thanks cherry you are such an angel honey
@elizamichale1 I got you. 😊
We both gotchu :)
Ok go be that but leave others alone and spare them from your judgment
@Still-alive @Cherry234 thanks guys
@Still-alive do they leave me alone?
I said for many times and I'm saying it again I am entitled to dislike/judge whoever I want.
They will once you stfu already.
@Still-alive I don't care if they attack me. At the end of the day they are the hurt ones. I don't mind their attacks. They mind my judgement.
So why judge? Why do it? What do you get out of it?
@Still-alive I express my opinion. I am not supposed to like all human behaviors.
Ok but again what do you get out of expressing this opinion. Like ok and? We dont agree with you.
@Still-alive your agreeing or disagreeing changes nothing
Ok go away now your point was made. You’re a hateful person. Byeee
@Still-alive go away?
From my own post?
You should leave my post.
I call troll on you at this point
@Still-alive is that how you act when you are burnt?
Nah its what I conclude when your only retort to why you think its ok to express your judgment of others who dont matter to you is “freedom of speech”. You know what you’re doing troll. Just stop it already
@Still-alive hey hey its ok guys... no body needs to fight n to the point to leaving... we can always have conflicting discussions... can't we?
and @marish01 no darling we did not mean to attack you.. i am sorry if i gave that impression.. i was just giving my opinion as you n was sharing my experience so far
and hey guys eventhough @marish01 feels disgusted by my work i still sent her a follow request to interact further with her and she is kind enough to accept it so i think we have rushed to make judgement about her... maybe she only just disapproves of me n my fellows but ok otherwise
Ill stop for your sake only. I have a feeling you won't get much out of her in private either. But ill let you two try
@elizamichale1 Sorry. We'll stop.
@Cherry234 awww so sweet of you honey (kisses n hugs)
i just meant that we shouldn't ignite any fight or further it hehe
and thanks to u as well darling @Still-alive
@elizamichale1 I understand. 😊
@Cherry234 u r soo nice
@elizamichale1 Aww thank you you're pretty sweet yourself. ☺️
@Cherry234 hehe thanks n well then my titty hugs for you ( . ) ( . )
Titty hugs are the best lols
@Still-alive hehe sure they are
@marish01 You're a really judgmental person.
I'm a virgin too waiting for the right girl. The one I'm interested worked as a sex worker.
That alone doesn't make someone terrible. If they're careless about it and treat their partners like dirt and don't care what impact they make then, yeah, they're assholes. If they're perfectly nice and sweet people then why are you faulting someone for enjoying what they enjoy and seeking out pleasure. Not everyone will share your views and values surrounding love, sex and intimacy, if you can't accept that then you'll never forge meaningful connections with others and enjoy someone who yeah, might've had sex before you, big deal. It's honestly a plus. Learn from them. Part of the fun of loving someone is learning what makes you different and what separates her/him from you and where your similarities lie.
@elizamichale1 The overwhelming majority supports you and others in life choices over this person. This isn't a constructive mindset to have.
@InventorofWarp I don't care if you accept such a person.
I don't.
I don't care if the vast majority of people disagree with me. I'm not going to lower my standards
Sex work isn’t work - mopping toilets and counting money is work.
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Yes I would.
when you consider just how wide a sector that is covered by the term.
You can have a girl studying at University and doing an Only Fans site.
She qualifies and stops it.
People see a Doctor, a lawyer, etc.
I am friends with a few people like that, also girls that were dancers at clubs but are either doctors / consultants or in one case training to be a Midwife.
Society is still messed up on that it tars people for their history, views them as damaged goods.
Maybe society should be just as hard on say guys who messed up in their teens and have a police record, or other stuff happen that is not your normal teenage, young adult life.
for me, it’s all about how the person is, what they are like when I am dating them, I do not really care if they spent a couple years running an only fans site, danced at a club. It’s the person in the present that really counts.
Depends what sex work they did. And this may be sexist: Male pornstar-- go for it ladies. Female pornstar--- run from it men.
It just seems that men separate real and porn world a little better. Male pornstars, currently, are suprisingly normal guys. They work much more than the women. Because there are less of them. So they see their job as just job-- a little better than the ladies. Female PS's have to do photo shoots. Competition is very fierce. Lots of backstabbing. The men support each other, go in do their job, and retain more anonymity. Because there are like only 30 guys who are in demand talent. The guy's aren't the focus of a shoot. And are more desperate to have a "normal" private life to balance everything out.
I agree. But I don't think female sex workers feel humiliated. That statement is an opinion, not a fact. Everyone is different. There are some sex moves in porn that I think are disrespectful to women. But I have had women ask me to do that very thing when we were alone. So, to each their own.
I agree. Men are probably better at disconnecting from their line of work. I still wouldn't for other reasons. But I don't judge them. You sound like you have some personal experience. ?
Probably not. I could never trust them to be faithful, loyal, or attracted to me. And I'm not even talking about the "sexual intercourse" sex workers; I mean even the strippers, webcam girls, or Twitch thots. And OnlyFans is a hard dealbreaker; I can't respect anyone who would not only do half-assed, lazy pseudo sex work, but exploit lonely loser men, as well. Even drug dealers have more integrity than OnlyFans whores. But regardless of OF and escorts, I just could never trust a sex worker to be loyal to me. Trust is a big deal with me. Not that any women are clamoring to date me anyway. I'm just saying, hypothetically.
The lonely loser men don't even need to be exploited. They willing go out of their way to find sex workers
I don’t know if drug dealers have more integrity if they are selling things that can actually kill a person.
Never, I'd not even consider dating someone with an OnlyFans. Men need to have some standards for themselves. Women are able to get away with just about anything, and yet still have armies of simps, crawling over each other, for a little attention from her, it's disgusting.
As a random date. Out of curiosity if they are willing to talk about their experience. No sex. And definitely no relationship. Relationships are hard enough without adding that to the mix. I don't put anyine down for doing it. But not something I would want in a committed relationship. Probably causes a lot baggage. And we all have enough of that.
Having a friend in the sex industry would actually be quite entertaining. Lol
Yes. I work in a hospital. Night shift
Define sex worker? Are you talking about an escort or a prostitute or a porn star? Then My answer is No , If she was a Stripper or a cam girl then yes just as long as she doesn’t have a history of being with multiple partners and selling herself for money , but if she was just showing nudes for money I could handle that
If sex seems like work, than you are not doing it right. I did hang out with a prostitute who liked getting skin treatments and bath's from an amateur, recreational skin care therapist "hey it's my fantasy b******* make believe job so I can call it whatever I want" I think she just liked being pampered and fondled by someone she didn't have to put up with John bullshit from. Doing things for money probably took the prospect of romance on a one way trip down the 🚽🧻🪠.
Sex workers are self claimed. Average women in the US isn’t ! What’s the difference , guy do date sexy worker in way..
in the US sex activity starts at 11 years old let’s say someone gets married at 30– > > that’s 19 years of sexual activity with a highly potential up to 50+ most likely more (partners)!
Same goes to men women do date sex workers too lol. At the end of the day we are all bitches.. cry me condom I mean a river
Depends on the person
but probably not.
I would care more about who the person was, as opposed to their previous work history.
If this person happened to be a sex worker in the past... but I truly cared.. then fine.
However, I would just go finding a sex worker to date.. cause im lonely
No I never date a sex worker. but it doesn't mean I'm not respecting sex worker although I never met any sex worker in my life. And I thought nay girl in the this world love to be sex worker. Their must be some solid story of that girl who choose or put in this type of work. I rather date sex worker not for sex but fir long talk coz I love to talk.
Depends on the initial connection, everyone is human and some beak that barrier early than others. No judgment should be passed, if they are genuine to start then you never know… If you had to choose in the situation you did end up having a night with a sex worker (male obviously or whatever your into) but hypocritically it were to happen then you might really like what you getting, what would you choose as a top scene for you to be involved? Kind of star male, race and performance…
I “sorta” did this for a while. I helped financially support a widow with two kids who used to be a sex worker. But I felt very conflicted when I had sex with her. She legitimately liked me so the fact she enjoyed it made me enjoy it to a certain extent. She was very attractive too. But at the same time I felt conflicted. I was trying my best not to judge her but it was very tough.
Yeah because the past is the past. As long as he doesn't do it currently then I don't have a problem with that.
In your question you said "has been" which is in the past tense. Just because I would doesn't mean I don't have any morals at all. People make mistakes. I'm not judgmental about that sort of thing. The fact that some people on here are rude about it and even call it "gross" really pisses me off. People need to stop being jerks.
well, people tend to hate sex worker, it was obvious that people would react like that
hum hum
I will answer this for my husband, he says what is in the past stays in the past, and if I had been a sex worker then it would be a yes
If it was involuntary or they had no other option, and they have no STDs or drug habits, then perhaps. Sadly, many people are forced into the industry, and I won't hold that against them. If they just did it for fun, then no.
Why not? At least, and on top, I would certainly learn something from her experience. My answer is thus YES. And sure there's a way to deal with the potential health problems.
That past is part of what makes the person that you are attracted to standing before you. We all get STD tested these days.
Wouldn't touch one, wouldn't date one. Just gross 🤢
Of course not. A guy shouldn't want to date a woman who's used to extracting as much money as she can from men and has had sex with perhaps thousands of men.
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