Why would you string a girl along?

[Anonymous]

neither are cheating there’s no other women lined up but you know you don’t want to be with her and relationship not last ur basically over her hardly have sex just two times a week and the next girl u meet may be the one

[Anonymous]

Well of something does happen you won't be single or in a pinch too long (you'll already have the groundwork laid out) and you can essentially 'switch' to the new person without any of that getting to know you junk. Its already done.

[bamesjond0069]

Um because sex? This is why girls should wait to have sex with a man until she knows its serious.

[VIVANT]

Nope. Doesn’t prove a thing.

She can be The “ new one” whilst he stays with the old one...

... having sex with “the old one” then switch to the “new one “ after a few months when she thinks he’s” serious” Bc it seems he waited -which he really didn’t.

.. them do the exact same thing with the next...

Waiting proves nothing, all it does is Keeps the woman from enjoying sex.

[bamesjond0069]

@VIVANT um so you wouldn't know if your boyfriend was cheating on you for months? Smh. And most guys wouldn't cheat. You must like scumbags.

[VIVANT]

I am responding to you saying waiting months ensures it’s serious. It doesn’t.

[VIVANT]

People even cheat on marriages without being discovered, its not hard to do. No one is together 24/7

[bamesjond0069]

@VIVANT well if you assume everyone cheats why would you want to be in a relationship? You should like if you get stringed along for sex.

[VIVANT]

This is silly. I never said everyone cheers and nothing I write indicates that. What I said is waiting months to have sex doesn’t prove a person is serious. A serious person is serious whether you have sex right away or wait years. It doesn’t prove a thing to wait. Guys who like the chase , will wait just to have sex , then move on once they get it. Doesn’t matter how long. They can have sex with others while they “ wait”. I don’t think this is majority but it doesn’t matter in any particular case that it happens that it wasn’t a majority.

A guy who waits is serious and isn’t serious. Depends on The guy.

And a guy who is serious can also naturally lose interest and waiting for sex doesn’t change that.

[bamesjond0069]

@VIVANT cheating has nothing to do with it. And you are assuming they are cheating. Most people dont cheat especially when you first start dating. Thats just psycho to even think that. Yeah i mean shit guys can get married just to hit it and quit so dont wait for marriage. Smh. That is just as retarded as assuming if you dont fuck right away your getting cheated on.

[nerdyone]

VIVANT preach it girl!

[bamesjond0069]

@nerdyone y'all are so wrong. Literally if you ever heard guys talk to each other we literally dump girls we liked because they put out too soon. If a guy sticks around he is more likely to be serious. If you just fuck right away even guys who would have been serious will never consider you more than a hookup. Smh.

[Nivi777]

No never. It's wrong rather be honest then and there. Don't waste someone time. They have feelings and emotions just like you and have the right to be told straight up.

[seniorghostman]

Nope. I’d rather end it and be dolo. No need to be in somebody face that I don’t want.

[Anonymous]

Maybe just Incase something doesn’t come alone their the back up.

[Prime_Sol]

If she's still useful, no reason to throw her out.

[Mindwipe]

Said perfectly.

[Stacie3]

Unfortunately this happens for both men and women.. they will give and give and it will never be enough.. their heart will be broken and the next relationship they have tends to suffer for it

[Dchrls78104]

Why would I? I don't even like G-strings on girls!

[Anonymous]

Easy sex

[Anonymous]

Just for the sex.