Do you consider guys with resting sad face as unattractive?

[dragoblack]

I have been sad and depressed for so many years that it has affected my muscle structure in my face, so when i smile, it doesn't look like a happy smile, but more of a sad smile. But I'm curious if it affects how women see me as a potential date, since people find that a smile shows off the attractiveness and approachability of a person

[VioletHaze]

Many girls find Kit Harrington and Ryan Reynold very attractive, both have a resting sad face. I don't think anyone finds it unattractive, more often the opposite I'd think.
I myself find Kit quite handsome, and I don't think he'd be as handsome without the resting sad face.

[Anonymous]

if its you in the picture, what you talking about, man? you've kinda great smile!

if not, my bad.

I've never seen one so idek

[StingRayxoxo]

No way. I'd enjoy making him smile even more

[lomimore]

Well it is true that tje positive energy or hapiness in general does attract but your smile is fine don't worry

[purplepoppy]

You look like you're contemplating something rather than sad

[RussianNestingDoll]

If I know him, it’s kind of cute but if he’s a stranger it makes me uncomfortable if he’s staring at me with that sad look🤐

[Gothicwolffox]

It'll be fun to make him smile😄😀😊

[Pamina]

Is that an actual thing now?

[Pamina]

Wait, you're smiling in the picture. I'm confused now.

[dragoblack]

Yes, im smiling in that picture. That's what resting sadface is. It is when someones facial muscle structure changes through micro-tears from muscle movement and heals to the facial position used most. In my case it was sadness and depression, so my muscle structure doesn't do an upwards smile like most people

[Pamina]

I didn't understand a single bit of that explanation.

[dragoblack]

To put it simply, my face doesn't smile properly from being sad and depressed for so long

[Pamina]

If you've been depressed for so long, the way your smile looks is the least of your problems.

[dragoblack]

My depression comes from many things, mostly from years of rejection and my entire childhood of being bullied constantly everyday by students and teachers from kindergarten through 8th grade then coming home to being beaten up by kids in the apt. complex i used to live in

[Pamina]

See, you got plenty of more pressing issues to work on than the way your smile looks.

[dragoblack]

Well, for years i have been studying and trying to figure out why i have been rejected for so many years and one of the reasons one can be attractive to another is a smile (it's weird, i know but there have been scientific studies on human attraction and that was part of it). I'm trying to sift through every possibility that way i can better myself so i can get out of this rut of loneliness

[Pamina]

I'm gonna say something that will be rather harsh, but please take it as constructive criticism.

No matter how attractive your smile, if that's your usual style (like in the picture), you won't attract many women regardless. See, that's the problem with many of you guys who struggle attracting women - you are so focused on the things you can't change or that are really hard to change, that you completely ignore the things that you could easily change to improve. Why is it that guys like you (sorry to be so generalizing, but it's true with so so so many) always fail to recognize that your style (clothes/hair/beard etc.) are just not attractive to the vast majority of women.

If you want to attract more women, start changing the things that you can easily change any time, instead of obsessing over things that you can't change anyway for now.

Look, I'm all for people being tue to themselves and if that's what you like, more power to you. But then you also need to realize that the niche of women being into that, is very small. And I think you'll agree that what you need is to expand the pool of women who might potentially find you attractive.

[Anonymous]

there's nothing wrong with your smile

[DakotaNorth]

A friendly person is a sexy person. Simple as that

[Secret6620]

No. I've never seen the resting sad face lol

[mmaryg599]

If man in sad, i better leave him alone.