What should I do if my boyfriend blocks my number and basically there's no contact between us?

[Anonymous]

So it's been almost a day since we had a big fight. He's actually traveling with his friends and tbh I just feel jealous because I also want to accompany him but couldn't. My parents know about him. He assured me that once few things are sorted we will travel together and that he prefers my company the most. My boyfriend likes to travel and he keeps on traveling frequently and it's been almost a year and half that I haven't really gone out of my house mainly due to pandemic. This frustrates me that he is getting to travel and I'm not and I wanted him to wait for sometime so that we could both travel together. Due to this reason we had a fight and he has blocked my number. Although he is in touch with my parents and sent them photos of the places he's been to. I'm just confused what should I do!

[MisteryMe]

Did he block you because you kept on him after he gave you a reasonable answer and you wouldn't drop it? If that's the case, maybe calm down, take a breather, and accept what he says even if it's not what you want to hear. Harping ruins relationships; remember that.

Are you jealous because you're afraid he's cheating or going to find someone else in his travels? Maybe give some thought to how much you trust him or how solid you think your relationship is. Are you feeling like there's a lot of emotional distance between you and him because of the situation? If so, you might want to take this time to think and talk to him about it in the near future. Don't bring it up the second he starts talking to you again, but maybe a couple of days later.

As far as being blocked right now, he's obviously frustrated with you and wants to be left alone. You just need to wait for him to calm down and get to where he wants to talk to you again.

[Asker]

Yes kind of, now I do feel I might have pestered him but at the same time I'm feeling anxious and insecure rn. I don't think he would cheat on me but rn all sorts of scenarios are playing in my head because maybe I'm overthinking.

[Asker]

Also I'm jealous mainly because I kind of have that fomo that I'm missing out on being with him.

[MisteryMe]

If you don't think he'd cheat on you, then just relax, okay? It sounds like you and him have been together for a long time. If someone really loves you, they're not going to break up with you over one fight. If that was the norm, nobody would stay married more than a couple of years, and most would never be married in the first place lol. Worrying and play out things in your head that haven't happened yet isn't going to do you any good. Just find something to keep your mind occupied. He will get back to you after he settles down.

[MisteryMe]

Well... you are missing out on being with him. I can understand being upset over that. It can feel bad where someone you love is traveling around having a great time and you're missing out on it.

[Asker]

Thanks! I'm not chasing him and letting him take his time to cool off , meanwhile I'm also trying to keep myself occupied with my work.

[MisteryMe]

You're very welcome! I'm glad I could help you 😊. Believe me when I tell you that I understand that kind of anxiety and overthinking all too well. Feel free to message if you ever need some help calming down in the future lol.

[spartan55]

Confused about what? You are being very selfish and I don't blame ol' boy for blocking you. I'd get a hold of that, he is sending you a message here. You girls are the masters of hinting, right? He is telling you to knock that shit off of he will end it the next time.

[snowgirl123]

if he's still in touch with your family, he most likely still considers you his girlfriend. maybe he's just trying to give you a lesson I guess, and maybe he's upset. well, wait a few days to see if he's more calm, maybe two days at most. ask your family to tell you that you want to talk to him since he blocked you. if he wants to talk to you then, after his mind has cooled off, maybe you will remain together. if he takes too long to reply, then maybe it is time you move on girl. when you love someone, if it was just a fight, a little bit of time heals the wound or at it may at least make him more calm. if not, you will be loved.

[Siren777]

What? How is it fine that he texts your parents but cannot have a decent conversation with you? This is ridiculous and immature.

[spartan55]

He is doing that because she is being a royal pain in the ass and he doesn't want to deal with it.

[Siren777]

@spartan55 For sure

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If the joker blocked you feel free to block him in return until both of you cool off or or call it quits & permanently block him & move on.

[noohair]

Welcome to digital dementia. He sounds like as assho! e to me, but I am old fashioned and was taught to respect women specially my girlfriend. If you were my daughter, I would advise you to move on.

[Anonymous]

Dump him and move on.

[sensible27]

Why does everyone say dump him at seemingly small things here.

[sensible27]

Wait?