When did you get your first bf/gf?

[dog112233]

When did you get your first bf/gf?

[AuroraRoseat]

14. I dated an older guy (around 20) because I knew that I was into older men then and for bragging rights to friends. We talked on the phone, held hands, and even kissed.

I found out that he had no job, no car, and no ambition a couple of days later (and I had a job). I dumped him.

[djoc6787]

When i was 16 and she was 15

[Anonymous]

I’ve never had a bf! 28yr old virgin with 0 bfs! 🤷🏻‍♀️

[young_old_soul]

I was 18, freshman year of college. I had started a new job and my supervisor on my third day there asked me to go to dinner with her. I didn't realize it was a date until she invited me back to her place rather than taking me back home.

[RustyTinCan]

Haven't hit that milestone yet, but I'll chime in as soon as I work up the nerve to let it happen.

[Alice2398]

I can't really call him a real boyfriend because we were only kids and he's gay now.

But we met on the first day of school and were inseparable till age seven when he moved but we still talk now and again

[Alice2398]

So at age four i had a boyfriend 😅

[gititboi]

"... and he's gay now."

A 4-year-old fag hag! Guurrrllll you're killing me. What did you DO to that poor boy?

[Alice2398]

@gititboi i made him kiss me and play barbies with me

[gititboi]

Ahaha funny

[AmesRocks1]

Well technically at 15 but I wouldn't count that as a real relationship (we were on and off and it was extremely toxic.

Now, for a real relationship, at 17

[Billy96]

I waz like 14
I thought she waz the 1
My 1 and only lol 😂
I waz dumb

[pinkhoodie53]

I was like 14 but I liked him since I was 11. He was an ass and he hurt me a lot but at the time I was young and I thought he was so cute and I liked him so much that I’d die for him.

[MissKittyz]

My actual real relationship was at 19.

The rest don't count cause barely lasted a week and I was young.

[Lionessgoddess]

Like first actual relationship other than talking at recess? 17 but that’s pretty old for most people.

[selfesteemguy]

Never did and never will. Because I only love myself more than anything and anyone else. Narcissism rocks!

[MusicMayhem]

Haven't had one yet. Most girls I meet only see me cause they're lonely and desperate or are drunk and just want my dick.

[TacosRAwesome]

So I had a thing with a guy at 18 and then a proper boyfriend at 21 and then a grown up relationship at 26.

[CherryRoseChampange]

Technically, when I was 6. When I actually count it? Age 13.

[NicolaD]

About 14 but it was only dating nothing more (from either side)

[Inexpensivefurniture]

I dated a little in highschool when I was 16 but my first serious relationship was when I was 19

[jjeong5]

Never. Genuinely thinking of ending it all if I’m still single by 40. 17 years left...

[Leon_Penn]

That's a bad reason to end it

[jjeong5]

@Leon_Penn dont want to be known as a failure of a man.

[Leon_Penn]

Does being with a girl determine whether or not you are a man or a failure at that? A failure of a man is a man who gives up. The future doesn't wait for the present to take action. Your 23 don't be so down, if you want things to change for the better than make an effort find a desire or purpose to do so!

[reptocarl]

My first official was when I was in the eighth grade

[Giggletr0n]

At 17, lost my V card before that but I never classed her as my girlfriend.

[Tina84]

My first real girlfriend 18 I had a fake boyfriend we covered for each other.

[Anonymous]

Never had one. Girls are too judgmental and racist towards tall and dark complexioned men. They get scared when I talk to them too. I must be a scary monster

[Logorithim]

Age 15c

[JudgmentDay]

It never happened and never will happen.

[Giggletr0n]

You're doing a service to all woman kind

[JudgmentDay]

@Giggletr0n You're probably right. They wouldn't want to be around me either way if they knew the true me. Unless they somehow also have existential futility and despair themselves, then that would be the only way I could relate with them or anybody else. Although odds are they also aren't pleasant and good to hang around with and might be a heavy and frequent drinker or is addicted to all kinds of drugs and various substances, not saying all of them are gonna be like that even if they have those similar thoughts and feelings that I have. I just think and feel that in the end nothing really matters, we're all gonna be dead, gone and forgotten one way or another, and that everything we do is just to help "cope" with this reality of futility, nothing lasts forever, over time all will perish and be gone forever.

[Lliam]

16. At least that's the first one I slept with.

[Just_a_human]

I had a fake boyfriend at 13

[sidhk69]

What's a fake boyfriend

[Just_a_human]

@sidhk69 in my case, some boy that was going around telling people that we were dating and people believed him. We were not dating.

[sidhk69]

Lol... When did u get a real one

[Just_a_human]

@sidhk69 never did

[sidhk69]

Ohhh.. ok

[Max_SS]

Real girlfriend 15 or 16

[Volb3at]

I was 17, not sure how I asked her out but I did

[Alyssa_K]

When I was 16 turning 17.

[Dlg1979]

10, he was 8, my friends were playing matchmaker

[love_ly412]

Fake 'boyfriend' - 11
Real boyfriend - 15

[JakobHiebert71]

I got my first girlfriend when I was 18 in October

[Gottabsavagee]

Now, all my previous ones weren’t worth mentioning

[up_64]

How pretentious of you to assume I've had one.

[armleg]

never had one never will

[weirdoweirdo]

Never really had a real girlfriend.

[NovissimumVirorum]

I'm going to die alone and hopefully really soon

[Psynax]

Do you see the top of the mountain? No, you don't, why? The clouds are covering the top.

Think about your life like rock climbing. You're working hard to get to the top, nothing stops you but you have to climb to get up there. You see the bottom is closer to the top and you feel like giving up because it's still far away. But you don't want to get down, you want to reach the top of the mountain so you must continue climbing.

However there's always a risk, and that is the risk of falling down. When you fall down, it will hurt, it will be painful and cause suffering. Pain can go as high that you wish you died when you fell.
But you're alive and have a chance to recover because you still have the strength and are strong. The pain will ease to a degree where you are ready to get back on the mountain. You start climbing and guess what? The pain, it's disappearing because now you get higher up, you see where you made a mistake and know this time how to get higher. You're more excited, happy and motivated to continue, striving to reach the top because you've reached new heights!

Congratulations my friend, you nailed it, accomplished something you never thought you would... Feeling the joy of accomplishment and can finally relax.

Unfortunately, we have to go down again and repeat.

Life follows a momentum, when you're at the bottom you have to look up at the top and remember it when you're at the top you always have to remember there's a bottom.

[Nadim171]

Online girlfriend when I was 12

[sapphire3506]

that doesn't count lol

[Nadim171]

Lol... then never

[BrookieDeLa]

When I was 13

[Xander_24]

When I was 13 I had a girl over I was gonna ask out. But my 3 older sisters found out I liked her and they pulled my pants down in front of her and gave me a wedgie and that ruined my chances with her.

[killmejerusalem]

Age 15

[marleyanna2016]

I never had one

[tomlinson211]

I first had a boyfriend when I was 9 turning 10

[Boppy]

Maybe one day...

[Lauren-green]

When I was 14

[imchrxs]

age 15

[Secret6620]

13 🖤🤓

[Isabella46]

17 y/o

[rgb008]

I was 20.

[Ámayas_20]

13ish

[robzombiessexfox]

I haven't yet.

[JamesBoradil03]

a 6 weeks ago

[Tomsta]

When i was 25

[jaxthedog]

May 23rd 2018

[Iron_Man]

Late in life

[Secretgardenblood]

I was 20

[Gedaria]

I was about 13 ...

[Piteka5]

This January

[Agem123]

When I was 21

[Tyffen]

Good question 🤔😂

[adamski24]

Around 13

[xkforcesc2]

20 in college

[LuWe22]

Age 23

[Anonymous]

I was 17

[AkshiJanjua]

maybe in future

[Victor1212]

20 years