Girls, would you date a guy weaker than you? Guys, would you date a girl stronger than you?

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MCheetah · Accepted Answer

Yes, assuming she had a kind personality and I had zero worries she'd try to emasculate, embarrass, or otherwise "have her way" with me. I'm always reminded of Wonder Woman, who is super strong, but has a heart of gold and is known for her kindness, courage, and strength more than her superpowers as a demigoddess. I'd be fine with someone like that in real life.

Although I do lift (not as much as before due to COVID), so unless she was a long-time lifter, or superhuman, there wouldn't be too many women physically stronger than me. But I admit there are some.

Gravit1 · Accepted Answer

Physically stronger not an issue and I can always get stronger, but if she visually looked stronger that would be less desired. Too toned and she loses femininity. If she looked like Gina Carano then that's just fine. She still looks very feminine but has strength. Being strong isn't a bad trait in a woman, but looking masculine is. I'm stronger than the average man which makes me much stronger than the average woman. However I cannot currently outlift the worlds number one woman powerlifter, but gladly can outrun her.

Holisticapproachsara · Accepted Answer

This is BS even the weakest of guys is stronger than the strongest woman just watch on youtube a video called the world strongest women vs the avg guy
now its ok to admit that. I feel sexy as a woman to know that guys are stronger physically than me. It would be horrible and not sexy at all if i am stronger physically than guys I prefer to outsmart them Though

Ninani · Accepted Answer

Physically weaker, no, but it's okay if I can beat his ass in jiu-jitsu.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Yes.

I'm 5'2 and 110lbs, so a lot of people would at least be able to outpower me, due to weight advantage, but I do workout.

My strength levels could definitely do with improvement too, although the constantly closing gyms don't help, but I'm still going at it.

If anything, it'd be nice if I had someone who were good at gym stuff, because I could learn a thing or two from them.

jgokgotit · Answer

That would be no problem to me. In one of my relationships we were relatively the same strength. In my other one, she was stronger than me a bit when it came to weights but I was a better fighter overall. Then again, my 2nd girlfriend was a personal trainer.

nodnol32 · Answer

It doesn't matter to me. I'm an average or above average guy in terms of physical strength but it won't bother me if she is physically stronger than me. She carries her strength and I carry mine. The important thing is that we both have a connection and get along.

Browneye57 · Answer

Nah. The more a woman tries to be like a man the less desirable she is to them.
Guys are WAY WAY more interested in HER level of attraction and desire for HIM. Her physical strength is nearly irrelevant.
Why is it that both genders are so confused about this? No one really cares what she does, for work, play, education, and on and on. But they try to make it like some kind of value-added plus. None of that crap really matters.

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Sweetener_ · Answer

When I have a partner I would like to feel protected by him so it's kind of a turn off if he were to be weaker than me, but at the same time it doesn't matter that much, it's something we can work on.

TonyV · Answer

I dont think I'm going to find a girl stronger than me lol better shape sure but stronger as in lifting, I doubt it. But it wouldn't bother me, I'd date a strong girl.

SaraSmithishere · Answer

I am 5'7" and 115 lbs and I dated a guy who was the same height and probably ten pounds heavier, but then again, he was in a sell known band, so that was part of his appeal. :O
And yes, he was weaker than me

Anonymous · Answer

I would have no problem... but I find difficult to find someone with strongest personality or mindset than me. I believe to strong persons make a strong relationship. by the way... miscular mass do not imply strength, i am fairly thin... but all my strenght test on the gim were oit of chart... the trainer was like wtf? it happen that my fiber has a different quality.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Not an issue, have dated girls that can literally kick my ass. men get too hung up on being the ultimate man.

JuneLady · Answer

On the condition that he is trying to be strong in other ways

Sonorous · Answer

No, but I'm just not into the whole dating thing anyway. Weaker or stronger.

SngBirdy · Answer

Well good thing its almost impossible for a guy to be weaker than a girl

Avicenna · Answer

Since I'm skinny- sure, as long as she isn't TOO muscular, because that is unattractive.

RingOfFire · Answer

I never met a woman stronger than me, but if I did I wouldn't want to date her. It would be more like dating a man and I'm not gay.

Ninjazzed · Answer

I’m not sure. I’d rather have my partner protect me and our children.

Torari · Answer

Any girl who is stronger than me, would be on steroids. So no. I'd rather not deal with the TREN mood swings.

Anonymous · Answer

It reminds me of a powerful quote or statement that changed my view on human mating or just the game itself between men and women, it is:

"Men have to create their value, Women have to protect their value"

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Women have a tendency to always aim higher than what they havd or what they are..

EaterPeter · Answer

Girls are much stronger than guys. Guys tough exterior soft inside. Girls soft exterior tough inside.

Shihab-91 · Answer

sure not you want me to hide behind her when something bad happens? I'm a man i should make her feel safe with me

zagor · Answer

Sure; at least now that I haven't been able to go to the gym and have atrophied somewhat.

Anonymous · Answer

No that’s unattractive in my opinion i’d rather be with a stronger man.

Anonymous · Answer

i'd love to be with a girl who could, and would, beat me if i didn't behave like she wanted. i love dominant females !

TOTEMPLASTER · Answer

To ask such a question suggests that you are discussing intellect rather than brawntellect.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

No way. All I have left is lift heavy objects and reach tall things!

Lunatic1 · Answer

Sure, it might even motivate me to get in better shape for my own health at the least.

BBFDancer · Answer

Yes I’ll date a girl that is stronger than me. Cause I would know she could take care of our future children. If anything goes down hill.

Yuuibtony · Answer

Nope it a turn off, women suppose to be weaker then men i will never date a stronger woman

MindYourEyes · Answer

Already did before. XD don’t mind haha

FictionalCharacter · Answer

I’d show him my dom side 😏😈

slatyb · Answer

If she would date me, no problem.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, I would date a girl stronger than me

es20490446e · Answer

Stronger than me? That's a minority of girls.

Iron_Man · Answer

LOL that’s not happening

msc545 · Answer

Physical strength is meaningless in a relationship

Agape93 · Answer

Yeah I have once

Wowboi · Answer

A girl has to be on PEDs to get to my strength

Anonymous · Answer

A girl stronger rhan me lol... that is cute.

Anonymous · Answer

gross. do they pee standing up too?

misunderstoodhoe · Answer

yes definitely

JosyJosy · Answer

Yes, no problem

Anonymous · Answer

no don't like the pussy stronger than me

Martina111111 · Answer

Yup why not

Jack9949 · Answer

Fat NOPE

Slim57 · Answer

No gross

LockeofPandora · Answer

Probably not

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