My boyfriend blocked my number because I annoyed him?

[Anonymous]

We were arguing on the phone. And he hung up and blocked my number. He left it blocked from 9pm till 6am. At least that’s what I think since I called him a 6am on my way to work. When I asked why, he said I was being hysterical and annoyed him. When we were arguing, I was crying and he was laughing about the whole thing.

During the phone call in the morning when he was saying that I annoyed him. He said he’d block me again if I annoyed him again. And we just said bye and hung up.

Sometimes he’ll be really sweet but other times he’s just... so cruel. What do I do? We’ve been together for 8 months.

[nataliexoooo]

so many red flags. he's laughing when you're crying? he blocks you when he's mad? he says that you annoyed him? threatens to block you again if you annoy him once more? that sounds so terrible and manipulative. occasional sweet boyfriend times doesn't butter up these kind of moments. break up with him and find someone whos actually mature enough to communicate with you thoroughly when you guys argue. the biggest key to a good healthy relationship is how you guys fight and if thats what he does when you guys argue, that ain't it.

[LordSnuggles]

Every time I read one of these, I thank the powers that be I found a rational, honest, and intelligent girl that doesn't do this type of immature dumb shit.

[Asker]

How am I the one doing immature dumb shit?

[LordSnuggles]

He did, but you chose to be with someone that irrational which says something about you. Broken people attract other broken people.

[Asker]

He wasn’t like that until recently sooo. How do you chose to be with someone like that if they weren’t like that the first 7 months of the relationship?

[LordSnuggles]

By knowing them well before you get involved romantically. That'd be the smart thing to do. Save yourself little things like this.

[Asker]

I knew him for four years before we started dating sooo. This whole concept of “broken people attract other broken people” is flawed.

[LordSnuggles]

It's not. You can tell a lot about a person by the company they keep. And in your case, it seems you don't know anyone well even if they've been around for a while. And you don't see their traits as flawed because you possess them as well.

[slatyb]

Doesn't sound like much fun. Find a guy who is nice all the time.

[Anonymous]

He must be dealing some stress or tensions or problem.
And you have been making them worse.

[Ally247]

People who block can't handle the truth

[SAVAGE222]

Ally 🔥🔥

[SilentWatchman]

He doesn’t sound like a very good guy

[Philyouup]

People deal with shit differ ways.

[34istman]

Get well soon🤕