Why don't people have empathy for the Incels (forever alone men)?

[anon324]

Your son could be one, just by being born a man:
-most women don't approach men, I'm not just talking about ugly or antisocial men , you can find men who say no one has ever approached them.
-Men don't have thousands of matches in tinder easily, they can't have an ego drive or be ultra-selective like women.
-Men are judged by height, women are not judged by being short or tall. Why would they improve their attractiveness or try it if women don't want men shorter than them.

Men are judged more harshly than women, women can date or marry up, a short woman with problems in her genitals can date a tall man with a higher income, can a short man with a micropenis have tall or rich women interested? Look at the suggar daddies (it doesn't always have to be sexual) or findommes, or something simpler, a simple lawyer or businessman

[JohnPrestwick]

There are two reasons why incel forums have a terrible reputation.

The first is that they promote dangerous myths, such as that a man can only be happy if he gets laid. It does not. Or that lonely men are entitled to sex. They do not. Or that women won't date a man who's short, not rich or not conventionally attractive. They often do.

These are terrible messages to send to lonely young men. They should focus on building up their social life and confidence, which is by far the best way to be attractive.

The second is the sheer nasty atmosphere of incel forums, how there is so much hatred, self-loathing and talk of violence. I have no idea what percentage of users engage in this, but according to reports, it dominated the atmosphere.

[MackToday]

I'm a voluntary celibate / volcel why should I have sympathy it seems fine to me.

[MzAsh]

I would teach my son to take care of his health and appearance. To be well educated, save up for a decent car, and work towards a good career that he’s happy doing.

I’d teach him how to respect, honor, communicate with, and court women properly.

My son’s father and I would instill good values and a good work ethic in him. We’d want him to be strong and confident. Never entitled and never to think that the world owes him anything.

If we do our job right as parents, our son wouldn’t be an incel.

[Anonymous]

Because you don’t deserve it. When your movement advocates women being sex slaves, that they should be raped or made to have sex when they don’t want to, that women are such bitches because they won’t hop on your dick etc.

[jeffjeffjeffjeffjeff]

They don't deserve empathy if they haven't been wronged. They often haven't.