Umm yes!! That's wrong! If they did that in front of me that would be very disrespectful and that would be the day I end it! Especially if the woman was just friends with him and not me! Why should she just be friends with him and not me anyway? ! Is it because they are hiding something from me? ! This is now way to treat me! If they are THAT comfortable physically with each other (especially in front of me) then why don't they just date each other! God damn please don't think I am stupid or blind! Also, that's breaking trust! What if I had a guy friend do that! How would HE (my "boyfriend") like it? ! God some people!.. The things they try to get away with!
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It really depends, any female, yes. Certain ones I know and are cool with and they’ve known forever? Probably not.
I know I’ve done something like that with my guys good friend when we all get along. If his girlfriend did the same I wouldn’t be bothered by it.
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Yes but by the time she made it to his lap I would be on my way out the door.
Yeah, that would be super uncomfortable.
He'd be dead before he could stand up.
Umm I made my boyfriend stop talking to his old female acquaintances. I wouldn’t be with a man who has female friends. Had he not been my first love and we been together for five years I would have chosen someone who firmly believed from the start in not having female acquaintances and the only woman he’d have in his life would be me. I would have married a virgin too because I think virgins deserve virgins and not damaged goods. Why would I want to be with a guy who’s dipped that shit in every shithole? Nope. That is trashy and he would be trash in my eyes. It’s important to check these things and be a good judge of character. Women are always choosing the wrong men and then complain why they get hurt.
Lol I'll never forget the day me and my ex and friend were hanging out... she thought it was cute to booty dance on my ex... hmmm... next thing I knew, I had her hair in my hand bc I grabbed it to snatch her away... lol.. didn't even realize I did it till after...😂😂 .. so yes, I'd be pissed if my boyfriend allowed his friends to sit in his lap... I'm the only person who should be sitting in "daddies" lap.
😋Yup I'd punch someone in the mouth, that's not "friend like" that's just ignorant for them to do when your there or absent should be the girlfriend sitting on his lap! That to me says were screwing behind your back and blatantly telling you indirectly to your face!
He would not be my boyfriend, he might as well date her. That is inappropriate for a reason. I wouldn't even do that even if where dating unless circumstances called for it.
Yes. I would probably slap the back of his head, call him a disrespectful fuckwad and take uber home so he has some time to think about it.
That or I’d walk over to my guy friend, whisper “play along”, point at my boyfriend, then sit on his lap and see what happens.id have to say no to the lap... but yes to the shoulder thing if they are close friends. i have a friend who sometimes puts his arm around me (and ik for sure he isn't interested in me). it is a little iffy tbh... but also i dont wanna be a hypocrite so imma have to trust him
Depends. If it his bestie and I am aware of her and it's someone I'm comfortable with then it's fine. My husband has wrestled in the pool with girls before but I knew them they knew me and I felt comfortable. But I have stayed the night at my guy friends house too. But my husband knows him and is comfortable with him
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