We exchanged numbers, but he hasn't texted me yet?

[Flowerbed23455]

Met a guy on tinder, had a very long and nice convo with him. Planned a date, sort of, so i asked to exchange numbers. He asked for mine, gave him my number and texted a bit untill we went to sleep. (Tis all was around 2 am)
Now he has not texted me yet, is it okay to reach out to him or was he not that intrested?

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+1 y

He texted me and we had a brief convo, i should/could have just texted him earlier.. its just that theblast guys i dated, they thought that i would come of too strong if i texted first even if it was just a ;hey how was your day/what have you been up to?

[anupamagrawal]

If you two had a long conversation and then you planned a date (sort of :-)) and then the numbers have also been exchanged - then it is not possible that he is not interested in you. If it would have been there would have been no text around 2pm and the things you mentioned about.

He must be some busy and failed to make the contact, give him a day or two time, and if no reply then drop a message asking about 'is everything right, haven't heard anything from you."

His reply/non reply would clear your doubts. Hope that things would be fine. Though, I know I am not in the position to advise you, but these online things do not feels good to me. Make someone who lives near you. For me the nearer and the dearer.

[Jjpayne]

Good to hear that he texted back, I'd keep the time period it took for him to get back to you into account. Because he got to you a second time id even wait a week if you need to, he sounds like a keeper and might just be busy

[Wrestling01]

Text him and tell him that you were expecting him to text. It happened to me with a guy on Tinder 2 weeks ago who is now my boyfriend. In the evenings, we text and one time he didn't so i did. He told me "I was waiting for you to text to see if you care/remember"

[AlexEfron]

Hasn't texted you yet? What time is it now?
He might be busy at work maybe. Give him some time. Otherwise if you really wanna text him, I don't see any harm. Go right ahead and reach out to him :)

[Dragonstarterplus]

Awww you might have to initiate a conversation? You poor thing

[Badballie]

No do not appear to be on the hunt. Let him hunt, men get afraid of being pursued, he will just run further.

[Nazah]

I think he isn’t interested in you or he could get someone better than you after your meeting 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Flowerbed23455]

We haven't met yet...

[Nazah]

Meeting means your chat in tinder

[Flowerbed23455]

Okay

[Guanfei]

Don't wait, text him, see how he react. Maybe he's waiting for you, since you asked first.

[Tyffen]

Go ahead. I doubt he would have a long conversation without being interested...

[Just_a_human]

Go ahead and reach out.

[bangyourhead]

When was the date planned for, tonight?

[Flowerbed23455]

No after this weekend, since we are both out of town this weekend and too busy this week

[bangyourhead]

I don't think you can judge his lack of texting as a lack of interest at this point. Just reach out to him "hey, what's up" type text.

[Secretgardenblood]

He doesn't like you, I guess

[Poormanscomedian]

Hope you make it back

[blondfrog]

He lost interest.