Guys: What are you thinking when you hold hands with your date during a movie?

[Anonymous]

Guys: What are you thinking when you hold hands with your date during a movie?

[SuperManiac]

"I wonder what I can get away with doing next." Maybe something like that. It's difficult for me because I avoided movie dates like the plague. I prefer to connect the physical moves to the emotional connection and laughter from us talking so that it's like laughter or a moment of significant empathy for each other becomes the cue to do things like hold hands and kiss. If I was in a movie holding hands with a girl though, I'd probably be thinking something like that: "I wonder what I can get away with doing next."

[SuperManiac]

"Can I start rubbing her thigh? Put my arm around her shoulder?" Things like this.

[SuperManiac]

Probably go for the thigh, very carefully at first, and maybe just resting my hand there before I begin rubbing.

[SuperManiac]

Well, it depends on what she was wearing. I was thinking skirt. If jeans maybe arm around shoulder.

[SuperManiac]

The point of rubbing the thigh is to work into the skirt if she's wearing one and try to stimulate there. Then it becomes a segway for a kiss -- but of very carefully, giving her plenty of chances to refuse. Well, I sound a bit evil but it's like I can't be connecting to a girl deeply if we're looking at a screen and can't talk -- my former night club type of style comes out there and becomes more purely sexual. I really don't like movie dates.

[SuperManiac]

Anyway, that'd be like my thoughts out loud. They would get predominantly sexual in the theater, and I'd be wondering what I can do next.

[WCBD4U]

The beginning of physical touching.