Why does my boyfriend wrap his hand around my throat when sometimes when we kiss?

[Tasha135]

Sometimes, when my boyfriend and I start making out he will put his hand on my throat. Like, yesterday we were making out and, this may be too much information, he moved on top of me holding my throat like he was pinning me down. I don’t mind it, I just wondered why he down it and what it meant?

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Sorry about the question title 😂 I’m tired

[Anonymous]

It's probably him trying to show his dominance. I am a very dominant man, I have no idea why but when I am with a women I am dating I feel this instinctual need to claim her as mine and take charge. I do this to my girlfriend too. I think it is just an instinct for me.

[Tasha135]

Yeah, I mean I kinda like it so I’m not complaining I was just curious. But yeah, everyone’s saying it’s a dominance thing

[SkinnyThickLover]

MAkes him feel powerful I guess his fetish is to own you. Some girls like that usually leads to abuse though.

[Tasha135]

That’s what my friends have said. Half of them think it’s “hot” but half of them say “that’s a red flag, it normally leads to abuse” but even when we fight and argue he would never lay a finger on me. Yeah, he shouts at me and throws shit and hits things but he’s never hurt me

[SkinnyThickLover]

REd flag there also. he unleshes all over. One day he will see red and hurt you.

My sister had a man like that killed her one day when he got carried away.

[Tasha135]

Im so sorry. We have been together for 2 years but I only just brought it up to my friends because they walked in on us yesterday and mentioned it but now I’m not too sure since my friends are split. But, surely if he was going to hurt me, he would have done by now?

[SkinnyThickLover]

No never say that cause you have no idea what might come. It was 3 years before he accidently hurt my sister.

[Paris13]

I was Dating a Coptic Christian who Did This... Beware... Not Normal. xx

[Tasha135]

I’m scared now. Everyone’s saying it not normal... what happened?

[Paris13]

I got Scared and even said "GEORGE!" He stopped.. I knew he was Not Wrapped Tight... Just be careful. xx

[Tasha135]

Okay, I will be careful, thanks

[Paris13]

Good, sweetheart. xxoo

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he enjoys being sexually dominant and rough. If this is something you're not in to or dont enjoy you must let him know NOW. But he's not unusual, a lot of guys are

[Tasha135]

No it’s fine, I don’t have a problem with it. My friends are just split that’s all.

[Opinion Owner]

Forget about your friends. Try talking to him! Just say I noticed the other day when we were making out you did this.. any reason why? Do you enjoy it like that? That kinda stuff

[Tasha135]

I don’t wanna make it awkward because I’m kinda into it 😂

[Opinion Owner]

Talking to him about it won't make it awkward. If you do feel like its turning awkward just say dont worry I like it or I'm in to it

[DanOh2018]

He must think you like it rough, or he's really awkward 😅

[Tasha135]

I don’t think it’s an “awkward” thing considering how much of a cocky, arsehole he is

[DanOh2018]

lol you seem to like it

[Tasha135]

Maybe...😂

[Anonymous]

Some girls like to be choked..

[Philyouup]

It gets him off. Has Dominant tendencies?

[COMMODOREII]

He likes choking. I don't it's not right.

[Tasha135]

Why don’t you think it’s right? I mean, I kinda like it so I’m not complaining i was just curious as to why he done it

[COMMODOREII]

If you like it i guess its ok. Im a pretty strong guy and the idwa of choking or hurting my lover turns me off. I want her to have fun not be scared of me.

[alance99]

He likes to be rough but its too much i would say

[Tasha135]

He doesn’t put a lot of pressure on my neck he just puts his hand there and tightens his grip when we kiss but he’s never put too much pressure on me

[alance99]

Yea i got, everybody has different way of showing love so thats why i said its too much but as long as long you are enjoying it everything is fine

[malealpha00]

for extra control and dominance

[Ray_Lala]

He wants to kill you

[Tasha135]

What? Why do you think that? 😂

[Ray_Lala]

May be he is bored and want to try something new like killing someone.

[GreenGold1992]

passion?

[Steve37]

It's a control thing