Why does it bother me my boyfriend used to like “ratchet” women?

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He used to like girls who were kind of “ratchet”. This kind of bothers me for some reason. I’m not really like those girls of his past, i don’t party constantly, or do drugs, i don’t engage in illegal behavior, and i am not someone who isn’t pursuing a college degree, or trying to create a decent life for myself.

For some reason, i just feel upset he liked women like that. Especially because a lot of the women he liked/had sex with weren’t the kindest people to him.
Why does it bother me my boyfriend used to like “ratchet” women?
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