Most Helpful Guys
Let's follow the bouncing ball.
1) He asks for 4 days of no contact
2) You contacted him by texting and calling him ignoring his wish for no contact
3) he blocks your number to get his wish of no contact
One can draw two conclusions from this:
1) you brought this upon yourself
2) he doesn't want to talk to you at this moment
What do you do?
Take this time to reflect on your relationship, the direction it's going, and whether there's a future here. He's taking this time to think. You should too.
Lol we think almost identically. Oddly usually guys are the problem solvers. The problem is that even though we think the same I have been around nagging and controlling women before and it's awful. I learned my lesson immediately: avoid them.
The point here is that you need to relax. If he needs space it's because he is probably overwhelmed and he has to process all of this information. Things take time. Nothing happens instantaneously... not really anyway. Even the time it takes to blink can be measured.
The point I'm trying to make is that you need to learn to be patient because most people will expect it. He also didn't want to ignore you but he feels you aren't giving him a choice. Chill out. He might be an introvert.
Most Helpful Girls
It seems he has taken desperate measures because he needs his space. Personally, i like to resolve issues as soon as possible. Commuinication is so important to make a relationship work.
I would just accept he wants his space, he obviously needs time to sort his head out before dealing with speaking to you. When he does decide to talk to you , try to explain to him that if he wants the relationship to work, you both need to commuincate to resolve any issues, rather than ignoring it for days on end.
Space distances two people, it doesn't bring them closer together. He can't shut you out everytime you both have an argument .
Relationships are measured by the bad times, not the good. So you both need to become stronger together when faced with any adversities.
You are doing the crazy girlfriend thing and chasing him away. He asked for 4 days, and you still tried to contact him. Calm yourself down and wait or break up, because obviously, you can't handle respecting his wish for space. Sometimes, people need to think, not everyone will bend to your will 100% of the time to do things as you want them to be done.