I've only ever been on one date and that was 4 years ago when I was 34 years old.
Me and the lady went out to a restaurant to have a meal and talk. I wanted a private table because I was worried I would embarrass myself horribly.
Automatically, the waitress set me next to a table with a family of like 20. I asked if I could sit in a different area that was away from the rest of the people, but instead she sat us right next to the damn bar.
When the woman arrived I greeted her and we both ordered. We talked for a long time and kept the conversation going. The problem was though that the waitress came out like 20 freaking times to check up on us and to interrupt our conversation. I apologized to the girl, and said I was frustrated with how often the waitress kept coming to the table.
I wasn't sure though how to end the date, so she decided to end the night, and we actually tried to get together again but money and school got in my way. After making a few excuses due to those problems I knew I couldn't get back with the woman. Although we got along, there wasn't anything like major sparks but she was a good person.
Before that and after that i've never been on any other date. I'm available if anyone wants to give someone with no experience a chance.
I was 18 when my girlfriend and I started dating (she was 16, going on 17), and we had known each other for a couple years. We had met in high school, although she had a boyfriend in the time. I had never previously been in a relationship. So far, it's lasted a year and a couple months and still going strong. A sense of mutual respect and a strong line of communication, all over a foundation of similar personalities and shared interests, makes it pretty easy for us to get along successfully.
When I was younger, I used to worry a lot about being single, too, thinking I'd be a kissless virgin forever. However, I passed up opportunities for relationships earlier on because they didn't really feel right (this one did from the start). And I'm glad I did so. Trust me, don't rush to get into a relationship or have intimate experiences. Those things will come in time. Focus on your own desires and goals for yourself rather than what other people are doing, and you'll be much happier overall.
I have had boys liking me before first grade and they loved holding my small hand ! I had my actual boyfriend around 8 th grade and his name was Glenn S. ! He went around tapping me on the head with his pencil which back then was the boys way of letting a girl know that they liked them ! another popular boy by the name of Bruce P. sat right next to me in the school auditorium even though he was not supposed to but he cut in line and made the other boys move out of his way in line just so Bruce could sit by me ! We were supposed to sit - boy , girl , boy - but Bruce ( who was athletic ( was not next in line to sit next to me but he did it anyway ! do not feel bad if you are young and have not been kissed by a man just yet ! I have had all the kisses that a man can give a woman including love bites but those kisses did not mean much because the relationship was not the type that called for that kind of kiss I was given ! make sure you and he really love each other before you - French kiss - because this type of kiss should mean marriage and such too but not always ! Thanks
I was 16, he was 18. We've met in a local chatroom about a year prior to that and became good friends until we got interested in more.
It took us about half a year to realize that we really worked out better as friends than as partners and we broke up again. A few more years down the road and we were friends again, still are to this day :)
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I had my first girlfriend at 20.
I had my first boyfriend at 15, but we were both extremely sheltered so we never did more than hold hands. Now at 19 I haven’t found anyone I consider right for me, so I’ve never kissed anyone. It’s your life, and sometimes you have to focus on yourself instead of others.
Im 18. haven't made it to a second date yet. Only ever held a girls hand and never kissed to on the mouth. No sex. Nothing. Dont worry about it. It hurts but at 17 you're not going to marry anyone more than likely. you'll find your soul mate some day.;)
We were 14 and started dating a few weeks before i turned 15. Mom said i couldnt have a boyfriend til 16 but she caved. He and i met at school and i couldnt stand him. He was an annoying class clown but when he moved next door we got closer. He was a great kisser but a bad boyfriend. He didn't treat me the best outside of friendship ig and the realtionship was on/off for a looooong time. Glad thats finally over. I’d advise waiting til maybe 17+ for a boyfriend
I had my first at 17, there's no wrong or right time, don't rush it. When it feels good and you meet the right person, then go for it. There's no point getting into a relationship just for the sake of it :)
Don't worry about it, it'll come with time
I was 10 or 11.. we had a great time hanging out. .. we would do lots of stuff together like go swimming in the summer and skating in winter it lasted for a few years and we just slowly drifted apart and we lost touch for about a dozen years then one night a friend invited me to meet with some people he just met so we did. We were all sitting around chatting and I noticed a pretty girl wasn't saying much which I thought maybe she was a little shy and about twenty minutes later all of a sudden she screamed my name and jumped up and ran over and gave me a big hug and kiss crying out her name and I realized who she was and we forgot about the other people for the rest of the night while we caught up!!! Thanks for tickling my memory 🥰
You're 17? Oh babygirl don't rush yourself. You're so young. It all just ends in heartbreak the first x number of boyfriends or girlfriends anyways, it's really not that great until/unless you find your forever person. It takes a long time to find a forever person, so don't worry about running into the arms of someone who might only be there a week or a couple months.
I was 19 and I felt the same way you do. Love is just a drug. Sometimes I wish I had never tried it.
It was when I was 17 summer camp I was met a CIT and we sorta hit it off and I really liked him. I had to get permission from the camp directors to date him bc he was a little over a year older than me. So we stayed together after camp for like almost a year maybe a year. I was in boarding school my high school year and he was about to go into college. We met during holidays but ended my sophomore year. I say he was my first love!
I stalked a guy at my high school and even joined the drama club to get near him until he knew I liked him. I was 16.
Had my first at 16, on the school bus, great (if she came back I'd seriously consider preposing) and about a year (8 months as a true relationship)
I had mine at 15.
And I never kissed either.
15 i guess but it was a joke. It was all just a bad joke...
No point in wasting him kissing people just for the sake of kissing, same goes for anything more, keep your eyes open and yer legs shut
I had my first "contact" at 14 and my first girlfriend at 15.
26.
We had been friends for a year.
She initiated the relationship over text while she was out of town.
It lasted 4 days and I didn't see her in that time, then she broke it off and ghosted.
Now I'm dead inside.
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Girl, still 20 over here without boyfriend and I've never kissed a guy before.
I just had that flirting thing with some guys but never something formal.
My First Girlfriend was the second day of Middle School 7th grade homeroom it started changing the way I saw my self and the way others perceive my actions and judge my appearance in other words it was the start of actually caring what people I have no affiliation with think of me which is idiotic when you think about it
when i was 18 she was 17 though , is there a rule saying girls have to be younger and guys older? i have seen that a lot over the years.
Almost 2 years ago. That lasted 8 months but he cheated on me and left me for the girl. I have the worlds best boyfriend now and there's no doubt in our mind we'll get married one day.
I had a crush on my best friend when I was probably 11. At 14 we started getting intimate. She's still my boyfriend today.
I was 14 and it lasted for 1 or 2 months or so. Wasn't that serious.
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