Girls, would you be mad if your boyfriend let his female friend sit on his lap and he put his arm around her like this?

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SueAnon84 · Accepted Answer

Umm yes!! That's wrong! If they did that in front of me that would be very disrespectful and that would be the day I end it! Especially if the woman was just friends with him and not me! Why should she just be friends with him and not me anyway? ! Is it because they are hiding something from me? ! This is now way to treat me! If they are THAT comfortable physically with each other (especially in front of me) then why don't they just date each other! God damn please don't think I am stupid or blind! Also, that's breaking trust! What if I had a guy friend do that! How would HE (my "boyfriend") like it? ! God some people!.. The things they try to get away with!

sjoes006 · Accepted Answer

It really depends, any female, yes. Certain ones I know and are cool with and they’ve known forever? Probably not.

I know I’ve done something like that with my guys good friend when we all get along. If his girlfriend did the same I wouldn’t be bothered by it.

sejla · Answer

Yes but by the time she made it to his lap I would be on my way out the door.

AmandaYVR · Answer

Yeah, that would be super uncomfortable.

ChronicThinker · Answer

He'd be dead before he could stand up.

SarahElizabeth98 · Answer

Umm I made my boyfriend stop talking to his old female acquaintances. I wouldn’t be with a man who has female friends. Had he not been my first love and we been together for five years I would have chosen someone who firmly believed from the start in not having female acquaintances and the only woman he’d have in his life would be me. I would have married a virgin too because I think virgins deserve virgins and not damaged goods. Why would I want to be with a guy who’s dipped that shit in every shithole? Nope. That is trashy and he would be trash in my eyes. It’s important to check these things and be a good judge of character. Women are always choosing the wrong men and then complain why they get hurt.

Imcmullan · Answer

Lol I'll never forget the day me and my ex and friend were hanging out... she thought it was cute to booty dance on my ex... hmmm... next thing I knew, I had her hair in my hand bc I grabbed it to snatch her away... lol.. didn't even realize I did it till after...😂😂 .. so yes, I'd be pissed if my boyfriend allowed his friends to sit in his lap... I'm the only person who should be sitting in "daddies" lap.
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Kha0tiic_xo · Answer

Yup I'd punch someone in the mouth, that's not "friend like" that's just ignorant for them to do when your there or absent should be the girlfriend sitting on his lap! That to me says were screwing behind your back and blatantly telling you indirectly to your face!

btbc92 · Answer

He would not be my boyfriend, he might as well date her. That is inappropriate for a reason. I wouldn't even do that even if where dating unless circumstances called for it.

TacocaT6969 · Answer

Yes. I would probably slap the back of his head, call him a disrespectful fuckwad and take uber home so he has some time to think about it.

That or I’d walk over to my guy friend, whisper “play along”, point at my boyfriend, then sit on his lap and see what happens.

nopedydoo · Answer

id have to say no to the lap... but yes to the shoulder thing if they are close friends. i have a friend who sometimes puts his arm around me (and ik for sure he isn't interested in me). it is a little iffy tbh... but also i dont wanna be a hypocrite so imma have to trust him

Neeceeb7 · Answer

Depends. If it his bestie and I am aware of her and it's someone I'm comfortable with then it's fine. My husband has wrestled in the pool with girls before but I knew them they knew me and I felt comfortable. But I have stayed the night at my guy friends house too. But my husband knows him and is comfortable with him

daliah · Answer

If that's their friendship dynamic even before I became his girlfriend then I don't think I should be upset or have the right to ask him to stop it.

Just like how if I acted like that with a male friend my entire life then a guy comes along and says he wants me to stop it I won't be that much pleased.

lovinandfightin · Answer

tbh im one of those women who hold everything inside. I had one boyfriend who let a girl grind on his lap when I was sitting right there. I find it disrespectful, but as other guys I have dated have backed away, never touched her, and will move over to me and make me sit in his lap. but as standing side to side, I know men have girl friends and not girlfriend/fwb, and would trust him enough if he said they really are just friends.

CherryRoseChampange · Answer

Nope, lol. He knows what's acceptable and what's not. I'm not gonna beg for him to be a certain way. He's a grown man.

He knows how to behave in our relationship and the consequences if he doesn't, so I'm not bothered.

Ankitasingh466 · Answer

Il pinch him immediately. A extremely sharp pinch. And then he's goona get a dose from me when we reach home.

JustAPerson2u · Answer

I'd calmly tell him that we're done, and wish him the best with his new girl. That would embarrass both and they'd talk about it. Then, I'd move on with someone new. I don't have time for people who respect me.

MissKittyz · Answer

Of course I'd be mad. Someone in a relationship just wouldn't do that with a friend. That's just so weird.

Randomawkwardness · Answer

Of course I would be. It implies there is something more between them and I would be upset with them both for being so rude

PeacefulRainDrop · Answer

Hed no longer be my boyfriend thats for sure she can have him.. if they are doing that in front of me what are they doing behind closed doors?

Rinrin87 · Answer

Yes and I would cut his 🍒 (jokingly). I'd dump him.

Warmapplecrumble · Answer

Well I'd have to sit on my male friends lap and hug him like that then *-* just saying :-P

daydreammarie · Answer

I wouldn't mind the arm but the lap I would be uncomfortable with.

JetJas · Answer

The lap is too much but putting arms around the shoulders is okay

SnowFoxy1 · Answer

Nope. Not at all, so long as I was there. I might ask him about it, though.

rubyrose83 · Answer

Acting like that he wouldn't be my boyfriend for much longer

lex123456789 · Answer

Obviously. If your man does that he’s not your man. Period.

jojouzumaki · Answer

i’m not gonna be mad. i will just let him go (broke up w/him).

trishhhxx · Answer

I would only be mad if it was in reverse and he lost his shit. in general id be hella disrespected but not mad

ashley1996 · Answer

Boyfriend? Psh what boyfriend? They can have each other

Realbae · Answer

Yea I would be mad at both of them... hate when that happens. We could be best friends since forever don't ever get that comfortable with my boo... if you want to hug fine by me but if am there you better hug both of us r me alone

MizzArtFreak89 · Answer

Frankly HELL YES. I'm single but I would be furious. I'll make her get off.

Girls, would you be mad if your boyfriend let his female friend sit on his lap and he put his arm around her like this?

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