Why is it so hard to attract women?

[ALewis30]

They're picky

The me too movement

other reasons

[englisc]

It's because the things men are taught about women and how to attract them are all wrong, and for some reason even if you tell those guys how to actually attract them they can't snap out of the old mindset.

[Klitschko88]

Women are attracted to the top 5-10% of men, even very average ot below average women. So the average guy struggles to find a partner.

[DizzyDesii]

You gotta be attractive to attract others. Do you feel you look and act attractive? Thats step one

[Anonymous]

It is not hard at all for a lot of men. You must be doing something wrong.

[Anonymous]

Men’s “Survival Needs”: Production, Reproduction = Survival.

Women’s “Survival Needs”: being protected, providership, Reproduction = Survival.

So our sexual selection process—and thus our attraction process—is dictated
by our survival goals, whether you believe in evolution or God’s design for us.

And as you can see, women have more “survival goals” or needs than men do. Men were designed to essentially be able to produce and provide on their own, and can protect themselves.

Whereaswomen were designed to need the man for those things. This is why women are a bit more complicated and harder to attract, seduce than men are.

[Disguise]

Is it?

Sometimes you are very hungry & your mind trick your hunger for something else.

[Dchrls78104]

I voted for the first one; it's the truth that I have witnessed.

[Rat_Boy]

It's hard to fish with no bait