If you don’t feel sparks when you first kiss someone do you still hang out with this person?

[danii363]

Yes

No, I stop seeing him/her

[yogagirl777]

Depends on how long you've been seeing this person. If it was just a first date I would give it another shot (maybe one or two more) to see if you can find something in common. If this is a guy you've been seeing for four or five dates and still no desire to kiss them, I would let them go. Also since you're asking the question, it seems like you must like the guy but not feel any physical attraction to him yet. For women often we need mental attraction first in order to have physical attraction so a date or two more could build the connection that you are looking for

[Charlotte0204]

I didn't feel sparks when I first kissed the guy I loved. Still loved him dearly. I felt a connection but I don't really understand what they mean by sparks tbh.

[Dause]

Sparks are not supposed to come from physical interactions in the first place? Plus, sparks just let you down when you find that person's personality is like a bucket of cold water pouring on your head. Of course if you consistently aren't attracted or don't feel enjoyment from any interactions over a decent period of time, I think it would be best to move on still.

[boggboss]

Kissing ain't like in the movies lol it's not fireworks and explosions

[danii363]

But must exist a chemistry

[boggboss]

Yes yes ofc obviously there are bad kisses but I mean do t expect it to be like the movies or books many people spend years chasing things that don't exist

[Unit1]

Ahhh, the movies and chick-flicks manipulating the women to require them to need to feel "the spark" in order to enter a relationship. Guys, you better become welders if you want these women*.

www.weldingschool.com/.../certified-welder.jpg

* You most likely don't want *these* women.

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Fortunately the poll results look good and realistic!

[FlutteringFeelings]

A kiss is supposed to feel magical. If I’m into someone the moment their in my presence I already feel the sparks so if a kiss doesn’t turn you on than waste no time with that person.

[SirRexington]

I might give it time to grow a little more but if I kiss someone I already have feelings. So if I don't feel anything it probably means the feelings are superficial and that we are wasting each others time.

[smiglii]

If you like him because of himself, like you want to be with him and you miss him when he's not with you then you should be with him and it doesn't matter. But if you're with him just because you don't have boyfriend and you want to try, then I think then you should be with him and see if you like him and feel comfortable with him. If not then just break up.

[That1tallguy]

Never felt sparks or what you call butterflies. kisses dont really feel special to me it's just a kiss

[Ceramic_bloke]

If the mood is wrong sometimes there's no spark. That doesn't mean the person is bad or anything of that ilk.

[SaltyBooze]

this whole sparks on the first kiss only comes from movies.

[Anonymous]

Yes still hang-out with the person as FRIENDS. And tell him/her that you want to be friends but not in a relationship with that person.

Personally, when I don't feel sparks I know it isn't gonna work.

[lazermazer]

Frankly, the girl whom i will kiss must make me crazy because that’s what I want in relationship.
It’s an indication that you just don’t have that thing.
However , for hookups, don’t care lol.

[SonofGod1995]

In my opinion you should feel the sparks before the kiss. Otherwise why would you choose to taste microbes from other person. s mouth?

[SkittleMayn]

Way to put it in gruesome detail.

[naughty_cat]

Yes.,. Cuz sometimes kissing is just a normal reaction and you don't have to feel something.,.

[lernulo]

I dont think things are White or Black, and may be Im not ready at that moment to feel it, or her.
There must be more things.
Furthermore, may be we become friends

[nothin134]

Sometimes the spark comes after you get to know someone

[chrisbigman]

Sure. You can still hang out with them. I don't see why not. As for the romantic relationship, that may be a different answer.

[DD1994]

Usually if I don't... I'll try giving him head if that doesn't work then it's over... no chemistry

[Syrian_survivor]

I wouldn't kiss her if there weren't spark at first

[Dark93]

Sparks only comes from movies.
Just follow your gut

[Moonchild714]

First kiss omcan often be awkward.

[wonderwoman1994]

It only exists in fairy tales

[LawShark]

You don't need to have a sparky kiss to fuck them.