Boyfriend frequently comments about other women?

[Kaz1970]

My boyfriend of over 2 years always comments about other women in conversation with me with particular reference to their ‘attributes’. For example a female estate agent who came to value his property, he will mention her ample cleavage; or he will tell me about a woman at work who had a see-through top on. He does this often. Am I just being overly sensitive but wonder why he does this - is he trying to make me jealous, get a reaction, etc. He almost seems obsessed sometimes.

[molonski2]

I don't think he is trying to make you jealous as I don't think he's pointing them out as a positive , more of a negative or lack of thought , I think its just what he does , I know people like this , dont think there is any ill will in there , more jovial comments.

[Kaz1970]

Thank you, good point.

[bededazzle]

talk to him about it. you're not being oversensitive--you too probably just see things differently. maybe to him, he feels comfortable being honest with you

[Anonymous]

Maybe best to ask him why he does these things. Sometimes asking such question like this on the internet is not good. Why? Because non of hs truly know why he does it and most of the answers you receive may make you feel all sorts of emotions

[laraWM]

That's not very nice of him. Has he ever complimented you? Or only other girls?

[Kaz1970]

Yes to be fair he does compliment me too.

[laraWM]

Good maybe you could talk to him about it

[In_Trance]

Dump him