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No, I am already rather weak and for a man to be weaker than that would be sad. I want to feel safe and protected.
So then hit the gym and learn how to fight. Why depend on someone else to do something you should?
People are not running behind to harm you every second. Chill, you won't be killed by a random person.
That is what women biologically desire and there is no way to change it. I am not going to apologise for something so normal. If a man is weak I will not feel safe with him and wanting to be protected by your man is a part of being treated like a woman. Plus I am not physically attracted to wimps anyway.
So what's the desire for men just like Women like to be protected?
Men are historically and biologically the providers and protectors. Everyone likes to feel safe but for men it is nore natural of an instinct to protect their woman than to feel a great need to be protected by her.
Hell yeah. It would inspire me to become stronger. DUH.
I can’t date a girl who isn’t out of my league in some way. I need a woman who will push me to my best whether it be physically, mentally, or emotionally. I feel like dating a woman who could overpower me would teach me a lot of things in terms of mental and physical strength.
She’d humble me while at the same time inspire me to push past my best.
I'm not gonna lie and say I wouldn't want a guy stronger than me. Maybe it's a protection thing or something else but I like idea of dating a guy stronger than me 🤷♀️
People are not running behind to harm you every second. Chill, you won't be killed by a random person.
Yes I know that 😂 but it's a nice feeling to know that he could protect me if he had to... beside it not like I would turn down a guy for this reason.
A guy weaker than me is not attractive. I like masculine strong men.
Most girls do. I am surprised by the number of guys who could date a stronger girl than them.
I guess this site attracts feminine submissive men lol
Or guys who care more about the heart and not necessarily submissive
Most girls who would be stronger just look toned and in shape. They dont look like a hulk unless they take steroids. You shouldn't be hitting someone you love so why would they guy be submissive? I don't see why physical strength matters. Obviously I and most people would want someone with some strength, but past that I don't really see the importance, and this is commjng from a guy who has been working out for 6months and can ownly pench 135lb for 4 reps😅. Figured I'd add that as a reference
@nathanp97 when I was 15 I could bench 155 for 10 reps
When I was 16*
@Cocacolaaddict You were a really strong kid!
@nathanp97 It's weird but that is who thing usually go. Girls migh date a weaker guy, but they prefer a strong one.
I never went to the gym before. I normally just played soccer and hockey, and then I had 3 years of no physical activity, so considering all of that it is pretty good. I was always tall and thin, and I'm assuming you have a more stocky build.
Lots of girls seem to now be more attracted to either thin a thin or dad Bob type build now. And it isn't hard to be stronger than a girl. There have been girls working out for years, and still couldn't bench more than what I started at after 3 years of no exercise.
@Clearblueskye Why did so many guys downvote you? Women want men who are stronger, or at the very least just as strong as they are - it's as common of a fact as the shit they took this morning.
@this is my opinion yeah I was a weight lifter I started at 13 stopped at 16 I was getting really big actually was curling 15kg on dumbells well so yeah I was pretty strong stronger than most men at that age my biceps were twice the size of what they are now and I'm a 21 year old man whose still pretty strong
Sometimes girls would try flirting with and I was like naa your just interested in my muscles not me
My dads like on the extreme alpha male side and thats what i find i like in partners,. So if they were weaker, definatly not!.
Most girl want that too.
How strong are you, compared to the average?
People are not running behind to harm you every second. Chill, you won't be killed by a random person.
@G_oogle_Y_i_ndians_r I will wait to see if anyone answers all of your copy pasted messages. If they don't I will remove the copy pasted ones.
I just don't care
@G_oogle_Y_i_ndians_r Great then
I have 11 years of martial arts training so I am not naive enough to think that strength alone will be enough her the superior combatant.
Even if she was more skilled than me, why would I care? Am I going to fight her to the death? Does she go by these boring societal norms where she expects me to treat her like a child and protect her?
Dude, chill man!
@Unit1 My tone is simply very blunt, no need to mistake it for anger.
I was referring to your quote "Does she go by these boring societal norms where she expects me to treat her like a child and protect her?"
Ah, I just took a second look at it. Perspective changes everything. It sounded like some kind of opposition rather than a general question. My bad!
@Unit1 Well the thing is, I am really against women who don't take the time to learn self-defense because they think they can just find a man to act as their personal bodyguard.
Encouraging women to be dependent and weak does not do them any favors, especially since they already have the disadvantage of being physically inferior by default.
Ja, I completely agree with you on that one mate! I really do. I have the exact same opinion, that codependency = bad.
Autonomy is really important.
Sorry but not everyone has the money or time to learn self defence. And I have practiced krav maga the men could easily take me on based on my weight and height...
@Warmapplecrumble You're a woman lol, sell some bath water or become a twitch streamer.
How does that help me when a man or woman or animal attacks me
@Warmapplecrumble Uhhh, you have more time and money. If you're a cute woman and not getting free stuff from guys all the time, you don't know the power you have.
Or some guys actually have self respect and don't just buy her stuff
Men don't hand out free shi# to me... and I don't really expect them to :-/
@Warmapplecrumble You have to actively manipulate them, leaving them wanting, eating out of the palm of your hand because of empty promises you never directly made but purposefully put into their heads.
I've seen women do this, and the guys that fall for it, deserve it 100%.
What if she doesn't want either to be one of those girls or to have a man that can fall for that?
I never done that to guys... I've seen women do it though..
I am being ignore like no one's business xD
Sorry thisismyopinion
@Warmapplecrumble I can understand why you wouldn't, you want to be a kind person, right?
I'd do it in a heartbeat. Simps.. I just can't feel bad for people that stupid. My roommate is a woman and she has gotten free stuff from guys, such as a nice keyboard. I think she has sold pictures of her feet too.
@Warmapplecrumble don't worry xD
@ThisIsMyOpinion She can speak for herself. "What if she blah blah" isn't interesting enough for me to respond to.
"Or some guys actually have self respect and don't just buy her stuff" this was not me talking for her
Irrelevant and foolish. It's a given that some and not all will fall to manipulation.
The way you talked sounded like an inevitability
@Juxtapose I don't like using people for anything, at the end of the day when I go to sleep I want to know I've done nothing that makes me feel guilty. I don't think I'm a good person, I don't even know what that means. I just do not seek advantage in harming people. I don't know why I feel this way.
I think I'm on another plane to most women, and can't hold a five minute conversation with them I wish I could. Id like to be able to share feelings with a woman like me who also feels the same way.
Lol I remember my girl friends said they had several guys for several free things. And I was like how do you do that then and why do you do it - and they just laughed at me saying you don't need to work so hard different guys will give you different things.
@Warmapplecrumble a former friend told me in Krav Maga strength is more important. Maybe try jiu jitsu or aikido/hapkido?
Sure I would, no problem, all of my boyfriends were submissive.
Sounds really cool. Could you give me a challenge in armwrestling or wrestling too? I am 5'11" 175 lbs
By your name I bet they were.
@Mikey81 really? Seriously dude?
Femdomina well judging by your name that's the kind of guys you like I doubt you'd be interested in a strong dominant man
@Mikey81 I could, but I don't live near you :)
@ThisIsMyOpinion Exactly ;)
@Cocacolaaddict Only if I like them. I actually like taming them, I can convert dominant guy into submissive 😎
That's cool that you could challenge me physically in strength. How tall are you and how much can you lift in bench and legpress? I bench about 45kg and legpress 120 kg max.
The amount of guys upvoting you!
Dudes must really like a girl dominating them.
I am curious. How do you turn a dominant guy into a submissive one? Can you pm me?
Femdomina damn sounds like a challenge I don't mind be dominated occasionally like as a mix but I would never be submissive that would just feel emasculating
@Mikey81 I'm 188 cm tall, I weight 72 kg, I can lift about 50 kg in bench press, and about 135 kg in leg press.
@ThisIsMyOpinion Yeah I know, there are lots of submissive guys in here, according to your poll.
I can tell you right here, most guys don't know I'm a martial artist, I know lots of submission techniques, like joint locks, choke holds, and pinning techniques.
@Cocacolaaddict LOL, but you said that you don't mind be dominated occasionally, that means you like to be submissive. Come on, nothing is emasculating, except pegging, but don't worry, I wouldn't do that to you 😂
Oh that? That makes a guy submit for as long as you hold him. After you let go you have no power over him. Assuming you can get them in the lock
I thought it was a more psychological method xD
Of course I can get them in the lock, but then, they usually start liking it, and believe me, they will submit ;)
Sure, I use my dominant charisma too, it's a very efficient psychological method :D
I don't imagine myself liking it, but that is me xD
How do you feel when a guy gets you in a lock?
Yes true I think all guys love to be dominated its really hot so yeah sometimes and yeah it can feel emasculating because it makes you feel weak like your getting dominated by someone whose supposed to be weaker so yeah I wouldn't like it all the time but I wouldn't mind it occasionally but if she thinks she's taming me I'll see it as a challenge and Go full dominant mode because I'm untameable
How does someone like being put in a submission hold I'm curious?
Dominant charisma? xD
That does sound like it works with submissive guys
Wow, you're really tall and also stronger than me, in that case it seems rather easy for you to defeat me.😊 Since which age had you been able to give me a challenge?
@ThisIsMyOpinion None of my boyfriends ever managed to get me in the lock.
Maybe you would like it if the girl of your dreams would pin you down ;)
@Cocacolaaddict same here. I don't mind to rarely be the submissive but if I feel like she is stretching too much I will go full dominant mode on her. Which means we never really really submit
@Cocacolaaddict Haha, see, you're admitting it, you would like it, and I'm sure that there is a sufficiently dominant girl for every guy to be tamed 😈
Yes sure since you like weak guys, but in your practises I am sure some guys there must be able to do it. You don't mind that?
I mean yeah I would like it occasionally just not all the time if she's trying to tame me then I will resist like a bear in a trap
I wouldn't be so sure. Depends a lot on the person. That is like saying there is a guy in the world that could make you submissive. That is just not who you are
Femdomina you sound like a lot of fun best of luck to you
@Femdomina How old have you been, when you became strong enough to challenge and dominate guys like me?
@Mikey81 I've always been the dominant, I practice martial arts since I was only five years old, but if you mean just wrestling in the sexual way, I was 18.
So, I was dominant even before that, but the guys weren't challenging me.
@ThisIsMyOpinion Maybe some guy like Bruce Lee or Fedor Emelianenko, cause I'm really good, and most regular guys wouldn't be able to do it.
But, as I said, I've never been defeated :)
@Cocacolaaddict Well, even a bear has to give up sometimes :)
Thank you, I'm glad you like my style, good luck to you too ;)
It would take one of those guys? 😂
LOL, yeah, ok, maybe not those guys personally, but some guy who is almost like them, cause I really never met a guy who was able to defeat me.
Not even your trainer? Or any of your training peers? Or even girls?
I practice muay thai and I can say for sure that no one is invincible. Far from it.
My trainer never challenged me and most of my peers respect me, including girls.
Maybe some of them would stand a chance, I know I'm not invincible :P
MA since beeing 5 years old is really a lot of experience.😎
From which age on had you been able to defeat me in terms of strength and techniques , not sexual as from 18 years on? How strong have you been as a 13 year old?
I have fought my trainer a few times more a less seriously. Never ends well for me. He is a monster!
@Mikey81 Yeah, it is. I was quite strong when I was in puberty, but at that time I had less experience. Still, I pinned a few guys when I was 14, though, it was kinda sexual :P
@ThisIsMyOpinion Interesting, is your trainer a really big guy? My trainer is kinda old, but very agile for his age.
I like muay thai and other similar fighting styles, can you tell me what are some of the differences between muay thai and muay lao, kun khmer and burmese lethwei?
He is 30 years old. He is not super buffed. Probably has around 90 kg. He has been to Thailand and fought there.
To be honest first time I hear about those.
Femdomina you have peaked my curiosity I noticed you said the first time you pinned some guys it was kinda sexual I noticed you stuck your tongue out as an emoji? Tell me did you enjoy that kinda sexual pin or were you unfazed how did you feel in the moment?
Femdomina, how tall have you been as a 14year old? How big and old was the strongest guy you had defeated at this time? I lost against 14 y girl once before when i was 19.
I see, cool, did he meet some famous Thai boxer when he was in Thailand?
90 kg and not super buffed, hmm, is he very tall?
@Cocacolaaddict I felt great, pinning guys turns me on.
@Mikey81 I was about 175 cm tall when I was 14. I wrestled mostly with guys of my age, none of them were extremely strong.
You lost against a 14 years old girl when you were 19? Were you very skinny or just clumsy, or maybe she was very big and too strong for her age?
Don't know if he faced any super fighter in Thailand. I know he fought in the Lumpini statium, where only the best are allowed to fight, and won.
He is as tall as me about 187.
Great, I'd like to visit Thailand too. Did you ever go with him as his student?
Did not had that luck yet! I would love to train there!
I have to admit I find girls like you intriguing. I mean we have some really nasty ladies in our gym! When a new guy comes in convinced he will beat them in his first day just because they are girls, you can guess how that goes... I have maximun respect for them! Thing is against the guys that have as much train as they do, they can't compete. We can't go all out with them. But you can go toe to toe with guys. It must be a great feeling!
She was 172 cm 58 kg and i was 180 cm 62 kg, so the difference was not so big.
She wasn't a martial artist, but she joined a gym half a year before so she wanted to a older guy.
@Mikey81 How did you get beat by a girl may I ask?
@Cocacolaaddict She was almost my size and started working out. She challenged me for armwrestling/wrestling and won, not easy but she did.
@ThisIsMyOpinion Yeah, it is great feeling, well, I hope you'll get a chance to visit Thailand someday soon, good luck :)
Wait so she was smaller than you and you lost?
@Femdomina If i would have challenged you back at 14, it would have been a very close match but i would have won but not easy. What do you think?
@Mikey81 LOL, you lost against a 14 years old girl when you were 19... you wouldn't stand a chance 😏
😂😂😂
I meant my today self vs you at 14. At 19 i would have clearly lost as with the other 14 y girl.
How much weigh did u bench and legpress at 14?
@Mikey81 Yup he did...
@Mikey81 I can't remember, it was almost a decade ago... but I don't think it would look good for you if you as your today self would wrestle against a 14 years old girl 🙄
@femdomina, yeah i wouldn't wrestle such young girls anymore since my mid 20#s. I asked because, i was wondering how close to my recent strength you already were at 14.
If I like her then yes. Even if she were physically stronger than me I could still protect her. A skilled martial artist need not rely on brute strength to win a fight. However, it would be tremendously rare to find a woman who is stronger than me, and all of them are probably military, law enforcement, personal trainers or martial artists.
i'm a woman. Men are supposed to be stronger than women; significantly so. If a grown man was weaker then me, I would think he was unhealthy.
Then you both can Gym so he can become healthier
I think it'd be kinda impossible to find a grown man weaker than I am XD Or even one thats older than 12.
I mean I would definitely like to be at least on level like my 2 ex girlfriends got B, C for pe class while I would get A, B so I like to be on part but I wouldn't fell as belonged if she finished a whole 10k run in half the time I finished I'd be proud but yea
In your age testosterone is still going to strike hard. They will eat your dust after. As long as you train of course.
I would most definitely not date a man weaker than me. I generally like athletic men.
I would date a weaker guy if I like him, I'm not old-fashioned.
Ohh really
It doesn't matter to me. I'm an average or above average guy in terms of physical strength but it won't bother me if she is physically stronger than me. She carries her strength and I carry mine. The important thing is that we both have a connection and get along.
It wouldn't be a dealbreaker, but I do think it would be extremely difficult to find a guy who is physically weaker than me. Every single guy I've ever met is physically stronger than me.
You will see more in India
When I'm just standing still, I just look "strong"... But when I actually try to show my muscles, I scare people 😜😛😂😂😆😎
@Stingray444 I am not scared of you
@G_oogle_Y_i_ndians_r Lol, Alright put up your dukes. Let's have it out!!
Jk lol 😂😎
Yeah, I would, but only if she looks like the girl in the picture above, but I wouldn't date some huge, extremely muscular or butchy woman.
Fair enough.
No I wouldn't because I prefer and like the traditional values of a man and woman in the past.
People are not running behind to harm you every second. Chill, you won't be killed by a random person.
@G_oogle_Y_i_ndians_r lol wtf
I am speaking the truth. I just upvoted your answer too. :) You want protection or bodyguard. First decide :p lol
@G_oogle_Y_i_ndians_r
I know a man won't protect me in modern day society. I know if I get beaten up raped no one will save me.
But I still prefer men to look stronger than me and I like the traditional look of men and women.
Sure, as long as she is fit but not too muscular since that is not feminine.
I wouldn’t care if my partner was stronger or weaker. Either way, it doesn’t matter because I can and do handle certain situations by myself.
You can fight?
I can.
Practice something?
Dance 😂
But I’ve always been taught how to fight, from both of my parents.
I got into a lot of fights when I was younger. And I’m capable of moving my own furniture now so I’m good
I see.
You are a strong women then. Wouldn't you like a strong partner?
That’s not something I care about
Well I'm pretty weak myself so I'm not sure how any man could be weaker than me lol.
People are not running behind to harm you every second. Chill, you won't be killed by a random person.