This was explained to me by a wise woman. Beware the butterflies. When you get butterflies while with someone or doing something, It means something is off. It should feel as natural as walking. That is the good sign.
yes if you want mediocre life... sure it should feel natural and sure butterflies doesn't mean that the person is "the one" but without them its like eh meh... you always actualyl want the butterfly person
My previous ex we were on our 3rd date. He decided too cook me dinner that day, and somehow it felt like I couldn’t stop smiling looking at him. Cooking together always brought out some sorta intimacy between us. Especially that was when we first decided to have sex. I miss it but things didn’t turn out the way we wanted it to be in the future. I was his first serious relationship and he was a virgin when I first met him.
I was very attracted to two people. One I had zero spark with when we kissed and the other I had a huge spark with. Didn't even know that kind of chemistry existed.
I had never experienced the fireworks or the moment for a long, I still enjoyed kissing, loved it, then I kissed my now boyfriend, and everything changed (now I'm a believer lol, anybody?) The first time that boys lips met mine I couldn't believe it. I knew he was who I wanted. After a year and a half my heart still flutters, sometimes the kiss is so intoxicating it makes me dizzy.
I find that i always get that spark, if the person is a good kisser, but that doesn’t mean that they good/right for me - so I mostly think it’s about experience. So I just rely on how I feel about the person, based on their personality:)
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