Would you date a virgin guy/girl?

[lexi-02xx]

Yes

No

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

Yes, I would most certainly date a guy that is a virgin. Everybody has to start somewhere. Some might say that they wouldn't want a virgin because they want a man that automatically knows how to please them right off the bat. I disagree. Dating a virgin has its advantages. Even experienced guys might not be that good at pleasing you and virgins are more likely to listen to you so that they can learn. Teaching an inexperienced guy exactly how to satisfy me has been a turn on for me for a long time. I love to roleplay and when having sex with a virgin, I prefer to take on the role of a teacher giving him lessons. Whenever I was in a relationship with a virgin, my goal was always to make his very first sexual experience something worthwhile.

[Alice2398]

Yes my boyfriend lost his virginity to me at 26 and I lost my to him too. I think we were both so relieved to be each others first, we were already so in love before we did it and it meant something special to both of us. It really created a special bond between us it wasn't just seedy hookup.

Before I even met my boyfriend i was hoping to date a fellow virgin, I really didn't want to date a guy who'd slept around and could possibly hurt me.

I know a lot of people assume having sex with a virgin will be bad but you just need patience, it might take a while but a lot of guidance and communication will help in the long run.

[Robertcw]

This gives me dejavu for some reason, but also reading this gives me hope that 26 is not too old for someone your age -- which feels relieving.

[JackSmy]

I have, and they maybe need a lot more attention, and close connection. Sometimes they think they are ready, but not, so just patience, and understanding, caring, and just cuddling, and relaxing, as it isn't that important, just now, and something that should be special, and worth waiting for.
They take more time, but it is good time, and getting closer, and cuddling, and just relaxing with each other, and making her feel good about herself, and that she is worth waiting for.

[Unit1]

Sure, why not.

Something tells me the hook up culture became so popular in the past years, that after it's "consequences" of STD distribution and single parenthood caused being a virgin is "in" again 🤔 Perhaps it's a cycle? First promiscuity is "in", then virginity is "in", then again it repeats like that. But I am not very sure of that myself 😀

[ragequeen]

Yes, it's not a deal breaker. However, I am actually glad that my boyfriend is experienced because it makes our sex life more interesting, enjoyable and fun.

[Lovely_kh]

Yes, I do date Virgin girl

[daddyeatspuzzi666]

Yes I would and I have in the past an would do it again

[aWes0MeNeSs]

Of course! I'm also a virgin, so to me it would be a plus.

[mrfoox]

Huh, uncommon to see such an pull with an majority of people agreeing...
But yes, I would. I haven't slept with a guy yet myself so it would be a learning experience I suppose

[ElissaDido]

Virgin men are my preference by far.

[ivbnlknfru]

I understand

[Robertcw]

Really? 🤔

[ivbnlknfru]

Yes women like to know their man has not been around the block and still going. It's more reassuring that he was only with her, to many guys have unprotected sex with anyone and don't care...

[nomadia]

Being a virgin wouldn't be a dealbreaker but it can also indicate a lot of things. Pros- shows the person has morals and standards, strength of character, honesty (if u know means they told u), may show decisiveness (being a virgin by choice is not easy in today's society), determination, abstinent (50/50 since it can be a bad thing), having standards
Cons- lacking confidence, poor interpersonal skills, timid, reserved, difficult to get close to, may mean they have something communicable (like being born with an incurable STD), may mean they were abused and has intimacy issues, may mean they have terrible interpersonal skills thus relationships never reach to intimacy stage, they may have too high standards for potential partners
There are both pros and cons to this but we owe it to ourselves to see where it goes cuz u never know where u will find love.

[Anonymous]

It depends on their attitude really... Im not a virgin, but i dated quite a few virgin guys... Some are the really shy kind, some are eager to try and experience things, i am patient and I love guiding my partner and take a "teachers" role... So it's not a problem... My last partener tho was very cocky.. He insisted to be dominant and in control even if he didn't really knew what he was doing, he wouldn't accept any criticism and ended up hurting me multiple times... We didn't even had sex, as he would back off whenever i would initiate it he had his own reasons but the intimacy was really off he was either distant and cold either too aggressive... My current boyfriend is also a virgin, but he is much more open to communicating with me... We just recently started dating so we didn't had sex yet, were taking it step by step... But he is more than willing to let me be in charge and he's asking questions... The chemistry is amazing and honestly i can't wait to get to it

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend was my first and I was also his first so we were double virgins meaning super duper new to everything. We were both pretty new to anything within relationships so we just googled everything all the time "how to cuddle" how to kiss" how to have sex". I know it sounds really dumb but we just didn't wanna ruin it for each other. If I didn't have him and I were to find a guy who's a virgin I could be the support me and my boyfriend didn't have, and I like that. To me it doesn't matter as long as I love the person it's fine.

[ohshee]

Yes for sure and its because one day when she wants to do it I want to touch her seduce her every slow soft gentle way to melt her so she loves it,, I remember my first time and second and 3rd and I sucked I made it all about me in a lot of ways hurried and rushed and from those 3 times I have learnt so much and all of it is good

[Apple1996]

Even tho I like the idea of being with a virgin I dont think I could anymore. I'm currently in a realtionship and we both lots our virginity to eachother and that was my ideal situation but if I were to date again I prefer someone on the same level as me

[Chase7777]

That you even think that bullshit is relevant

[Apple1996]

@Chase7777 I dont really think it's a big deal. If I liked someone that was a virgin then yeah I'd date them but if I had a choice then I would choose someone that wasn't a virgin

[Anonymous]

Non virgin men who say they only would marry innocent virgin girls end up cheating because they can't handle an inexperienced girl or these girls can't fulfill their wishes or dont want to fullfill their sexual preferences. That is why i only would marry a virgin guy and not a male whore. I personally think that virgin girls should only date virgin guys

[glutendan]

Exactly, people in similar spots should pair up

[btbc92]

ONLY if they're waiting for marriage. If not, the answer is no. Again, needs similar values. Not all virgins are created equal.

[Sugar100]

I thought u had wait to marry at 30 til u have sex? I’m virgin and 22 as I never had boyfriend. I can’t get boyfriend as men only sex only. I want taste dating as I always saw bfs going to mall
Zoo eat meet parents weekly nonstop with girl.
It’s still my dream taste as even tho eveyone tastes it at 15 or 18 or 20. I’ll prob stay virgin as men don’t want girlfriend only sex.

[Anonymous]

I'm a virgin myself, and I'd prefer dating a guy who is also a virgin if I'm honest.
I've noticed that I really hate it when there is a big difference in the level of experience someone has had sexually and relationship-wise.

[Eagle_93]

That's a good point.

I once told a friend of mine, I was going to wait for the right girl before I lost my virginity, that way she and I could learn together.

[NavyVelvet]

Lol, the people in the photo do not look like virgins.

No, I wouldn't. I once dated a guy who was a virgin when we met and it was frustrating. He was always worried about his performance once we had sex and was a miserable person because he always thought he was doing it wrong.

[Anoniemus]

I used to say yes to virgin men until I learned that plenty of them want to lose it with anyone and then just want to rack up their body count. So now, I wouldn't go with a virgin man.

[dontknow12]

How is that worse than a non virgin man who does the same thing?

[Anoniemus]

The non virgin man doesn’t need to lose his virginity firstly.

Secondly, many men are upfront about only wanting sex and will convey that message to the woman. Some aren’t and they are foul.

But virgin men? Plenty of them feel that they need to lose it to gain some sort of social status and don’t want to settle for one. I’ve heard plenty say this. They’re using a woman for a base need and throwing her away.

[dontknow12]

I get you. But whether virgin or non virgin it's pretty shitty either way.

[Anoniemus]

Yeah. It is.

[SeryCoola]

Yes, because I am also a virgin and I think it would be very cute to be with a virgin girl. And when the time comes I hope to please her well, because it is said that the first time is not forgettable.

by the way, can I please DM you?

[ECityGirl89]

My recent ex was a virgin when I first met him. It was hard at first but when he told me I didn’t judge him for being one. The sex got better along the way. I’ve dated a few virgins in the past. But it doesn’t bother me.

[Lilly705]

1000% yes. Honestly, I'm a firm believer that sex should be for that special person when you're married. Not worth hooking up and literally giving a piece of yourself away everytime to someone that you know you're not deciding to commit to for the rest of your life. 🤷🏿‍♀️

[Lilly705]

Also, just because someone hooks up that much, that doesn't make them damaged goods. They're still people and deserve to have someone special. Just depends on how they've changed or what made them finally want to commit to their new partner. 🤷🏿‍♀️

[SirRexington]

I'm practically a second virgin so yes. But I'd feel bad because it isn't my first time but it is theirs.

Virgins should lose it to other virgins. But it's been so long for me I've essentially regained my v-card.

[clumsyclown]

In a relationship, it doesn't matter if the other one is virgin or not unless they are over their past. Virginity should not affect the relation between two people.