Why do I feel invisible to men?

[Anonymous]

I’ve always been the type of girl that’s never been noticed a lot by guys and I don’t know why, I mean I don’t consider myself like not attractive or something like that, I like how I look. Some friends tell me that there are lots of guys that find me attractive but I don’t think so; I feel invisible because no one asks me out not notice me.

[Lady_Frost]

Well, you are probably not paying enough attention. Or you are not engaging with men.
Have you ever thought about making a move yourself? If you want something, you go out and get it. No one will hand it over to you unless you ask first. Seriously, this is how it works.

Try wearing dark pantyhose! Straight men can't get their eyes off them ;) These things are like MAGNETS!

[ImagineSketchy]

I'm not sure of this appeal of dark pantyhose, but hey, if it works...
Then again I'm not like the average guy in what I find appealing. I don't know

[Lady_Frost]

@ImagineSketchy Just like not all women are attracted to rich men. Money does appeal but it is seen as a bonus over those, who have to be frugal and won't do anything about it long term.

Then again, the only women, who are attracted to men's money are gold diggers.

[ImagineSketchy]

Wait... Why did money come into this as though this wasn't about clothing and appearance?

[Lady_Frost]

@ImagineSketchy The tendency is, that primarily men are attracted to women through visuals and women are attracted to men through security - the most prominent (and obviouos) of it being financial stability. However security doesn't have to be about money. Protection is security. Emotional support is security. A warm place to stay is security. Other types of resources (other than money) is security. Commitment is security. You connect the dots from there and it will make sense.

[ImagineSketchy]

Humans are an odd bunch. I'll never understand them no matter how long I study them.

[Lady_Frost]

@ImagineSketchy They are not meant to be understood at all times. However most of the times we are correct on understanding them. We call it judging someone.

[ImagineSketchy]

I don't think that's it, but alright. Definitely agree to disagree.

[the_lonely_god]

Yeah its easy for a women to go get some or to find a decent guy. I mean i take swings all the time but like one guy on here said. With guys it's a lot harder to get Laid or find a woken willing to date. Contrary to popular belief most guys are not as picky as women when it comes to things like your job or looks.

[JSmuve]

Why do you feel invisible? You already answered that question. It's because guys aren't tripping over their dicks to ask you out.

Why *are* you invisible to men? Well, I couldn't tell you. Probably for the same reason I'm ostensibly invisible to girls. Low on the dating food chain, I guess.

[Istromus]

You need to be confident. Also, people probably notice you without realizing as well. Confidence is key, it can be really hard to talk to someone who is shy.

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

Perhaps you're just not putting yourself out there enough? Coming off as a recluse.

[Adogdog]

That will happen. Just keep looking, you'll find someone great.

[teamvic]

Well how many dudes are in your dms?

[okeydoke]

Are you wearing an invisibility cloak?

[PrinceOfAljazeera]

good.

[Anonymous]

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