I tried to make this girl who rejected me jealous. Now she’s blocked me and might be dating my friend/colleague. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

I wanted a side relationship with this girl, who seemed like me (being that I’m already in a long-term relationship), but she said that we were just friends. To get back at her for friendzoning me, I’ve been trying to make her jealous. Now she’s blocked my number and on IG and it seems like her and my friend/colleague might have something going on. My friend claims that nothing is going on, but I don’t believe him.

I thought that her blocking me was immature and petty (although I didn’t expect any better from a 26 year old), but her going after my friend is spiteful. It’s like they’re dating just to get under my skin.

What should I do?

[cloud9vortex1234]

If I was that woman then I wouldn't think highly of you since your plan was to use her on the side. She's trying to make it clear that she's not interested. She wants you to feel discomfort because of what your doing and this is her way of showing it. If she is just using your friend then your really no better then she is.

[djmzes]

Simple

[Asker]

This doesn’t answer the question.

[djmzes]

I did
First of all move on. She rejects you. Whether it is a good thing or bad, only time will say it

Secondly you want to make her jealous shows you are immature. Just leave it and let her live the life she choose.

[djmzes]

Go ur own way and make your own path.

[Asker]

I’m immature? She rejected me then got jealous when she saw me with my girlfriend. She blocked me for no reason. Then she is dating my friend to get under my skin. She’s the immature one.

[djmzes]

Forget about her and live your life with your girlfriend. Why you have care. It will bring you nothing good. Only loss of time and hate and do stupid things. She blocked you good for your relationship she will not interfere between you and your girlfriend

[AzureGirl]

Maybe stick to your actual relationship and stop being childish and a cheating ass? Seriously if you’re that obsessed over some girl that isn’t even yours then leave your girlfriend. She deserves better.

[Asker]

I’m childish? She rejects me then gets jealous of my relationship. Yet I’m the childish one.

[AzureGirl]

And you’re apparently in your late thirties and actively looking to cheat. That’s childish

[outside_Toronto]

I call bullshit on your age

[Asker]

Why?

[Asker]

And can you just answer the question?

[outside_Toronto]

You should walk away and grow tf up

[Steve37]

Wtf are you doing acting like a teenager? Grow tf up and be a man.