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She says I’m making her feel stupid?

I don’t think I come across as condescending, but she’s being really sensitive lately. Yesterday I was hanging some lights and needed a hammer and nail, and I asked her to grab my tools... and she told me to come down and grab them because she couldn’t find them. I was holding the lights in place and getting tired. Told her to just open the tool chest and move things around. Kept telling me to hang up the lights a different way and didn’t understand what I was saying. Finally I got down dropping all my progress sort of frustrated and explained to her what I was trying to do by hanging the lights this way. She walked away all upset.

This morning she ran out of gas, and I transferred her $20 through my app because she’s on 0 miles before work. Transferred it, and then she calls again asking for another $37.00 because she got an overdraft fee. I sighed and told her okay, but she needs to pay more attention to her finances. Explained that I don’t care about the amount but rather I want her to just be more responsible.

Last week we were going somewhere and I needed directions. She gave me the wrong address and when I called her she gave me directions that didn’t make sense. Said I had gone way too far if I hit this one street when it was actually located on that cross street. I kept asking for more directions because I’m getting lost and then she got all sensitive and told me I’m making her feel stupid. I was blown away because my tone wasn’t even mean at all. I was just lost.

Is she just being sensitive? Don’t even know what to do anymore.
She says I’m making her feel stupid?
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