
Guys have you ever dated a woman who was taller then you? Ladies have you ever dated a guy shorter then you?


I've always admired women who go against the narrative and and status quo. I've dated a few women who were my height or slightly taller (but they MUST be thin), in the beginning they always make fun of my height, make stupid jokes about how short men can't rip the sheets and what not. Until we hit the sack and I pipe them into submission, then their eyes glaze over and they look at me like the second coming of Christ. What they don't get is how hard life is for shorter guys and how much we have to overcome, that works to our advantage as it only makes us stronger. By the time I hit adulthood I had grown callus to the height jokes and they no longer affect me, all I see is ass to be conquered. Also I realise falemale strategy is to avoid judgement and shame at all costs, so they'll call u short before u might make fun of them for their wide variety of insecurities. Short guys go through tremendous adversities growing up which forges and strengthens their sense of character. I assure u, u will never find a stronger more secure man that one who is average height or below.
Also as an added perk, there aren'tany elderly tall people around are there? So as a shorter person, we'll outlive them😅
Most of the women I've dated have been taller than my short ass. Let me think about them... Ellen was 6'2", Molly was 6'1", Lara was 6'0", Amanda was 6'5", Maggie was 6'1", Rana was 5'11", Emma was 6'5", Keerthi was 5'10", and my late fiancée 6'3.5". So all but two of them were taller than me, one was my same height, and only one was shorter.
And before anyone asks "Why don't you date shorter then?" One, short girls want guys even TALLER than me. While tall girls (and all straight women in general) want tall guys too, tall women are at least willing to be slightly more forgiving and open to dating a guy under six feet tall because their dating options are already smaller than short girls.
And two, me already being a sub-six-footer, I honestly don't want to date a girl 5'6" and under. It'd make us a "short couple" and I feel really cringey about that. Like "she's the best you can hope for dude; might as well simp to her hobbit-ass." I just feel like, if a tall girl likes me, it means something more and genuine, than a shallow short girl who still wants tall men, but has a cutoff of "no one 5'10 and under" as opposed to actual tall men. Meaning, she's still a shallow bitch, but I "made the cut," and I honestly don't want that.
Tall girls tend to be more likely to say "anyone within four inches of me," as opposed to short girls' common "must be six feet and up" rule. So that is why I tend to not only like tall girls more, but have a slightly higher chance with them too. (Hey, 0.1% is still a lot more than 0.001%).
Ah. That's... interesting. I don't understand why would anyone downvote this. You're talking about your personal preference. 🤷♀️
(And I hope you didn't get offended by those laughing faces. That caption is pretty funny.)
@Mia-Wallace
Yeah, none of the downvotes are real. The same thing happened to Coach Tanthony and they're often on comments that don't even have enough comments/votes to equal the number of downvotes my single comment gets. The site already knows about it and I have a good idea who's behind the downvote bots.
Well, that's interesting. I hope they get rid of the them if that's the case. 🤔
I guess there is a win-win advantage.
Being 5'7", dating a girl 5'11" or taller sounds like a turn-on.
Yes... and the whole of our date the guy just criticized how tall I was. Even when we were kissing, he goes "I've never kissed a woman this tall before, it's weird." It's like he was more concerned about my height than me.
That being said I'm 5'10 and I'm pretty open to anyone who's at least 5'7 or taller... as much as I prefer someone who is at least my height or taller. Too short and I feel like a mother & I quite like to wear heels so y'know. I just don't really feel comfortable with a guy who's like 5'4, it feels awkward & I feel like I can't be myself. I don't get many guys in general because all the 6 footers go for girls who are 5 feet tall... and those girls are stubborn & won't date guys closer to their height.
@okayk
It's only awkward if you make it awkward. On top of that it seems like the way you are around a guy depends on his height.
I told a man (and I use that term loosely, because he's in fact an immature little boy) that I was not attracted to him because he was, firstly, younger than me and , secondly, shorter than me. He became very abusive towards me due to the aforementioned information. He also suffers from mental health, which is no excuse to abuse someone because they're not attracted to you. I'm into older and more mature men.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Yes. For the past few weeks. This is probably the 3rd girl I have dated who is taller.
Im 5ft 8 inches. Most girls who were taller were 5ft 9inches or 5ft 10inches.
The only way a woman taller than you would ever publically consider multiple dates with you is if you are high value. You could be extremely well dressed or physically sexy. Or you could have status like being a doctor or lawyer, being in a band, maybe a celebrity, or just rich.
Girl in that picture is beautiful! Wow!
I am 5 11 so don't have to worry too much about height and it is not a situation I have encountered myself. I know short guys can really suffer with confidence issues due to their height, and I feel for them. Personally, I don't think I could date a girl who was way taller than me. Maybe an inch or two is fine, but I know most girls prefer a taller guy.
Well i did date someone that was slightly taller than me. But that was only because she was wearing heels or those platform boots. I don't completely remember.
But I have no problems dating taller women.
However I do think most women have a problem with dating shorter men. Haha.
I unfortunately may not enjoy the natural activity of dating outside the online world, and I am not considering dating online again, why? Let's say my life is complicated and that some things really needs to be solve before starting dating.
It seems I only came to exist for anything else that's not dating, having a partner and a family. To make it short, I will probably never experience what I need to respond your question.
All the women I date are shorter. I’m 6’7” 240. I prefer taller over 6 feet and athletic with big boobs and nice big muscular ass that you can bounce a quarter off of. But I’ve also dated someone that was 4’11” 90 pounds. I mostly date short women. Tall ones are rare.
Yes and it wasn’t really bad or even on my radar that he was insecure about it, UNFUCKINGTIL he started insisting that I wear flats and not heels. Sometimes he’d trick me and say that he planned a surprise, but it’s important to not wear heels where we’re. We pretty much went to grab a coffee at the park and why the fuck couldn’t I wear heels? Then he’d start making remarks about my heels saying “Look you’re the only one dressed up here and nobody else is in heels”. I fucked that guy off.
Going**
Needless to say he put me off short guys, but before that I didn’t mind really.
That's unfortunate. I always admire women who go against the narrative and and status quo. I dated a few women who were my hight or slightly taller, in the beginning they always make fun of my height, make stupid jokes about how short men can't tear the sheets and what not. Until we hit the sack and I pipe them into submission, then their eyes glaze over and they look at me like the second coming of Christ. What they don't get is how hard life is for shorter guys and how much we have to overcome, that works to our advantage as it only makes us stronger. By the time I hit adulthood I had grown callus to the height jokes and they no longer affect me, all I see is ass to conquer.
Anyways, enough of my long winded story. I'm just sorry u met the guys who allowed their circumstances to defeat them and ripe them with insecurities. However I assure u, u will never find a stronger more secure man that one who is average height or below.
@Omario2049 Well he really was very confident and well liked. He had a cute face too, so that absolutely was put on because he clearly wasn’t as secure within himself that he felt the need to make constant remarks about my footwear etc.
My current boyfriend is 1.93 (6 foot something) in height and makes no remarks about my heels and I’m able to wear wtf I desire.
Well I'm happy for u. I just wish more men would start manning up and not allow insecurities to run their life. After all, it then in turn looks bad on me because I may be able to be somehow categorized with them. So now if I approach u and I'm similar in height to that guy, u automatically only remember him and will use him to judge me and I do not want that. There are PLENTY of short and petite women in the world, one doesn't not need to force themselves into a suboptimal situation and give someone a bad experience.
@Opinion owner , I also share similar stories with dating guys that are short. A 5’8 guy told me that me being a 5’4” (5’5” with shoes) was too tall for his liking.
@Arabella_Rose It seems that short guys are ruining it for themselves. I’m sure, before people discovered for themselves how insecure some short men are, women didn’t care about the height and even in my case that’s a fact. I wasn’t bothered in the slightest, but it seems that, well, HE was.
@Omario2049 Well insecurities are something people will look (mostly) past, but when people with the insecurities themselves won’t really look past it, then there’s no point in trying to convince them otherwise, you know?
I won't say there's no point because I don't know a single female who would have even lost their virginity if insecurities were a disqualifier.
Same height only, and I will only date taller than me now. I’m above average height for a woman so men taller than me are hard to find. Now that I have a tall boyfriend I’m addicted to the feeling. Lol
Nope. I am taller than average. So not a big deal.
But that picture on the cover is hilarious. If I was a boob guy, I would love to be that fellow grinning ear-to-ear. I would be like, 'Mommy! Can I have some milk!'
Just once when i was younger i wasn't 6'0 yet, I think I was 5'10 and she was 5'11 so when she wore heels she was definitely taller, which was cool with me since we were both tall. But I did like the eye contact and intimacy of just kissing across.
No. Just a guy about my size or a tad taller. I am tall and also open to marrying a man a bit shorter. Although i will admit it makes me uncomfortable to think romantically about a guy when i think about how he's an inch or more shorter. But technically i am open to it i guess. Lmao.
@TomGarand i am femimine. I want to be ruled over and dominated (lovingly)...
@TomGarand for me, it’s about feeling my my man can protect me Just in case anything happens
@Opinion owner it’s certainly possible if he’s really muscular and in shape. But this could only happen if he’s at least 5’8 or above.
@Arabella_Rose wow i didn't know that but did wonder... Thats junda crazy to think about. Feel sorry for shorter guys.
Short guys tend to be more approachable and friendlier tho. I’m open to dating anyone 5’4” and above. Just as long as he’s not shorter than me. If he is shorter then it makes me feel like I’m with a little boy who needs to be taken care of?
Haha I don’t feel bad for these short guys. I’ve seen many of them criticize me for my height for being too tall too. Guys can be just as picky about height as girls. I had a 5’8” guy tell me that I am too tall for his liking. I’m 5’5” with sneakers on
@Arabella_Rose lol girl... How can he whine about that if he's still taller than you? Well i guess if we have a preference so can they even if its dramatic. Yeah its not romantic to look down at a man xD. Im tall so its rare to find a guy taller than me to the point its noticable, sadly.
@Arabella_Rose Well, I don't have issues with a woman's height, and I'm 5'6. People never gave me shit for my height, so I don't have "Napoleon Syndrome."
In fact, my friend's sister is 5'10 and a half, and we find each other attractive. She's also dominant in relationships, so she likes my shortness. She feels like she's in control--especially because she's also stronger than me.
@Opinion owner
some of them are simply shallow OR have "short man syndrome". There are a lot of short guys who insist on dating much shorter women so that it can ease their insecurity about not being manly enough.
From my experience, its always the short guys who have their masculinity very easily threatened. The shorter he is, the more he will feel like he has something to prove to others. Its quite annoying honestly.
@TomGarand Its always nice to see someone who is secure with themselves. You have no idea how annoying and a burden it is to be with someone who is insecure. Over a long period of time, it just drains all the energy out of you.
Nope I'm 6'2 and 3/4 and 6'3 on a good day. Would I maybe.. Be interesting to see what its like not to have to keep dragging women down the bed from the wall 3 or 4 times a f.
No. But I am only 5ft 10 so there are a lot of girls taller than me. And many girls are few inches shorter so if they would like to take heels, then I will look shorter. But to be honest, I haven't been on any date ever. But I don't have any problem with that, although many of my classmates had a lot of dates. I am more interested if I will grow more because my dad is 6ft 4 and there are many classmates that are taller than me and have shorter dads.
I have not and I probably wouldn't. I'm not completely against it, but the girl would have a have a more submissive-ish personality. A very primitive part of me gets lustful whenever I see a petite girl (or smaller than me)
Never, and I wouldn't. However, at 6' 3", I have yet to find a woman taller then me that I would be in a position to date.
My current house guest is built like a professional basketball player.
I am 5’8” and I barely reach her shoulder.
She is also three dans higher than me.
Scarey woman. 🤣
Me being 6'3 any girl taller than me is already playing professional basketball and has no time to date 🙃
I’m a easygoing and I don’t take life too seriously. I dated a girl who was 12cm taller than me (I’m 175cm and she 187cm). I didn’t mind the height gap at all. I loved to hug her and feel warm and safe ❤️. I have a feeling though that she wasn’t too fond of the height difference. Right now I’m madly in love with a girl who is 165cm ❤️. Most important is the person you are dating, not the height! I highly doubt most boys or girls take that much notice in it
Yes i have, would probably not go for such a difference as shown in the picture.
Poor thing would develop a rounded back or a hump for having to bend over for me.
I'm not a tall guy so she would be better off with someone close to her height.
not yet, but one that got close to 6ft on her heels... and I know I wouldn't have minded one bit if she went over me at 6"1"
I’m 5’6 so most men are the same height or taller. I would prefer 5’8+ though personally. I have met men shorter than me and I haven’t been physically attracted to them. I tend to only be physically attracted to men that are bigger than me.
@Maninderdeepsharma yes because I am Indian descent. My ancestors are mostly from Bengal.
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