Second date at his house, will he be expecting sex?

[Anonymous]

Was invited to my date’s house and to watch a movie and maybe stay overnight. Does this mean he’ll be expecting sex?

[nachosaresexy]

The watching a movie part is... ehhh maybe/maybe not, just depends on the vibe you're getting from him from the first date.

But the "maybe stay overnight" part? Like how did that even come up? Maybe you're thinking of the sleepovers you had with your friends but this is a different situation.

[OlderAndWiser]

Stay overnight and you wonder if he might be expecting sex? Do you think of yourself as naive?

[Asker]

Maybe I am

[OlderAndWiser]

Do you want to have sex with this guy now?

[Asker]

Not sure

[OlderAndWiser]

What is your goal with this guy? Casual sex? Hoping for LTR?

[Asker]

Guess i'm hoping for something long term

[OlderAndWiser]

Does getting in bed with him on a second date make you look like girlfriend material? Or fuckbuddy material?

[Asker]

I get your point

[mrfoox]

Depending on the guy. Maybe he'd expect it, maybe he would just be pleased if you would offer it.
In the end, be sure to be upfront about what you're ready for and not. Don't ever let him get his way with you if you're not fully comfortable or prepared

[MannySimms]

Maybe he just wants to make YOU cum. I always concentrated on my partner rather than myself. You never know. Don't you enjoy sex?

[Mister_E_Alaska]

Yeah. He probably wants sex. Me at 19-25 would want sex. BUT. It wouldn't be assumed. If she said no I'd roll over and go to sleep. You get to consent. Even if its assumed.

[mattdzz]

I don't know how stupid you are, but Yes, you're going to his house to watch a movie/ stay over night. I don't know who wouldn't be expecting sex.

[ecfresh]

Yes, that means he wants sex. Why do that on your 2nd date?

[Asker]

Never really dated before so I don’t know the etiquette

[ecfresh]

You are allowed to suggest meeting somewhere else in public. The fact that it’s his place and a suggestion of overnight makes it clear he wants sex. If you don’t, then don’t accept those plans

[wulibuli]

Why wouldn't she want it.

[ecfresh]

It’s only date #2, she doesn’t really know much about him yet. It’s better to wait until they have more trust and are in a committed relationship

[wulibuli]

You dont need a relationship for sex.

[ecfresh]

Why do you have sex, what do you get out of it?

[Avicenna]

Definitely. A second date is usually too early for that.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the guy and the situation, but I would assume that he DOES expect sex. So that is something that you'd want to clarify with him.

[Pipeliner87]

Laugh, hahaha. Depends what kind of guy. I have lots of girls come over but I don't bang them. We have fun and we enjoy one another company.

[clampfan101]

Not necessarily. I had fun with a perfectly casual movie date at my house.

[msss98]

Sure it is, but u don't have to

[_food_lover234]

if its only the second date, id say yes.

[0112358]

Yes.

what do you want?

[layla1234]

Yes he wants sex

[beatcoock]

Just go on with the flow

[smrh1999]

Yes he dose

[spartansoul]

I guess he will

[War1999]

Yes and no

[jaryia]

I think so