What age did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend and how long did you last together?

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ohshee · Accepted Answer

Wow so I not only hear your question but I feel it and I can feel you going through something and that just totally sucks I hate that for you if you are we have all gone through this each and every single one of us it's at puppy love that first love and you think your world has just been destroyed but it's what you do with your world when this happens it makes you a bigger better person all the way to the rest of your life if you can stop and look at it as a learning experience and really understand what it's all about you will be way better off in the long run and your heart will never be broken again the same way I don't remember how long it lasted I do remember going through it
And I remember telling myself never again LOL
Now and saying all the above I can tell you this life is a learning experience and you have to experience it to understand it once you understand that you will never let it happen again or if it does happen again you will be prepared you hold your head up high you will walk away and know this for the best reasons because I guarantee you after the hurt and the pain there is something beautiful this starts happening again so if you are going through this I'm sorry that you have to do this we all did and believe me your next relationship you will be 10 times happier more in love you just have to make sure that it's the right love the right person in the way things are going nowadays everybody's just hooking up and they use each other like a throw away d o l l and that's really sad
just remember no matter what happens
You are a loving caring person who wants to be there in somebody's life to show them that and there's nothing wrong with that it's just sometimes we picked the wrong people and you will make it through this with flying colors and you will be happier than happy after you let yourself get through this it's your choice how long the pain last remember that it's your choice

dreamstar72 · Accepted Answer

Age 7 - two month - reason broke up holding and whispering during church service.
Age 9 - one months - reason candy (not bad candy!) deal gone bad.
Age 10 - six months - we just went in different directions.
Age 13 - almost four years - I had TBI so she broke up with me.

Emogirl999 · Accepted Answer

I was 15, we were together on and off for just short of 7 years. It was an extremely toxic relationship that I struggled to get out of. I'm in a healthy relationship now with someone who treats me well and makes me happy. Sometimes I still struggle to not let people walk over me because that's what I was used to for so long but over all I'm a lot stronger and more confident than I used to be when I was with my ex.

Prettygurl12 · Accepted Answer

Technically I was 13 and we "dated" for 7 months in middle school. This boy "A" and I decided we were dating and then proceeded to not interact until we broke up 😂

My first "actual" relationship with a guy "B" and we were together for 9 months when we were 15/16.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

At the age of 22  We lasted 3 years and would probably last much much longer have we not been forced to be locked in different countries for 2 years.

Gurdy2816 · Answer

I was 16 and it lasted 2 years. It was the most innocent and explorative love I have ever experienced. I only have fond memories of him and everything we discovered together.

Your first love is so special. Appreciate everything it has taught you about yourself and how to be a romantic partner. It is rarely 'right' and the person you will be with for life, but it is the most potent, explosive, and unregulated feeling of love you will experience.

SamIam96 · Answer

I was 14. There was a small group of boys and girls that would hang out before school. One morning she just kissed me. It was completely unexpected and absolutely wonderful. The next day she did it again. The third day, I was hoping she'd kiss me again, but that was it. Never again. I was so immature that I didn't say anything. A year later, she moved out of town. I still remember her face, name...

Lliam · Answer

I was 16 and was with her for several months. I don't remember exactly how long, though. I was the one who moved on. I never cheated, though.
We remained very good friends. She married one of my best friends a few years later. We stayed in touch for years before losing contact after they moved away.
Probably 40 years later, we connected on Facebook and are still FB friends. She was and is a wonderful lady.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

I think I was 9/10 with first girlfriend, dates such as cinema, ice cream place,

first Proper one was was with my best friend, we decided we sucked at dating each other and then just remained friends.

Then my first sort of asking out, dating, relationship was 14-17, broke up when I joined the Air Force, my mate subsequently married her and is still married with kids.

doodledee · Answer

At 14 and are still together. So probably not long enough to win any awards compared to you guys. Feels like forever though, in a good way.

Dontaaaa · Answer

I can hardly remember how long it lasted, but I was either 15 or 16.

I think it wasted about 3 months, but I could be totally wrong.

The only reason I dated her in the first place was because she had a major crush on me and was just not taking no for an answer and I caved in thinking "fuck it, why not".

ChrisWhiskeys2 · Answer

I was a party guy in my teens, I didn't get into a relationship until I was 21. We stayed together for 15 years.

MaKa_newbie · Answer

I dated guys, but never more then a few dates. First boyfriend was at 20 yo and we're still together (almost 3 years).

emmajoyforever · Answer

I was 15 and we lasted 5 months. Second one was a rebound guy who lasted two months. I was almost 17 when I met the third guy but let's not talk about him. Each relationship was worse than the last. The last guy physically harmed me quite a lot actually.

Bountyslayer · Answer

19 years old, just celebrated our 4 year. but we're going through a bit of a rough patch at the moment

Qmt8112 · Answer

22 years old and about three months. He cheated on me

SeekingSubmission · Answer

3rd grade she taught me how to kiss exceptionally well with my tongue... Only lasted a few weeks... But by 4th grade she was already moving up to hand play wit her new boyfriend...

Kkstarzz96 · Answer

I was 16 and I think we dated for 3 months or 2, it felt like such a long time when I was there but now I'm wondering how do I consider that a relationship lol

Кураж · Answer

I was 14~15, I don't remember the exact length but it was over 6 months. I dated a girl from 9th grade as 8th grader, we broke up some time after she went to high school.

rachel776 · Answer

when i was little i thought every boy i was with was my boyfriend but they usually only lasted 2 or 3 days

Lucy68 · Answer

4 years old in kindergarten, but I didn't get my actual real first relationship until I was about 15 years old

captain_voidwalker · Answer

I was 19 when I had my first girlfriend. Lasted 1 year. I was 24 when I had my 4th and what I decided whould be my last girlfriend. That one lasted 6 months and devolved into some crazy shot where I got stabbed in the abdomen that God my fat ass only got a flesh wound from it. You bitches are crazy and I'm done with ya

Bluemax · Answer

I was 14. It lasted two years, which is way longer than virtually any other couple at my high school.

exitseven · Answer

We started dating when I was 18 but we really were not boyfriend/girlfriend until I was 19. We were together almost 4 years. 3 of them were long distance.

DiegoO · Answer

I was 24, she was 23. We met online, in a chat room. The relation remained LD for 3 years. We never met in person (none of us had the economical resources to end it). We both were each other "first one".

mandyfire98 · Answer

I was 15 when I had my first real boyfriend. It lasted about 6 months.

peedy · Answer

About 45 minutes and it was wonderful and inever seen her again

NathanDavis · Answer

age 16... and we pretty much went on for the three years of high-school

BCRanger10 · Answer

I was 17 and a junior in high school. We were together about four months.

AviatorTom · Answer

I was in college (19-20) and it lasted about 18 months.

Edithemo · Answer

I was like 12 we kissed when I went to her (yes her) house for a sleepover it ended 2 times we broke up when we were both like 14 and are back together now

talka20 · Answer

This one is 1st n engaged... super good Alhamdulillah😇

SweedyPie · Answer

15 years old. We were together for 9 years.

Fireguy17 · Answer

5 years old. Didn't last long.

mobiusforniner · Answer

18, four years. Ended in extreme sadness...

Beerluvr · Answer

I was 15 and it lasted a few months. Then when I was 16 had a longer one of 2 years.

poneglyphs · Answer

I never had one 🥺🥺🥺

Chiarac2003 · Answer

Yikes…. I was 13 n lasted 7 months.

SnakeBoop · Answer

erm 15, lasted like two years

Paulalove98 · Answer

15. Like 3 months or 2 I think.

sage2021 · Answer

I was 16 he was 19. It lasted 3 years

Twalli · Answer

27.5, I'll let you know if it ends

AFretiredTXn · Answer

I was 22, and it has now been 48 years

ArchivalMars2 · Answer

I was 19 and it lasted about a year and a half.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I was 12 and it lasted one year.

JazzGirl27 · Answer

I was 15 and it lasted 6 years.

Crepe_tart · Answer

15, we dated for 3 months

Jltakk · Answer

Never had one. Had my first crush at 14 though.

Avicenna · Answer

I was 15 and it lasted three months

itsalyssaagain · Answer

I was 18. It lasted for 3 months.

Massageman · Answer

16 - one school year.

Vendela · Answer

18 and we've been together ever since.

marish01 · Answer

Never been with intimate relationship with anyone.

MysticDevice · Answer

I was 15 and it lasted about a month

MatteBlaxk · Answer

17. Lasted about 8mths I guess.

dudeinohio · Answer

19 and lasted 6 months.

pink-jilly · Answer

17, lasted about 2 years

MrTaboo · Answer

At 10, she was my secret girlfriend.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

First real girlfriend 15 we went out for 3 years

PortraitOfTerd · Answer

Never happened

Mustang_guy_1986 · Answer

13. Lasted about 6 months

Markie-mark · Answer

17 and still going!

MyGoodFriend · Answer

22, we lasted 6 months.

GAOTA · Answer

Never have one

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