Girls, would you date a guy weaker than you? Guys, would you date a girl stronger than you?

[Physics-Man]

Yes

No

[MCheetah]

Yes, assuming she had a kind personality and I had zero worries she'd try to emasculate, embarrass, or otherwise "have her way" with me. I'm always reminded of Wonder Woman, who is super strong, but has a heart of gold and is known for her kindness, courage, and strength more than her superpowers as a demigoddess. I'd be fine with someone like that in real life.

Although I do lift (not as much as before due to COVID), so unless she was a long-time lifter, or superhuman, there wouldn't be too many women physically stronger than me. But I admit there are some.

Diana Prince

Julia Vins

[TomGarand]

What if the woman in question was MUCH taller than you? This is an extreme example, but one of my friends is in college and dating a woman with pituitary gigantism. She's 8 feet tall and works out a lot. Has a six-pack and everything.

[Gravit1]

Physically stronger not an issue and I can always get stronger, but if she visually looked stronger that would be less desired. Too toned and she loses femininity. If she looked like Gina Carano then that's just fine. She still looks very feminine but has strength. Being strong isn't a bad trait in a woman, but looking masculine is. I'm stronger than the average man which makes me much stronger than the average woman. However I cannot currently outlift the worlds number one woman powerlifter, but gladly can outrun her.

[Holisticapproachsara]

This is BS even the weakest of guys is stronger than the strongest woman just watch on youtube a video called the world strongest women vs the avg guy
now its ok to admit that. I feel sexy as a woman to know that guys are stronger physically than me. It would be horrible and not sexy at all if i am stronger physically than guys I prefer to outsmart them Though

[Ninani]

Physically weaker, no, but it's okay if I can beat his ass in jiu-jitsu.

[Physics-Man]

BJJ? May I ask what your rank is?

I'm a 2-stripe White Belt.

[Ninani]

I haven't even bought a gi yet 😂 started only three months before lockdown, but am highly addicted!

[TheUniqueOne96]

Yes.

I'm 5'2 and 110lbs, so a lot of people would at least be able to outpower me, due to weight advantage, but I do workout.

My strength levels could definitely do with improvement too, although the constantly closing gyms don't help, but I'm still going at it.

If anything, it'd be nice if I had someone who were good at gym stuff, because I could learn a thing or two from them.

[jgokgotit]

That would be no problem to me. In one of my relationships we were relatively the same strength. In my other one, she was stronger than me a bit when it came to weights but I was a better fighter overall. Then again, my 2nd girlfriend was a personal trainer.

[nodnol32]

It doesn't matter to me. I'm an average or above average guy in terms of physical strength but it won't bother me if she is physically stronger than me. She carries her strength and I carry mine. The important thing is that we both have a connection and get along.

[Browneye57]

Nah. The more a woman tries to be like a man the less desirable she is to them.
Guys are WAY WAY more interested in HER level of attraction and desire for HIM. Her physical strength is nearly irrelevant.
Why is it that both genders are so confused about this? No one really cares what she does, for work, play, education, and on and on. But they try to make it like some kind of value-added plus. None of that crap really matters.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

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[Sweetener_]

When I have a partner I would like to feel protected by him so it's kind of a turn off if he were to be weaker than me, but at the same time it doesn't matter that much, it's something we can work on.

[TonyV]

I dont think I'm going to find a girl stronger than me lol better shape sure but stronger as in lifting, I doubt it.

But it wouldn't bother me, I'd date a strong girl.

[SaraSmithishere]

I am 5'7" and 115 lbs and I dated a guy who was the same height and probably ten pounds heavier, but then again, he was in a sell known band, so that was part of his appeal. :O
And yes, he was weaker than me

[SaraSmithishere]

Oops... well known

[Anonymous]

I would have no problem... but I find difficult to find someone with strongest personality or mindset than me. I believe to strong persons make a strong relationship. by the way... miscular mass do not imply strength, i am fairly thin... but all my strenght test on the gim were oit of chart... the trainer was like wtf? it happen that my fiber has a different quality.

[ChrisMaster69]

Not an issue, have dated girls that can literally kick my ass.

men get too hung up on being the ultimate man.

[JuneLady]

On the condition that he is trying to be strong in other ways

[Sonorous]

No, but I'm just not into the whole dating thing anyway. Weaker or stronger.

[SngBirdy]

Well good thing its almost impossible for a guy to be weaker than a girl

[Avicenna]

Since I'm skinny- sure, as long as she isn't TOO muscular, because that is unattractive.

[Ninjazzed]

I’m not sure. I’d rather have my partner protect me and our children.

[RingOfFire]

I never met a woman stronger than me, but if I did I wouldn't want to date her. It would be more like dating a man and I'm not gay.

[Torari]

Any girl who is stronger than me, would be on steroids. So no. I'd rather not deal with the TREN mood swings.

[Anonymous]

It reminds me of a powerful quote or statement that changed my view on human mating or just the game itself between men and women, it is:

"Men have to create their value, Women have to protect their value"

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Women have a tendency to always aim higher than what they havd or what they are..

[Shihab-91]

sure not you want me to hide behind her when something bad happens? I'm a man i should make her feel safe with me