Would you date a virgin guy/girl?

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Tiffany_Taylor_Made · Accepted Answer

Yes, I would most certainly date a guy that is a virgin. Everybody has to start somewhere. Some might say that they wouldn't want a virgin because they want a man that automatically knows how to please them right off the bat. I disagree. Dating a virgin has its advantages. Even experienced guys might not be that good at pleasing you and virgins are more likely to listen to you so that they can learn. Teaching an inexperienced guy exactly how to satisfy me has been a turn on for me for a long time. I love to roleplay and when having sex with a virgin, I prefer to take on the role of a teacher giving him lessons. Whenever I was in a relationship with a virgin, my goal was always to make his very first sexual experience something worthwhile.

Alice2398 · Accepted Answer

Yes my boyfriend lost his virginity to me at 26 and I lost my to him too. I think we were both so relieved to be each others first, we were already so in love before we did it and it meant something special to both of us. It really created a special bond between us it wasn't just seedy hookup.

Before I even met my boyfriend i was hoping to date a fellow virgin, I really didn't want to date a guy who'd slept around and could possibly hurt me.

I know a lot of people assume having sex with a virgin will be bad but you just need patience, it might take a while but a lot of guidance and communication will help in the long run.

JackSmy · Accepted Answer

I have, and they maybe need a lot more attention, and close connection. Sometimes they think they are ready, but not, so just patience, and understanding, caring, and just cuddling, and relaxing, as it isn't that important, just now, and something that should be special, and worth waiting for.
They take more time, but it is good time, and getting closer, and cuddling, and just relaxing with each other, and making her feel good about herself, and that she is worth waiting for.

Unit1 · Accepted Answer

Sure, why not.

Something tells me the hook up culture became so popular in the past years, that after it's "consequences" of STD distribution and single parenthood caused being a virgin is "in" again 🤔 Perhaps it's a cycle? First promiscuity is "in", then virginity is "in", then again it repeats like that. But I am not very sure of that myself 😀

ragequeen · Answer

Yes, it's not a deal breaker. However, I am actually glad that my boyfriend is experienced because it makes our sex life more interesting, enjoyable and fun.

aWes0MeNeSs · Answer

Of course! I'm also a virgin, so to me it would be a plus.

mrfoox · Answer

Huh, uncommon to see such an pull with an majority of people agreeing...  But yes, I would. I haven't slept with a guy yet myself so it would be a learning experience I suppose

ElissaDido · Answer

Virgin men are my preference by far.

nomadia · Answer

Being a virgin wouldn't be a dealbreaker but it can also indicate a lot of things. Pros- shows the person has morals and standards, strength of character, honesty (if u know means they told u), may show decisiveness (being a virgin by choice is not easy in today's society), determination, abstinent (50/50 since it can be a bad thing), having standards
Cons- lacking confidence, poor interpersonal skills, timid, reserved, difficult to get close to, may mean they have something communicable (like being born with an incurable STD), may mean they were abused and has intimacy issues, may mean they have terrible interpersonal skills thus relationships never reach to intimacy stage, they may have too high standards for potential partners
There are both pros and cons to this but we owe it to ourselves to see where it goes cuz u never know where u will find love.

Anonymous · Answer

It depends on their attitude really... Im not a virgin, but i dated quite a few virgin guys... Some are the really shy kind, some are eager to try and experience things, i am patient and I love guiding my partner and take a "teachers" role... So it's not a problem... My last partener tho was very cocky.. He insisted to be dominant and in control even if he didn't really knew what he was doing, he wouldn't accept any criticism and ended up hurting me multiple times... We didn't even had sex, as he would back off whenever i would initiate it he had his own reasons but the intimacy was really off he was either distant and cold either too aggressive... My current boyfriend is also a virgin, but he is much more open to communicating with me... We just recently started dating so we didn't had sex yet, were taking it step by step... But he is more than willing to let me be in charge and he's asking questions... The chemistry is amazing and honestly i can't wait to get to it

Anonymous · Answer

My boyfriend was my first and I was also his first so we were double virgins meaning super duper new to everything. We were both pretty new to anything within relationships so we just googled everything all the time "how to cuddle" how to kiss" how to have sex". I know it sounds really dumb but we just didn't wanna ruin it for each other. If I didn't have him and I were to find a guy who's a virgin I could be the support me and my boyfriend didn't have, and I like that. To me it doesn't matter as long as I love the person it's fine.

ohshee · Answer

Yes for sure and its because one day when she wants to do it I want to touch her seduce her every slow soft gentle way to melt her so she loves it,, I remember my first time and second and 3rd and I sucked I made it all about me in a lot of ways hurried and rushed and from those 3 times I have learnt so much and all of it is good

Apple1996 · Answer

Even tho I like the idea of being with a virgin I dont think I could anymore. I'm currently in a realtionship and we both lots our virginity to eachother and that was my ideal situation but if I were to date again I prefer someone on the same level as me

Anonymous · Answer

Non virgin men who say they only would marry innocent virgin girls end up cheating because they can't handle an inexperienced girl or these girls can't fulfill their wishes or dont want to fullfill their sexual preferences. That is why i only would marry a virgin guy and not a male whore. I personally think that virgin girls should only date virgin guys

btbc92 · Answer

ONLY if they're waiting for marriage. If not, the answer is no. Again, needs similar values. Not all virgins are created equal.

Sugar100 · Answer

I thought u had wait to marry at 30 til u have sex? I’m virgin and 22 as I never had boyfriend. I can’t get boyfriend as men only sex only. I want taste dating as I always saw bfs going to mall
Zoo eat meet parents weekly nonstop with girl.
It’s still my dream taste as even tho eveyone tastes it at 15 or 18 or 20. I’ll prob stay virgin as men don’t want girlfriend only sex.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm a virgin myself, and I'd prefer dating a guy who is also a virgin if I'm honest.
I've noticed that I really hate it when there is a big difference in the level of experience someone has had sexually and relationship-wise.

NavyVelvet · Answer

Lol, the people in the photo do not look like virgins.

No, I wouldn't. I once dated a guy who was a virgin when we met and it was frustrating. He was always worried about his performance once we had sex and was a miserable person because he always thought he was doing it wrong.

Anoniemus · Answer

I used to say yes to virgin men until I learned that plenty of them want to lose it with anyone and then just want to rack up their body count. So now, I wouldn't go with a virgin man.

SeryCoola · Answer

Yes, because I am also a virgin and I think it would be very cute to be with a virgin girl. And when the time comes I hope to please her well, because it is said that the first time is not forgettable.

by the way, can I please DM you?

ECityGirl89 · Answer

My recent ex was a virgin when I first met him. It was hard at first but when he told me I didn’t judge him for being one. The sex got better along the way. I’ve dated a few virgins in the past. But it doesn’t bother me.

Lilly705 · Answer

1000% yes. Honestly, I'm a firm believer that sex should be for that special person when you're married. Not worth hooking up and literally giving a piece of yourself away everytime to someone that you know you're not deciding to commit to for the rest of your life. 🤷🏿‍♀️

SirRexington · Answer

I'm practically a second virgin so yes. But I'd feel bad because it isn't my first time but it is theirs.

Virgins should lose it to other virgins. But it's been so long for me I've essentially regained my v-card.

clumsyclown · Answer

In a relationship, it doesn't matter if the other one is virgin or not unless they are over their past. Virginity should not affect the relation between two people.

R_ūshī · Answer

Yeah, I would. Idm him being inexperienced.  Sex matters but what counts more is what they can bring into the relationship, emotionally and the connection that we have.

SjE78 · Answer

have done twice before, would do again... but only if we got on well, as with any other potential partner really...  doesn't matter if she's a virgin or not tbh

da_xecutioner · Answer

I’m not afraid to admit I’m a virgin... it would be good to date a virgin woman... but I find that women who aren’t virgins find out I am a virgin stay clear of me. None ask why... everyone has their reasons... mine is simply I’m afraid of STD’s and HIV... especially growing up in South Africa majority of my life.

thegirlfromthething · Answer

I would, depending on the reason he was a virgin, but I’d prefer a non-virgin. As someone with no experience I think it would be helpful if one of us knew what he was doing.

rudude · Answer

If I though a girl was attractive and interesting but a virgin, I might date her. I've deflowered virgins as old as thirty or so - and they were very grateful.

NYCstreetPhotog · Answer

Don't see why not, everyone needs a first time, it wouln Don't be the first time I've dated one, and wouldn't be the first time I've deflowered one aswell.

Commander_Red · Answer

Of course. I'm a virgin myself so as long as we love each other and are willing to try, that's what matters. Even if I weren't a virgin, I'd still date them. After all, sex isn't the end goal of a relationship.

Passinggas · Answer

Well, I am my current girlfriend's first and she recently moved in. I don’t think she is the leaving type; she owns a Winchester RR and is a good shot.

Eagle_93 · Answer

Yes of course I would date a virgin girl. That speaks very highly of her character if her virginity is by choice.

Raunch · Answer

I get to be the mind blower (literally and figuratively speaking) and I get to teach them everything. So absolutely!

LesterJester · Answer

No, because 98% of virgins are way outside my age bracket. The 2% who are in my age bracket (30s - 40s) must have some sort of complex.

DiscomfortZone · Answer

When I was in my early twenties? Perhaps. And don't pay attention to your survey, most guys here are so pathetically desperate they'd date any female with a pulse (pulse negotiable).

cavmanier · Answer

I don't see a big problem with a girl being a virgin. Some guys may not like that because they know they're going to get sex easily.

DWornock · Answer

How would you know if she is a virgin? If she is attractive, if she is 18 or older and especially is she is at least 20 years old, and tells you she is a virgin, much more likely than not she is lying.

Stan83 · Answer

At my age that means they are younger. And it’s impossible for me to date someone way younger.

Hannah_98 · Answer

Considering I’m a virgin as well, I would feel kinda hypocritical saying no to dating a virgin dude.

Debs1 · Answer

Always had a little fantasy of showing an inexperienced virgin guys the ropes

Levin · Answer

As long as she's not prudish, and she actually wants to have sex, then yes.

designer1 · Answer

I would but I’d also pray they’re not horrible at learning new things 🤦🏾‍♀️

Anonymous · Answer

Yes I would. Wouldn't ever date a non-virgin though, not even she's a supermodel (and yes, I'm just a medium-sized dude with a dad bod and spectacles). :P

broken_heart_at_48 · Answer

I'm probably a little old for this question but of course if I felt a connection I wouldn't hold it against her

derella21 · Answer

If a hot girl needed to gain her first time experience with me and chose me, I would love it. Normally virgin's are not good in bed and would be interesting to teach about pleasures

Anonymous · Answer

In my country teens generally remains virgin till marriage. I'm a virgin too, I have no non-virgin friend. What's wrong with being virgin? It's a good thing...

bdwantme · Answer

Hmmmm my ex was a virgin. Together 15 years I don't know but it's different knowing you are the only one...

AdvNewks · Answer

At the age of 36 I doubt I’d find a virgin around my age in the USA. But yeah I would. It’s what’s in the heart that matters anyway.

genericname85 · Answer

Depends. If they're down to fuck, yeah. Otherwise no. I'm not doing the waiting till marriage bullshit.

perislav85 · Answer

Why not. It's, in most cases, an irrelevant thing, but can be a sign of deep insecurity and maybe some of the complexes. In the end, if a person

NightOwl8801 · Answer

The only thing different is that she is a virgin, if I like her then I like her already. Her being a virgin means that she can wait until she's ready since it will be her first time

ACupOfFrosting · Answer

? Why exactly wouldn't you? It's not like you weren't a virgin once yourself

Dargil · Answer

Sure, but I would prefer to know if she expects any physical trauma.

humanearth · Answer

If they are in their 50s and still a virgin. Something has to be wrong with them

Anonymous · Answer

I would. There's no shame in not having slept around

nafkz19 · Answer

Here in my country men wants only virgin cuz if she isn't virgin she is not pure lol what a joke these people are. i have been dating non virgin girl and I am really happy.

free_bird69 · Answer

Never. Not at this age. For now, i would always prefer an experienced man.

Massageman · Answer

If I were single again, a virgin female, yes. Not a guy, virgin or not. ;- )

OddBeMe · Answer

I would be uncomfortable at my age. I think virgins should lose their together. Maybe cuz there’s too many pervs after pure girls.

Anonymous · Answer

I mean I'm a virgin and people still date me so yeah I would!

Anonymous · Answer

I am one so I would also much prefer my partner to be a virgin as well.

ivbnlknfru · Answer

Why not, your should not be focused on their virginity as much as to the person they are...

I_Am_Sazerac · Answer

Why wouldn't I? There's no shame in not having had sex or having had sex already.

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