I mentioned in some of my other questions that I have a friend I talk about Yu-Gi-Oh with, and that he has a younger sister who I nicknamed "Wolf." Wolf is dominant, and she is physically stronger and a better fighter than me (Her mom taught her boxing and knife fighting). In addition, she's much taller than me, standing at 5'10 and a half/179 cm.
Wolf and I have basically been talking to each other through my friend for about a year. Since I'm smaller and weaker than her, and submissive in romantic relationships, she always calls me "Puppy" affectionately. The thing is, she was always strong for a woman who didn't work out that much, able to lift objects that weigh at least 50 pounds. My friend told me yesterday that Wolf actually did gain more muscle in the past two months, and she likes the idea of getting even stronger than me than she already is. Basically, the roles between us are reversed. Despite being the man, I'm shorter, weaker, and less skilled at fighting than her. She is the alpha, and that's the way I like it. Hopefully, we'll become a legit couple later down the road. My situation isn't an actual relationship (at least not yet), but I wanna ask the guys and girls here. Men, did you ever date a woman who was stronger than you? Women, did you ever date a man who was weaker than you?
If so, how'd the relationship go?
Men, did you ever date a woman stronger than you? Women, did you ever date a man that was weaker than you?
I've never dated stronger than me, and I wouldn't. Not because I think she's weak, but because I'm constantly trying to get stronger myself. I wish I lived near a real gym with actual weight machines instead of the piece of sh*t gym I'm at now that only has like, four sh*tty machines that are never free. If I didn't care about getting stronger myself, I would date stronger than me, but since I do, I'd consider a girl stronger than me a personal failure and mark of shame.
Closest I've dated was a girl named Juliette who was almost or *as* strong as me and was 6'6" (198 cm) and close to 300 pounds, if not more than it. She was Samoan and Hawaiian, but despite her size, was pretty feminine. She LOOKED like this, but this is not her.
I never did, but I dated somebody who was almost as tall as me (she was 5' 11") and she was a competitive swimmer and very, very strong. There were a lot of guys that she could probably beat up. The truth is that some assholes tried to make fun of me for dating her. They liked to call her a derogatory nickname. I used to laugh at them and tell them I would tell my girlfriend what they said and I would laugh when she kicked their asses. I thought she was beautiful. She was like an Amazon or something. She was big all over and very muscular. She was really affectionate and loving and her body was like an amusement park ride.
Lmao how on earth would you even know that. I've lost in a playfight against my 12 years old cousin when I was 16. So unless you're way weaker than a literal child you're stronger than me.
Coming from a women who lifts, I would be fine with a weak guy because I feel for dominant, but I would also be fine with a guy that's stronger then me because I feel safe. I personally like both.
I'm over 100 for everything (clean, bench, f squat, b squat, snatch and deadlift). It varies from lift and I also couldnt lift due to covid and I just got back at it.
You can be as strong as you like but brute strength alone doesn't win fights.
I know weak points on the body that no amount of training can make stronger. Humans are incredibly frail and you really don't need a lot of muscle to take somebody out.
Not only was he weak, he was unconfident in himself and wouldn’t stand up for me. If he wouldn’t stand up for me then he most likely wouldn’t stand up for our children or even our livelihood.
What if he had just as much fight mentally. ? What if he just choose to be more of the supportive role for you? But would still stand up for you and beside you. Would you then still be with this person?
I'm not sure if it counts, since more athletic isn't the same as stronger. I would have still been able to physically overpower them. Hmm, although I one of my exes maybe was stronger than me.
Anyway, as for how it went - I can't think of any reason their athleticism or strength would have significantly impacted how the relationship went.
You're mentally a slave so you're afraid of ever tapping into your true power. If she ever tries dominating a dude who doesn't have that mental block she'll wake up in the hospital. But she's probably smart enough to avoid those guys
"If she ever tries dominating a dude who doesn't have that mental block, she'll wake up in the hospital."
Wolf actually isn't an SJW feminist. She's very respectful to people she dates and her siblings (She's the matriarch out of 6 people). So I don't have to worry about her trying to disrespect me or any other men just for being men. How do I know? My friend (her older brother) also points out that she's turned on by confidence.
Yeah, she's the boss, and she expects her men to follow her lead. But at the same time, Wolf needs them to know that they have strengths and be proud of them. She still wants them to know their worth and have self-respect.
It's relevant because you sounded like you thought Wolf goes around harassing guys for no reason. She doesn't do that, and she doesn't date simps that she can pick on.
Wolf doesn't go around picking fights either. She only attacks people in self-defense, or to avenge her siblings. When she was younger, she tracked down my friend's school bully and beat him senseless.
So unless you fuck with her or her siblings, she won't harass you. What made you think that she was someone who liked emasculating men?
I don't even believe she's a real person anyhow. I think you got the idea from the woman fighter in that show Future Man and you gave her the dude's name.
I had to look up what a Boomer is, and please don't worry, I'm not offended at all!, most guys my sort of age are henpecked anyway, they moan about the trouble and strife but stick around so they must like it lol,,,
I have shitty genes. I can only do 15 pushups, squat 60, bench 60, deadlift 50 (correct form) 1 pull up. I weigh 144. I would appreciate if someone could tell me where to download software for my computer that blocks certain websites. Because of my genes I can't do better and I only want to compare myself to female standards and not male fitness websites. Looking at those websites makes me feel really shitty.
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