Girls, would you date or marry a guy who's physically weaker than you?

[TomGarand]

I'm asking because of my own situation. I'm 5'6, and I don't work out that much, so I'm very weak. And my friend "Coyote"(my nickname for him) has a younger sister who is much taller (5'10 and a half) and much stronger than me.

I've talked about my friend's sister before, and I nickname her "Wolf", because she's bigger than me, and she's also dominant in relationships. Any time she gets into a relationship, she HAS to wear the pants. The fact that she is taller and stronger than me gives her a bit of an ego boost.

And personally, I find physical strength attractive in women, especially if they are stronger than me. I'm not gonna lie, I do want a partner who will take the lead and who I can submit to. And with the way things are going, I might get that.

A lot of fit women want a man who's also fit so they can motivate each other to get stronger. But personally, I'd rather focus on supporting my woman than working out like she is. I'd rather be rubbing her sore muscles, making her meals, and just offering emotional support.

So Wolf likes that I'm shorter, weaker, and more submissive. And I like how she's taller, stronger, and more dominant. What about the rest of you girls? What if a guy was physically weaker than you?

Would it be a turn-on, turn-off, or what?

[Anonymous]

I don't care about that as long as he is not feminine looking.

[TomGarand]

Well, I'm short and babyfaced (I will not let myself grow a beard), so I can very easily be mistaken for a teenage boy. Especially since my hair is short.

[Opinion Owner]

I like mature looking men over 30 at least. But surely you will find someone that find you attractive.

[TomGarand]

Again, Wolf does. She's the woman I talked about in my question. Her being stronger makes her feel more dominant, which she loves.

[gathi14]

I personally wouldn't mind a weak guy. I have been with weak guys or rather even strong guys seem weak with me. Hehe.

[TomGarand]

You dominant like Wolf too?

[Miah02]

Naw.

[TomGarand]

Want to feel protected?

[Miah02]

Naw, i just like strong men

[TomGarand]

Any advice for weak guys, then?

[Miah02]

Either workout. Or find someone who don't care.
Just my preference, and plenty of women who could careless if ya stronger.
I'm an athlete and want to date another athlete

[TomGarand]

Well, the closest sport I care about is running. I used to do that a lot in school, and I care more about speed than strength. Plus, I personally just want a dominant partner who I can submit to.

[TomGarand]

What about who leads in relationships, for you? What dynamic do you want?

[Miah02]

I ran. Track in school to help with speed, for basketball and the sprinters were very strong, they keep an intense strength training regime, and i can tell ya the sprinters at my school strong af. Strength helps speed.

As for who leads.
Nobody, should dominate another partner.
I wouldn't want to have a weak man who let's me walk all over him.

[TomGarand]

Then I guess Wolf is lucky. She gets a small, cute man to lead and protect, and she gets to feel like a bonafide badass.

But for real, though, she's a total alpha and loves having her ego stroked.

[JosyJosy]

Yes no problem