Are women only attracted to the top 10% of men?

[Anonymous]

[btbc92]

NO. What is this so-called 10%? Girls want men who are STABLE, will be and desire to be STABLE if he isn't already. If all men had provisions, willing to marry, not have sex before marriage, or doing porn, masturbation, etc, we would have a lot more stability, marriages, and healthy families and relationships. Too many people are selfish, and because of that, a lot of women retaliate and play the same game. Women these days, at least the modern women are only trying to get a leg up since we're the ones who tend to be economically at a disadvantage the most. Men SUFFER economically because of his poor choices not only financially, not PLANNING financially to have a family, take care of himself and or another person, AND often don't want to grow CAREER WISE. This kind of inability and unwillingness is why so many women don't want a guy who will and willingly choose to do NOTHING. Why most women choose independent living and pursuing careers because sadly a lot don't want to. Most don't even want to pursue a college degree or at least certification! Think they don't need to. Yet the opportunities are THERE. And they WASTE it. So much potential wasted. And this my pet-peeve and a major disappointment for me as a woman.

I cannot speak for other women who just want to be golddiggers, live like a princess, high life, etc and don't want to OFFER anybody anything in RETURN. I am talking about people who don't mind being taken care of by a man, do, BUT is WILLING to do her PART as well, even if she cannot provide that financially. But also have a willingness to work if possible and or go back to school.

[DanDavid]

Well I don't genuinely know what would make you top 10%... Is it looks-wise? Money? Power? A combination of these factors?

Doesn't seem like something easily measurable, nor are women's preferences linear, they all are attracted to different things.

If you look up some studies made on Tinder then it's less than 10% but that's just a matter of supply and demand. Too many men for not as many women, therefore men usually go for a spread approach (if they want to match anyone at all), while women get to pick and choose from a huge amount of candidates therefore choosing the most attractive ones.

Now, dating apps are not the real world, nor do they emulate real social interaction in a world where population demographics usually have a close 50/50 split between men and women.

In real life, other factors come into play aside from the first impression a short bio and a few pictures can give you.

Still, of course the men with the best combination of traits will be attractive to more women, but for example, a guy who from your perspective might be ugly, but is funny, caring and mature/stable could still very often end up with a girl who, again from your perspective, is "out of his league".

I do feel like dating apps have biased some people's perception of their self-worth or "market value".

I would say don't think too much about it and try not to under or over value yourself, you will seem either unconfident or pretentious.

[Gatman34]

It’s actually 5 percent. That’s why I sit. Understand why guys still chase women. Guys need to show women that we don’t want them and guys need to quit being so desperate. Women are so picky because they know they can be because of all the desperate guys. Once guys quit putting women on pedestals things will change but can guys go a day without chasing and being desperate. If you look at the men on a gag the answer is no too many pathetic losers

[Anonymous]

maybe a lot of the average men , really aren't that desirable anymore , they don't have enough money , looks aren't anything special , most of the jobs they hold don't come with any status , they don't have a large presence on social media if any presence.

unless the girl just wants to get married and live in her hometown and doesn't really care about the other stuff

[Effably]

Don't be silly. Girls are only into the top 2% or so. However the script-flip is: It is their idea of the top 2%. And you can very well be in it with or without being a 6'++ model with perfect bone structure, having inherited a trust fund from your parents and having gone to Harvard just for funsies, not to mentiom have a 12" member.

Never got the obsession with this. If you're interesting to someone then looks be damned, they will want more.

[Browneye57]

Well, it's a little more broad, but yes.
80% of women are chasing the top 15% of guys. The rest of everybody else is standing on the sidelines waiting for something to happen.
There's more to it, but this is the gist of it.

If you're going to play the game, play it to win.

[SuperManiac]

I don't know. But that would include me if so. I am awesome! Probably I am not top 10%. Maybe girls like top 12%, you know. I am top 12% I am awesome!

[Anonymous]

More like the top 20%, but yes, that is what I have seen in my experience.

[The_man_whol_aughs]

Yes they do and I don't it's even 10 percent , I believe it's only 5 percent or below

[Astarlessnightsky]

No.
Which top 10% do you even mean.

[HedwigInABox]

Only If she ist also Part of the 10%

[Anonymous]

who are the top 10%?