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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yPartly depends on "the brand." There's no set limit. You can have dwarfism and get a gorgeous woman. I'm assuming we're not talking "gorgeous" in a husband to wife or girlfriend to boyfriend kind of way, but semi objectively gorgeous, like a model/actress, etc. High influence considered by most kind of objective. High status.
Generally, it helps to be tall. 6'4. Anything much taller might be seen as "too tall" by more and more women. But I think anywhere from 6'1 to 6'5 will be the most ideal to most women middle to upper class westernized culture.
I think anything below 5'8 is enough to give a lot of women pause. I know I've heard women talk crap about dudes who were 5'7 as WAY too short, which is insane, as the average is I believe at 5'10. I'm at 5'8.
6'0 seems to be the most common height women mention that a guy "has" to be to have her date him when I've seen it as a request with online dating.00 Reply
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940 opinions shared on Dating topic. I be honest as 6'2 good looking dude (profile pic is real) i do not have a problem attracting women i never had since i was 15 and now im 25
But every girl has her own prefference and type when it comes to how her dream boyfriend looks : it means height face weight etc
I know im not gonna be 10/10 to every female i know some will wet their panties if i look at them some will be scared and some will be like meeeh
I know that all , but yes the height helps thats true but ur personality matters also after the looks open you the first door00 Reply
+1 yVoted this because this was the shortest answer. I really don't think height matters. Charmisa, attitude, behavior, humor etc matter far more in the long run. Yeah some women have height rules. They are stupid and blind them to potentially great guys. There are short men that get extremely attractive women all time. Seriously look into actors. A lot of them are short.
Though in the long run trying to date someone just for looks is not going to get you a worthwhile long lasting relationship. Although that's probably not what your looking for at this point in your life.10 Reply
You should be confindent, funny and positive. Be a bold person. That attracts lol.
If you have these doesn't matter much how tall you are. But if I would choose I would say 6 feet 9 lol. Basketballers look fierce I mire them310 Reply
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+1 yI don't think height necessarily makes you less or more likely to get your idea of a hot girl. Not every girl is overly concerned about height, and there might be some short attractive girls who would like a guy who is also a bit on the short side.
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5'7" and around my height. It doesn't really matter to me too much, but I like to be able to look each other in the eyes without looking way up or way down.
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+1 yI am 5'6 ... and I always get hot girlfriends.
So my answer is 5'6 !12 Reply- +1 y
All kinds of sizes!!!
2.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. A close friend of my family was a dwarf sized guy. He grew up with my dad & uncles. He had a hot 6 foot tall wife till he died.
Now it’s true that he was also highly successful in business/career BUT I never thought of him as short. He never was about that. He had charisma. Great guy.12 Reply- 1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yThat depends on a lot of things. Are you attractive? Do you have money? Are you confident? Do you have a great personality? Most women prefer if their boyfriend is taller than them. But even short guys like Peter Dinklage have found love, but he is renowned actor and probably very wealthy and perhaps has a great personality as well.
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I’m 5’5. I like my guys to be at least my height. As long as I don’t have to look down on him then I’m happy.
+1 y6ft is the minimum height requirement for this ride lol
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Im 4'10. My guy is like 6'5, 6'6..
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Guys men date a woman for her looks and how pretty she is, women discriminate less on that front. Why complain about girls bring attracted to tall men when they can't control that. Women just like men date the best they can.
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There is such a thing as a tall or short. The average height of a guy is 5'10 so that's average, a tall guy is considered tall at 6ft+.
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@sparkdog may be in height but I dont feel inferior and I get way more attention than many of my tall girl friends.
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Average height is not relative, it's more of a statistic
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But it hasn't changed. It's still currently 5'10 for men and 5'4 for women. It won't change for a few years at most.
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5'8 technically is average, 5'7 and bellow is basically manlet/pathetic
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Ya some guys are bitchy about breast size and that’s ridiculous. There isn’t a such thing as absolute height. You cannot say someone is tall or short until you start comparing them to others. Height is important for women because you want to be able to look your partner in the eye. And models have to be tall. And if you play sports it helps to be tall too. So stop with the double standards.
Height matters to some but far from all people. It's just one of a large number of factors. Attraction is complex.
What will turn most women off is being short AND having a complex about it. If you don't act like it's a big deal, it's not a big deal.10 ReplyThe general consensus appears to be 6 foot. But, its not really about your height. And don't listen to what women say in regards what it takes to get a hot girlfriend as you put it. It's all about your game, and the most effective way to improve your game, is with experience. So talk to as many women as you can, get to know each of them, and with time, talking to women will come with ease, as will a hot girlfriend.
10 ReplyWhen I was 14 I was 5'2" and dated a girl whose part time job was that of an underwear model, she was also 14 but fully developed and like 5' 10" already. She liked that while my height made for the perfect reason to look at her breasts and then her eyes I always met her eyes first when talking to her and the discretely checked her out at least that's how she described it but she knew I checked her out so I don't know how discrete I really was...
00 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Any height, I know plenty of tall guys who can't get laid. If anything it's about the face. Bunch of "short" guys with stunning faces lol and they're swimming in hot chicks.
Myself I've been with short and tall. Height doesn't really matter, some ladies just want a real man. You'll probably find a bunch of picky women on here/internet about height, it's not the same in real life.10 ReplyHeight does not correspond to a hot girlfriend, because 1. Depends on what you think is "hot" 2. Being tall doesn't help if you're arrogant, self centered, or just an overall dick. 3. And being tall doesn't mean you'll even get the hot girlfriend because she might not like tall guys
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+1 yMost girls want a guy taller than them, just like most guys want a girl shorter than them. So in that sense, a 3 or more inch height difference might be ideal.
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I like tall girls, like it when I hug them that their head is just under my chin
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None of the above. I’m 6ft and I’ve been beat out by shorter uglier guys when it came to getting to hot girls because they had better game than I did.
It sucked at the time but I got to give credit to where credits due.
Being a good looking guy only gives you a short head start. It also gives you some leeway to say sexual things or even saying a innocent hello without being labeled a creep. But that’s about it.20 Reply I mean, I'm glad my height of 6 foot is desirable but at the same time feel bad because less than 6 foot is the majority of people. Each to their own I guess, personally i don't care what height a girl is, even if she's taller.
10 ReplyGirls and Height... I was reject so many times about my height. A guy can look like a gorillas, act like a retarded, and he still end up with girls. Height is the number one filter on all dating site. Worst, women think that men like to be taller. I don't.
00 ReplyThat's pretty dumb of you to want absolute numbers. Obviously it would depend on the individual hot girl's height. What matters is the guy's height in relation to the girl's height, not his absolute height.
00 Replybeing 6'3 feels good.
I think 6'0 is a minimum for a guy if he wants to belong to the top 20% of men in real world. Really pretty girls are mostly tall.01 Reply- 4.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yHow tall is Tom Cruise? 5'5"- 5'6"? He seems to get "hot girlfriends"
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He's also very rich
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And white. White skin is considered a good thing to society and dark skin is viewed as negative
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@Eaglesfan285 But my comment and your subsequent editorials only add to the point of my comment that height alone (as the asker suggests) does not matter when seeking a "hot girlfriend"
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Don’t believe everything you read in the internet. He’s actually around 5’5”.
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We’ve met.
+1 yI'm a shorter than average guy. I get approached by girls about once per two months. And i'm not counting the hints girls give, i mean actual approaching with an invite to coffee. All of them are at tve very least cute, some are really attractive. And by attractive i mean a solid 10.
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+1 ymost girls out there may prefer 6 ft and up, but that doesn't mean you won't meet someone who doesn't care about height, there are those who care more about the height of someone's character and personality, you just got to look in the right places, trust me those people exist, but they may not be as common as everyone else
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I'm 5'6 most girls have a preference, but they can be also swayed by charisma, good humour and how you make them feel. My preferences are nice eyes, big tits, tight body and a round ass, but I'm not going to let my preferences get in the way of a good connection. As long as she is physically attractive enough and i think a lot of girls feel this way too.
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+1 yWeirdest Question Ever but It doesn't matter.
Love is love and at the end you decide if you end up with a hot or ugly, or kind or @sshole or sweet or slutty. End.22 Reply
+1 yI pull hotties, and I'm just over 5'10. I had a buddy in college who couldn't have been more than 5'7, and somehow he always had hot girlfriends too. I think his secret was daddy money though, because he was quite the narcissist.
10 ReplyWhat's the height of a good personality and not being shallow enough to think height and hotness matters?
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+1 yProbably about 5’11 is the right height to become available to what we could define as societies contemporary standard of ‘hot’.
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It’s well above average by many international standards and above it by US standards.
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It’s far less likely for you to be considered by the ones who are hot if you’re anything less than 5’11. Now most of the time women fall into the average category, and there are times when hot women just happen to have low self esteem and feel they’re average, but of the ones who are hot and know it and of ones that are average and overly estimate their looks as ‘hot’ they have the feeling that it would be beneath them to settle for someone less than 5’11 if they don’t need to.
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Because they can feel that way.
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You would have to ask them, I don’t think there’s any one reason they have that preference.
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That almost certainly increases the pool of availability for a man who is under 5’11 but it’s still not going to draw most of their attention.
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Because there’s more to the appeal of height than can be pragmatically compensated for by the physical gains of muscles. It’s not enough to just be able to project more force or to have a sculpted figure.
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You may feel that way but women are not always concerned with those uses.
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How attractive someone is as a mate depends on different things in different times. If we lived in Mongolian Hun society there would be an extreme emphasis on the physical capability of men to kick the shit out of other men irrespective of height, but with adaptations like firearms, private security, police, and lower crime rates there is less emphasis on it. There are very effeminate and skinny men who can get laid even though the average man working at a gas station could kick their ass.
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Women in general want masculinity, but not all women are the same. There are varying levels of masculinity and there can be too much of a good thing.
At least 5’10. Otherwise no chance at getting a hot girlfriend
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+1 yNo minimum height. Any height can get a hot girlfriend.
20 Reply Because if you are shorter or taller she won’t be hot enough?
08 Reply6'0 and if women on here say other wise they are lying to your face.
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+1 yYou have to be as tall as the stack of money in Tom Cruise's personal safe. You have to be as tall as a stack of 570 million one dollar bills.
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+1 yI'm 5'4, my ex was 5'5, my boyfriend id 5'6. I dont care about heights
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Wait im 5'5 too excuse me
16.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. There is more than one way to skin a cat. I've seen a few short guys who were very funny and got hot gfs taller than them
00 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. At least 5’11 plus.
Any shorter i won't even look in your direction131 Reply- +1 y
It's just reality. The thing is. The reason girls like tall guys is because looking big makes u look dominating. Looking big and dominating is what girls like. Like a small guy does have as much sexual attraction or stands out because he isn't big.
This is like the hard truth.
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I hope you need life saving surgery and a short doctor refuses to treat you. The world would be better without, you stupid cunt
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@Games_ apparently this guy @Armourdillo can't face the harsh reality either🙈😂
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1 in 3 women get sexually assaulted, so chanches are good that you'll get what you deserve.
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@Armourdillo you gonna shoot up a school next or what? You sound like the type
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yGenerally just taller then her. But I have friends who have husbands and inch or two smaller then them.
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I’m 5.7” & my partner is a foot taller than me (about 6.7”).
My friends are 5.8” and their husbands are around 2” smaller (without heels).
I’ve also seen smaller men with girls that are the same height or smaller than him even if it’s just by an inch. - Opinion Owner+1 y
Thank you. They do yes so sometimes they’re slightly taller than him at occasions.
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I just don’t think it’s something they’ve ever really thought about or given that much meaning to.
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Yeah they’re attractive. About 2-3” taller.
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Not at all
+1 yEvery woman wants her man to be 5’10+
If they are dating shorter, they settled.
Also, for the love of god people, stop bringing up short celebrities. Stop comparing apples to oranges.07 Reply- +1 y
I have a number of friends with shorter SOs. One was a Victoria's Secret model. She seriously just likes him because of who he is. She also enjoys that he loves her for more than her looks and what other men think.
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@ClearerAtN1ght she's probably cheating on him with taller guys.
All my friends, and myself included, who can't get girls all have one thing in common. We're all short. All my tall friends have no problem at all, don't do anything and yet have women throw themselves at them.
To say height doesn't matter, like I've seen in this thread, is just plain wrong.
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Why what?
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Or maybe you're too sensitive and insecure and it's affecting the outcome of your relationships?
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@ClearerAtN1ght what relationships? Women don’t give me the time of day.
- 456 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yAnything but 6'2", can't even get a girlfriend at that height, let alone a hot one.
30 Reply Most women say the requirements include being at least 6 feet tall, a fat wallet and a big dick.
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+1 y5.7 inches seems cool. But don't forget girth!
00 ReplyA lot of girls don't give a damn. Why anyone would want to date a superficial girl is beyond me anyway
20 Reply509 opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't care about height as long as he's not super short cuz I like to wear heels
14 ReplyI've seen a midget with a model holding hands
I also worked with a guy that was maybe 5'4" and his wife was smoking hot02 Reply- 1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yI'm 6'2" and can't even GET a girlfriend, let alone how hot she is.
Don't get your hopes up.20 Reply - Anonymous(25-29)+1 y
This seems like it is the least of your concerns if you’re actually serious, and I just don’t have the time to explain it all
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Your question, With your mindset, explains why you’re single. A girl that really wants to be with you for you, won’t give you the stiff arm for your height, because it’s not in your control. Also putting the word “hot” in there is not helping your case, beggers can’t be choosy
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And that my friend is where your issues began
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Lol ok pal, whatever you say...
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Here’s 2 thoughts for you, first off beggers can’t be choosy, meaning you can’t have such a closed mind as you have, also you’re clearly only seeking to either show her off, or keep her out of public view, and obviously have sex with her, and saying she has to be hot means that you’re sexualizing her for sex and that’s pretty much all, and that idea doesn’t sit well with most girls and won’t get you much of anywhere
3.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Depends how good looking you are. My oldest brother is the shortest and does better than all of us. He is only 5'4.
10 Reply10.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. I've seen guys 5'4 with hot girls, so the answer is none of the above. Google Micky Rooney - he was tiny but was married like 8 times.
10 ReplyTall is usually almost above face, just almost, as long as ur face isn't repulsive or u aren't too below average and skinny
00 ReplyYou can be a Danny Devito or Joe Pesci and get hot girlfriends. The more important factor is how you handle yourself.
00 Reply1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. It takes more than height to get a hot girl. It also takes look, intelligence, and money. And, if you have enough money; you don't need height.
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+1 yDepends what's hot to you. But I would say at least a few inches taller than her.
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Because most girls like taller.
+1 yAt least 5'10". But over 6' is usually the best bet.
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Why what
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Uh... because girls, if they have their druthers, essentially all want guys that are over 6'? Everyone knows that. But my point is that 5'10" is generally still tall enough to get attention.
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Because evolutionary biology. Ask God or the universe or whatever man, not me. They want to feel small and protected next to their guy, just like generally speaking a guy naturally wants to feel protective and dominant of their girl.
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Well... no, it's not. "Society" does not exist as its own entity, man; it is a conglomeration of millions of individuals. If a "society" thinks a thing or feels a certain way, it is because millions of individual people think or feel that thing.
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It’s the Hollywood ideal. Hollywood is made up of a handful of people, and it influences the entire world. People are very easily influenced by celebrities. Going back even further, it’s the European ideal of chivalry. But if you look at Japanese culture, they have a very different view of men and women over there. So it does depend on culture.
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Sure, man.
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His face matters way more lol i won't look at a tall guy with a potato face
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Im 165 ish and he is fine as long as 5cm+ taller
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is potato face like Autism?
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I dont think many men are even same height as me
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@DevylasArsaukas76 its basically ugly
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autism and ugly are the same thing usually
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No standard. My friend is 5'3 or 5'4 and he dated a stunning 6' tall beauty.
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+1 yYou can get a hot girl even if you're suffering from dwarfism.
10 ReplyI'm 5.8 and I'm shorter most of my mates and I'm proud of. it lol
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+1 yI'm 6"1 had plenty hot dates, might be a coinsidens, who knows
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Between 5.5 and 5.9
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Everything from 5.5 to 6.2 I don't mind them being taller then me. But have dated someone that have been 5.2 so not a big deal.
3.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. at least 6 feet. you also need a long dick, expensive car and a lot of money. I mean A LOT OF MONEY!
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+1 y6'4 black hair, brown eyes, actor, named jacob elordi, australian.
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YOU GET IT YOU GET IT
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Right! Its so simple but some people just dont get it🙄
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Really? He looks like a soft little cat
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I want him in my soft little cat
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Oook sure. So your not a Jason Momoa type of person. You like them small types
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Funny u say that because I actually am! One of my earliest questions was about him😍 and i think jacob is very manly but with a soft side
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I just see the soft side when I look at Jacob, but your taste is your taste.
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@megaman242 you’re a guy though of course you wouldn't understand a woman’s point of view. he’s irresistible !
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You're a fucking ignorant bitch
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You're saying that women who date guys who aren't him are all not hot? You fucking cunt
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Woooaaahhh@Armourdillo lmao so angry out of no where
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You literally said no man who isn't him will never get a girlfriend they think is hot. How big of a fucking who do you have to have to think like that?
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lmaoooo
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It won't matter, they accept hot men and hot men would take them. Women are perfectly fine sharing hot guys. There isn't one women for every man.
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Im cryingg 😂😂😂😂
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y'all sound dumb af
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You sloppy bitch read your opinion in context of the question
4.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Depends on a person’s taste. A short hot woman will most likely get a short hot man.
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My dad is short and my mom has always been beautiful, objectively beautiful.
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My mom is about 5'5" and my dad is about 5'3"
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She wears pumps sometimes, but not really heels.
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I guess heels just aren't her thing
4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Doesn't matter there's a girl out there for any size of a guy
10 Reply- Anonymous(30-35)+1 y
I think how tall your dick is, what they think.. Big dick big wallet... Takes care of 75% ops.. 95% of womens needs...
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