Why is there such a lack of compassion towards men in America?

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Exterminatore · Accepted Answer

Because men are not one of the many favorite special victim groups designated by liberals and woke folk.

In the special victims group:
Blacks, Hispanics, Asians, Arabs, Indians, indigenous peoples, women, Muslims, illegal immigrants and anyone in the LGBTQ+ movement. According to liberals and woke folk these people have been oppressed and done wrong. Not in the near or distant past but currently.

Not in the group:
White straight Christian men. These people are the oppressors according to liberals and woke folk. No sympathy for them. No breaks for them and all of them can go straight to Hell when they die.

Another reason is liberals and woke folk hate America. They want to fundamentally change it. First they must break it down. Then rebuild it as they see fit. One tool for its destruction is to destroy the nuclear family. The nuclear family is the building blocks of a country. Destroy it and you can nearly destroy the country by that alone. Best way to do that is empower women and disempower men. Then continually tell women they are oppressed when they are not. Let the woman be the head of the house and make a situation where the natural desire of women to be men and have the place of men is peeked. Then step back and watch the whole thing unravel itself. Now that she’s equal, she has just as much right to call the shots in the house. Never mind she reasons emotionally. Never mind matriarchal societies fail miserably. Never mind they are different then men and not suited to be the head of the house as they reason emotionally and relationally, they should have equal say and that’s just enough room for women to be the head. After all, they’re equal and no man can tell them to not spend all the families savings on shoes and purses. No man can tell them what to do. Bear in mind this is the same sex that allows losers to impregnate them, then are surprised when they don’t say and then want welfare money all while saying their strong and independent.

So men have been labeled the oppressors and all honor stripped from them. They are now beasts of burden. A pack animal to serve the special victims stated above. A commodity to simply be used and discarded when done with. Like a piece of toilet paper. We have continually sent the message men have no value and are fundamentally evil. They oppress women. They are the haves and nearly everyone else the have nots so to use and abuse them is fine. Disregarding the ever increasing animosity to them is fine. Certainly no time or money should be spent on their issues and no care to their problems.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It is not just in America, but the whole of the western world a lack of compassion towards men there is virtually no support out there for men we are seen as disposable/invisible, there is not the safety net out there for us that there is for women.

As men we’re constantly told by the Main Stream Media and women that we’re 'trash' and a 'rapist' and portrayed in tv programs as a bumbling fool who has to be rescued by a smart strong woman, is it any wonder that men are withdrawing from society?

People call me a monster or cold hearted when I am able to 100% ignore a female's tears/anger.

People call me threatening, scary, or hateful when I challenge a point against females passionately.

People wonder why I stopped caring about the emotions of others; it is because they never did care about mine.

I will treat a person as I would any other, the same as I would treat a male.

Consider this;

By every metric, men have it worse off. We’re more likely to get raped if you include prison. We’re more likely to be assaulted. We’re more likely to die. We’re more likely to commit suicide.

Men are 97% of combat fatalities. Men pay 97% of Alimony. Men make up 94% of work suicides. Men make up 93% of work fatalities. Men make up 81% of all war deaths. Men lose custody in 84% of divorces. 80% of all suicides are men. 77% of homicide victims are men. 89% of men will be the victim of at least one violent crime. Men are over twice as victimized by strangers as women. Men are 165% more likely to be convicted than women. Men get 63% longer sentences than women for the same crime.

Court bias against men is at least 6 times bigger than racial bias. Males are discriminated against in school and universities. Boys face vastly more corporal punishment than girls. 60-80% of the homeless are men.

Women’s cancers receive 15 times more funding than men’s. At least 10% of fathers are victims of paternity fraud. One third of all fathers in the USA have lost custody of children; most are expected to pay for this.

And with all this People are still wondering why men are giving up on marriage and 'civilised' society and dropping off the grid at an increasing rate.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

We have lost patience in this life ( global pandemic was to speed it up they really can’t wait ) it has nothing to do with men women 😟💜and also we have become weak as a generation. We can’t no longer fight for our rights because the way how they have locked us up into rent , loans , bills , COdison , stupid car insurances , social norms as lates iphone to fry your brain at night , GAS prices going high for NO reason ~ somehow Ukraine who supports the world with grain goes into war ‘ Ukraine is the world 4th largest country in the WORLD supporting grain! like unless you are an idiot and can’t see it !! check to see if you have eye glaucoma cuz brother I don't know what else to say.

Feminism played a role too. It’s all scripted. What’s sad is that us the players some of us take this script so serious to the T T T !

It’s all a game ~ you know Super Mario game all his “life series “ all his fight was to save Princess Peach~ 🥺😌 be like super Mario follow your biological intuition don’t fall into lies and scripts

desperatelyhungry · Accepted Answer

Listen. Some men are Great and it’s a-shame the bad ones give bad names to the good ones, but men are typically the ones beating the women they love to death, or close to it, stalking, mass shootings, rapes, sexual assault. Not all men do these things, but a large percentage of the ones who do are men. You hear constantly about sexual trafficking, you know who usually does it or had something to do with it? Men. You know who are usually pedophiles? Men. Again, sorry to those of y’all that are just good guys, but a lot of men fucking suck and are scary and you can’t fucking trust them.

RiseofArtemis · Answer

Simple answer Feminism is the reason why america seems to hate men like no one else. Laws have been specifically made to destroy white or black men because they are seen as evil and reason of the patriarchy. I can only laugh at people who claim to be feminists but ultimately in 90% of the cases the out themselves as straight up man haters just seconds later.

They claim women don't get paid as much as men but when you tell them both earn 25 dollars an hour (Same contract) and that men usually work overtime while women have a period every month which causes some to be unable to work then the difference in end pay is instead of a perfectly split 50/50 in wage to 60/40 or even more of a difference.

Women can't compete with men in the real world workforce without either destroying their body by throwing in meds that destroy their natural period or by completely ignoring anything that their natural brain wants. (A family and being a mother) Feminists today actually hate themselves and they throw that anger out on men as men are better then them and they want to be men they don't want to be women as they see women as inferior.

A modern society is one where women cannot compete against the generally competitive males who are in their natural habitat when it comes to their role.

A world where both are equally happy with their body is actually like the Amish live on a farm. Women tend the home and family while the males tend the fields and make sure the home stays upright.

Feminism is just being unhappy with not being at the same level as men and they never will be. There was one company which had an all female office and one all male office. The all male office worked perfectly while the all female office was drama only and barely any work.

Anonymous · Answer

Well part of the problem is that guys don’t (openly) ask for help. And for good reason they lose face.

Societal respect is a fundamental need for virtually all men. We want to be respected by our peers and more importantly respected by women.

Women expect men to be more emotionally stable then themselves because whether they admit or not they still look at men as providers and protectors. It’s deeply engrained at an evolutionary level even though it’s no longer necessary in modern society.

So women may “say” they like it when a man shows vulnerability. But the ugly reality is they just feel relief that men have similar emotions like they do. But on a deeper subconscious level they see men who act this way as women. Not real men. They feel less attraction towards them. For many women likeability = respect. So hence they respect the guy less.

So Freudian dynamics are at play here. Straight men know they have to act tough (and most men are straight) and they don’t ask for “compassion”. But that doesn’t mean they don’t need it. It’s no coincidence that the male suicide rate is 4x higher than women.

Men do need to get help and support BUT it needs to be requested discreetly lest they look like whiners.

It’s not fair but this is rooted in societal treatment of men (particularly from women) Nothing burns more than a woman rejects a man for not being masculine enough (romantic or not). This is why men get angry when women ask a man they know likes them to “just be friends”. The man doesn’t feel like his masculinity is being respected.

He questions the vibe he is giving off to people > he tries to toughen up > he doesn’t ask for help or show vulnerability > society assumes he doesn’t need it > he gets depressed and breaks down > women and men notice it and respect him less > he tries to toughen up again

Do you see the vicious cycle here?

love_conquers_lust · Answer

I think women care more than you think. Is there progress still to be made, yes, on both sides. The big one I see is high earning women need to be okay with lower earning males. Men who do nothing when they stay at home shouldn’t be a thing, even with a kid at home unless they’re an infant. Men were made to travel, so find something to do outside the house. Work is ideal. Don’t escape through video games and porn. Take a fucking 30 mile walk to the store if that’s what it takes. Saves on gas and gets exercise.

Moose304 · Answer

I can only comment on what I have noticed. I don't normally try to answer open-ended questions like this one. One such example I have noticed over the years is how men are treated in the nation's family courts. It's not even 50-50. With the advent of no-fault divorce men generally get screwed over. Right now I know 5 men that are paying 100% of their child support. Have the kids on their health insurance, and are current in everyway. They still get blocked at every turn from court-ordered visitation AND the courts ignore them. One of the reasons   is in his grave is he mishandled a situation where his wife and her boyfriend were violating court orders on visitation. I don't know about men with regard to society as a whole, but men are getting screwed left and right in the nation's family courts.

Thatgirlcvp · Answer

I know it's awful. Men are made to be the scapegoat of all our problems. We should try to appreciate them more. They built America, built all of the world. They have done so much for us and still do so much for us. Definitely there always will be rotten apples trying to ruin everything for everyone. But most men are good and mean well. I hate how tough society is on men. I just know I won't treat my future husband like that.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

I totally agree, not just in the US, but also UK, Germany etc.

Nowadays its everything "go women power", even the damn film industry, look marvel now only does only female superheroes kicking men's butts.

This all is a result because old school society and annoyingly still today, women are seen as the "weaker gender" and constantly need assistance, more compassion and pity, and less harsh punishments.

While male's psychological issues get completely ignored (friends will drop you, family looks down upon you), if a man shows emotions he will be laughed at. We get forced and taught already already as a kid to swallow down our feelings, because the make you look weak and feminine. For frustrations and depressions we have to be a man and continue to work to provide for the state and family. If we get sick or so we are no value. No wonder suicide rates of men are so high

JDavid25 · Answer

It's only natural.. Most societies usually have more compassion towards women simply because women are more vulnerable to the world than men are.. But also feminism has done a great job turning women against men or at the very least building false generations which leads to disdain and fear or misandry..

jennifer_bloom · Answer

People feel compassion for humble people but men hide their humility because they view it as a sign of weakness. Or at least some of them do. When you act big and tough, they don’t feel sorry for you because they don’t know you need it.

dustybiker · Answer

Request for compassion is just an adults way of whining.

People who get respect have earned it through their behavior towards others. You want it you have to give it. Treat others well they will treat you well, unless they are walking around with their own issues. They are in therapy or in desperate need of it and don’t count.

Ten to one, if you are lacking in the receiving end you aren’t treating those around you well.

ManOnFire · Answer

People feel that it's easier to abuse men for our world's problems, and no one wants to handle men's feelings. Women also see men as great to exploit or as an easy opportunity for sex or money grabs, so there's little care for what men are as human beings.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

In Western society we have a huge problem with entertaining people's feelings before the facts of a situation and it makes people delusional. I shouldn't be expected to entertain someone's bullshit feelings if they want to feel like they can blame the non-existent white male patriarchy for why their life sucks.

TransAm85 · Answer

Who said that? I have compassion for all men! Men who were born men. Idc if ur gay, u can do my hair or my makeup.. lol. But seriously, that feminist shit is just an excuse for government assistance or welfare maybe. Ignore it.

MCheetah · Answer

Because that goes against the agenda. Not just men, but everyone who isn't a self-described victim or snowflake.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Don't understand your question. Nevertheless, we men have to grow up tough and hard because we are going to be the leaders of our families, community and nation tomorrow.

A boy that is cuddled and treated to be soft will definitely be screwed in life and just be a whiny little b*&^% as a man.

Anonymous · Answer

There is actually yes people always people women even when they lie through their teeth. I had some good friends of mine go to prison for something they didn't do because of some lying ass whore. It makes it harder on them and other girls that actually HAVE been abused and so nee help.

Anonymous · Answer

When you stop raping us, taking away our rights, and trying to control us, there will be more compassion, but for now we have to tend to our sisters and give them compassion to heal the damage done by men

TommyWiseau69 · Answer

Its because most men in America are cocky douchebags that treat other people like shit or are just repulsive to be around. When you're like that then you deserve the treatment you get

ODC2112 · Answer

There is lack of compassion toward man in all the world. It was like that in the past and it has remained so.

JamesDiaz11 · Answer

Probably because they're seen as not needing compassion, as well as being "guilty from centuries of oppression."

hostboy__fastestlaps · Answer

Even more so towards women. Andrew Tate is literally ruining western male society as much as Amber Heard is ruining western female society. Two sides of the same coin!!

Anonymous · Answer

Why do people only care about the rights of people they have "compassion"  for, rather than respect the idea of equality under the law?

Mynameisbobby · Answer

I grew up with my mother and older sister both showed no compassion towards me. Found same thing when I went to junior high and high school. I never understood why?

genericname85 · Answer

because the "oh so compassionate and ampathy gifted" gender apparently has none of it. they can beat all they want on men but then expect to still be treated like a queen.

Literalbillionaire17 · Answer

I swear men have it so hard and I feel bad bc as women we got a lot of shit with us but so do men

moviedude714 · Answer

Because the world and nature and society always expects men to be mentally and emotionally stronger or tough and that means getting far less sympathy from people and society that women do

TroyDT · Answer

I deserve nothing except common courtesy. If something bad happens to me and some people empathize that is cool, but random strangers owe me not even that.

Anonymous · Answer

If you MAN UP you'll be fine. If you puss out, THAT'S where your problems start.  Moral of the story: MAN UP! Don't puss out.

Shamalien · Answer

Social engineering to destroy the segment of the population which if empowered would overthrow our masters

Nadim171 · Answer

Why is there less compassion towards rats than dogs? Dogs are cuter.

Anonymous · Answer

I love how no one really focuses and answers the question. I would say yes there is generally less sympathy and compassion for males probably because they are seen as the stronger and more capable of the two genders

Anonymous · Answer

Because the vast majority of them are pussy worshipping simps that would kill their own mother to get pussy.

msc545 · Answer

Why not? Women here think men are good only for giving them money and the occasional orgasm.

RosieMelts · Answer

I have no idea. I care about men.

jimmy2 · Answer

Well let see Pademic, gas so high, food so high, Covid coming back hell who got time for compassion

Anonymous · Answer

Even if I'm sitting next to a woman I get the feeling I'll be called a rapist

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Ignorance and hate. Nothing more and nothing less.

Blackcosmo · Answer

Please give an example.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Simple answer WHITE FEMINIST.

sheikalana · Answer

What do you mean?

Anonymous · Answer

Can you give an example?

MiseriaCantareAFI · Answer

Really. Dude. Really?

Anonymous · Answer

You can blame feminism, and rampant leftism.

Waldoe · Answer

I don't seek sympathy, so I don't care...

Zolly99999 · Answer

More context please..

VaasMontenegro · Answer

It's not just America bro.

Anonymous · Answer

Cuz Americans are bad

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