Boyfriend admits to looking at other women?

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Today my boyfriend of 6 months admitted that he looks at other women while he’s with me. He said he doesn’t stare at them he just looks and keeps it moving. I always talked to him about this and he will always deny and today he admitted he does it. The sad thing is I’m actually very inlove with him and I cannot relate because I do not stare or even look in another man direction when I’m alone or with him. I told him that all of that is going to change and I will openly look at other men too while I’m with him since it’s not reciprocated. All he could say was at least I know your coming home with me ( we do not live together)…. Am I wrong?

IslaTheWitch · Accepted Answer

If you have a boyfriend does it mean that the rest of males is invisible for you? It's nice to take a look on handsome face, nice body or nice suit on nice body. And the best is all together.

Men do the same. It doesn't mean he doesn't respect you or wants to cheat on you. It means he has eyes and appreciates nice body/face.

ChicoFromThe305 · Accepted Answer

Yea seems kinda hardcore to be on his ass when he said he didn't stare he just looks at them, I would assume he means that first look you do when you notice someone is there

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

Most guys look, there's nothing wrong with that.

bededazzle · Answer

it is sad when i hear the disconnect between him having roving eyes and you not. you sound very sweet. but you know, he did tell you, and it can be hard for guys not to space out at beauty. so it sort of sounds like something he can’t fix, though he could maybe at least try since it bothers you and you are a lot more important than strangers. in your heart, do you truly feel this issue is separate from his only having eyes for you?

Fireguy17 · Answer

And? I'm sure you have looked at someone a few times together or not. It's very natural to look at stuff, cars, people, trucks, all sorts of stuff. We wouldn't be human if we didn't look.

slatyb · Answer

We all do that. It's completely normal and natural. That doesn't mean we want to leave our relationship.

RavVid · Answer

Guys always look at other women and always will. It's not personal

Anonymous · Answer

You are overreacting. He is just looking, it's not like he is sleeping with them. He chose to be you not anyone else

m1tch3ll · Answer

too bad? you probs look at other guys irl or online, who gaf, dont go talking about them then there won't be a problem

Twalli · Answer

Men will always look at attractive women, even if he's with the one he is destined to be with. If you have an issue with a guy looking at other women, only date blind guys.

Anonymous · Answer

You're a woman. You're suppose to be submissive. Just follow his orders and don't worry about that.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

So? Is he fucking any? THAT'S when you need to stat worrying!!

RedInnocent68 · Answer

Yes, it’s not a big deal. You can look too. It doesn’t mean anything. It’s biology.

Tomisworthless · Answer

Men can look it doesn't hurt anyone and mens sexual access is limited if you start looking then you are inviting them

Luckycharms12 · Answer

So what I'll look and say I'll look we all look perfectly natural not big deal.

spartan55 · Answer

Hell yeah you're wrong.

NathanDavis · Answer

Yes.

Anonymous · Answer

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