Girls, would you date a man who's physically weaker than you?

[TomGarand]

I'm asking because of my own situation. I'm 5'6, and I don't work out that much, so I'm very weak. And my friend "Coyote"(my nickname for him) has a younger sister who is much taller (5'10 and a half) and much stronger than me.

I've talked about my friend's sister before, and I nickname her "Wolf", because she's bigger than me, and she's also dominant in relationships. Any time she gets into a relationship, she HAS to wear the pants. The fact that she is taller and stronger than me gives her a bit of an ego boost.

And personally, I find physical strength attractive in women, especially if they are stronger than me. I'm not gonna lie, I do want a partner who will take the lead and who I can submit to. And with the way things are going, I might get that.

A lot of fit women want a man who's also fit so they can motivate each other to get stronger. But personally, I'd rather focus on supporting my woman than working out like she is. I'd rather be rubbing her sore muscles, making her meals, and just offering emotional support.

So Wolf likes that I'm shorter, weaker, and more submissive. And I like how she's taller, stronger, and more dominant. What about the rest of you girls? What if a guy was physically weaker than you?

Would it be a turn-on, turn-off, or what?

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I kinda do currently date a guy physically weaker than me.

He has one advantage: he's much heavier than I am. He's working on losing weight, though, which is good. He's very overweight right now (but I have some lbs to lose, too, so we're in it together).

But he isn't as strong as I am nor as agile or flexible. I can outlift and out perform in the gym, and if we were to fight I would win.

My first partner was also weaker than me, but taller.

I'm not really out to find a partner weaker/stronger though. Soul and the person themselves are more important. Strength can be attained, but soul is much harder to work on.

[Eelephant]

Yeah but I mean itd would probably be pretty hard to find someone weaker than ME 😂 I totally get what you mean with your explanation and it's true that a lot of strong women will be attacted to strong men because of their shared interests and similar lifestyle. If I was the hypothetical really strong woman in that situation I'd probably be fine with that kind of relationship as long as he wasn't fetishizing my strength.

[TomGarand]

What if he was pampering you like how I described above? Making you meals, rubbing your sore muscles, giving you encouragement, etc?

[JosyJosy]

Sure no problem