Is going to bars to meet women a good place or not? (Page 2)

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I meet girls mostly on my college campus. But I feel like it’s a crutch. That’s probably where I get most of my dates. Next year I graduate and I don’t want to be clueless about meeting women so I’m taking initiative. I’m getting myself out more to meet people. So far it’s at shopping stores, grocery stores, the gym and wherever my daily routine takes me. My cousin mentioned online dating but it really turns me off. There’s no challenge there. I like the chase. I like meeting women in person.  Bars are probably the easiest place I can think of to meet women. The reason I don’t go is because of the stigma about bars aren’t good places to meet someone you’d want to date. Also I don’t drink. The point in me dating is to eventually find that girl I’d want to marry and start a family with. But I need places to go. Please don’t say, don’t chase women. Focus on you. Hey I graduate next year and plan on going into news broadcasting, workout 4-5 times a week. Work 40+ a week, published two books, work on comic books and so much more. Buying my first house next year. I’m debt free. Trust me I’m working on me. Too freaking much honestly. I want a woman in my life and I believe in going after what you want. Not waiting for it to come to you. I “want” to chase and I have no problem with it. I just need to be where people are meeting.  Are bars a good place to meet women or should I not bother? I thought at the very least it would be a great way to work on my approach and overall comfort with going up to women off campus. It honestly sounds fun to me. The only thing is I definitely wouldn’t drink. I’ll shamelessly drink some pop or something.

VikingWarLord · Answer

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GuysAnswer · Answer

Bars can be good for meeting women, especially if you can dance. Even a gawky dance 🙂. One is more likely to find high-anxiety types there but for the average guy it’s still one of the best places to meet new people. If she’s already a friend, taking her to a nice restaurant Is better

Arthur_Shelby · Answer

Well yeah because girls go to bars and parties in order to find a man to go home with. My dude, go out there and grab some of that college pussy. College girls are essentially prostitutes but you don't gotta pay them! If you're somewhat hot, just ask them to fuck and they'll say yeah. That's how wild and horny they are..

Anonymous · Answer

I just wanna fuckbuddy thats actually ok with me being married, than can come over vice versa whenever call or text, and not breathe a word to anyone else about it. Have sex however whenever. Have a secret relationship just between me and her in a vacuum if you will. Why is it anyone elses business anyway?

Hamsteroids · Answer

Personally no. I mean I guess if it’s like a one time thing sure, but a serious or long term relationship? Nope

mistixs · Answer

I didn't read, but I personally wouldn't go to meet people at bars because I presume our lifestyles and values wouldn't be compatible.

SkipStop · Answer

⚠️ If you want to get put in jail for a crime you never committed then sure ⚠️ I suggest joining an official club of your interest. Maybe a gym.

SpearsAndStones · Answer

I think that the ONLY acceptable place to even speak to women now is Tinder or a similar app. Anything else is a risk that you will be ostracized and alienated.

Bananaman177 · Answer

The only place worse than a bar would be a crackhouse.

Neeceeb7 · Answer

It can be. Depends on what your looking for Sorry it's not much help. But talking to anyone 00eople is really good idea

WTFever · Answer

It would really depend on what you are looking for. If you're looking for a future wife, then it's not a good place for that. If you are looking something short term, then you could find it in bars.

Mil00 · Answer

Go to a mixer. So you know for a fact people are there to meet.

GuidoThePizzaMaker · Answer

Bars are probably the worst place to meet women, if your purpose is to build friendships, bonds, networks, or an intimate relationship.

SueAnon84 · Answer

You can meet people in bars but it really depends. You might meet an alcoholic!

winterfox10 · Answer

Honestly, that's one of the worst places you could try meeting women. Find non-alcohol related places to meet women.

Liam_Hayden · Answer

Any place is a good place to meet women if you and she are open to it. For me bars are generally not good for meeting high-quality women, at least not ones who are looking for long term.

mario_with_no_luigi · Answer

Best place is at yoga classes. I’m not into this shit but my friend always hooks up with tons of beautiful women from his yoga class. You heard it here first. 🤙🏽

Shamalien · Answer

A guy like you does not need to be bottom feeding. Stay away from bars man that's how to take a 10/10 man and turn his life to shit, meeting one of those girls

Maggsxo · Answer

Yeah I definitely feel like it can be a positive way of meeting someone, it all depends if they continue to have a relationship with you, friends to somewhat more.

derick01 · Answer

Not really unless it's a bar known for meeting people. Some are hookup locales but it seems like tou are past that phase. Also, you prolly dont want a loud bar where you can converse which is most of the bars out there.

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