What age did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend and how long did you last together?
Wow so I not only hear your question but I feel it and I can feel you going through something and that just totally sucks I hate that for you if you are we have all gone through this each and every single one of us it's at puppy love that first love and you think your world has just been destroyed but it's what you do with your world when this happens it makes you a bigger better person all the way to the rest of your life if you can stop and look at it as a learning experience and really understand what it's all about you will be way better off in the long run and your heart will never be broken again the same way I don't remember how long it lasted I do remember going through it
And I remember telling myself never again LOL
Now and saying all the above I can tell you this life is a learning experience and you have to experience it to understand it once you understand that you will never let it happen again or if it does happen again you will be prepared you hold your head up high you will walk away and know this for the best reasons because I guarantee you after the hurt and the pain there is something beautiful this starts happening again so if you are going through this I'm sorry that you have to do this we all did and believe me your next relationship you will be 10 times happier more in love you just have to make sure that it's the right love the right person in the way things are going nowadays everybody's just hooking up and they use each other like a throw away d o l l and that's really sad
just remember no matter what happens
You are a loving caring person who wants to be there in somebody's life to show them that and there's nothing wrong with that it's just sometimes we picked the wrong people and you will make it through this with flying colors and you will be happier than happy after you let yourself get through this it's your choice how long the pain last remember that it's your choice
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Age 7 - two month - reason broke up holding and whispering during church service.
Age 9 - one months - reason candy (not bad candy!) deal gone bad.
Age 10 - six months - we just went in different directions.
Age 13 - almost four years - I had TBI so she broke up with me.
I was 15, we were together on and off for just short of 7 years. It was an extremely toxic relationship that I struggled to get out of. I'm in a healthy relationship now with someone who treats me well and makes me happy. Sometimes I still struggle to not let people walk over me because that's what I was used to for so long but over all I'm a lot stronger and more confident than I used to be when I was with my ex.
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Technically I was 13 and we "dated" for 7 months in middle school. This boy "A" and I decided we were dating and then proceeded to not interact until we broke up 😂
My first "actual" relationship with a guy "B" and we were together for 9 months when we were 15/16.
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We lasted 3 years and would probably last much much longer have we not been forced to be locked in different countries for 2 years. -
I was 16 and it lasted 2 years. It was the most innocent and explorative love I have ever experienced. I only have fond memories of him and everything we discovered together.
Your first love is so special. Appreciate everything it has taught you about yourself and how to be a romantic partner. It is rarely 'right' and the person you will be with for life, but it is the most potent, explosive, and unregulated feeling of love you will experience. -
I was 14. There was a small group of boys and girls that would hang out before school. One morning she just kissed me. It was completely unexpected and absolutely wonderful. The next day she did it again. The third day, I was hoping she'd kiss me again, but that was it. Never again. I was so immature that I didn't say anything. A year later, she moved out of town. I still remember her face, name...
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I was 16 and was with her for several months. I don't remember exactly how long, though. I was the one who moved on. I never cheated, though.
We remained very good friends. She married one of my best friends a few years later. We stayed in touch for years before losing contact after they moved away.
Probably 40 years later, we connected on Facebook and are still FB friends. She was and is a wonderful lady. -
I think I was 9/10 with first girlfriend, dates such as cinema, ice cream place,
first Proper one was was with my best friend, we decided we sucked at dating each other and then just remained friends.
Then my first sort of asking out, dating, relationship was 14-17, broke up when I joined the Air Force, my mate subsequently married her and is still married with kids. -
At 14 and are still together. So probably not long enough to win any awards compared to you guys.
Feels like forever though, in a good way. -
I can hardly remember how long it lasted, but I was either 15 or 16.
I think it wasted about 3 months, but I could be totally wrong.
The only reason I dated her in the first place was because she had a major crush on me and was just not taking no for an answer and I caved in thinking "fuck it, why not". -
I was a party guy in my teens, I didn't get into a relationship until I was 21.
We stayed together for 15 years. -
I dated guys, but never more then a few dates. First boyfriend was at 20 yo and we're still together (almost 3 years).
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I was 15 and we lasted 5 months. Second one was a rebound guy who lasted two months. I was almost 17 when I met the third guy but let's not talk about him. Each relationship was worse than the last. The last guy physically harmed me quite a lot actually.
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19 years old, just celebrated our 4 year. but we're going through a bit of a rough patch at the moment
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22 years old and about three months. He cheated on me
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3rd grade she taught me how to kiss exceptionally well with my tongue...
Only lasted a few weeks...
But by 4th grade she was already moving up to hand play wit her new boyfriend... -
I was 16 and I think we dated for 3 months or 2, it felt like such a long time when I was there but now I'm wondering how do I consider that a relationship lol
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I was 14~15, I don't remember the exact length but it was over 6 months.
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when i was little i thought every boy i was with was my boyfriend but they usually only lasted 2 or 3 days
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4 years old in kindergarten, but I didn't get my actual real first relationship until I was about 15 years old
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I was 19 when I had my first girlfriend. Lasted 1 year. I was 24 when I had my 4th and what I decided whould be my last girlfriend. That one lasted 6 months and devolved into some crazy shot where I got stabbed in the abdomen that God my fat ass only got a flesh wound from it. You bitches are crazy and I'm done with ya
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I was 14. It lasted two years, which is way longer than virtually any other couple at my high school.
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We started dating when I was 18 but we really were not boyfriend/girlfriend until I was 19. We were together almost 4 years. 3 of them were long distance.
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