Do men look for “The true love”?

[Anonymous]

[Rangers]

I did, I clawed my way through mountains of shit wondering if what I was looking for even existed, this happened for many years and I always wanted to give up, but I finally found what I was looking for on here, of all places and we're now boyfriend and girlfriend and deeply in love😊

[Will23v]

U met ur girlfriend on gag?

[Rangers]

@Will23v yes, I did.

[AmandaYVR]

Good for you. Have you met in person yet?

[Rangers]

@AmandaYVR Not yet, but she's coming to Texas in the summer☺💕

[Will23v]

Good luck 🤞🍀

[AmandaYVR]

Out of curiosity, have you talked on the phone or video chat?
From my experience, that is what really progresses the relationship forward much faster and more than just messaging, which is so limited by comparison. Have you found that to be the case?
I also know of a person on here who would like to communicate that way with someone, but the girl is too uncomfortable/wary to do so.

[Rangers]

@AmandaYVR we've videochatted a few times but she's shy to call because English isn't her first language but she's been working a lot on learning English and I think she's doing very well, but she's still shy and she always wants to look her very best before she's comfortable going on video with me, although she couldn't make me not attracted to her if she tried to.

[AmandaYVR]

I understand exactly how you both feel.
Encourage her to try whatsapp then, voice only. It adds so much richness, hearing each other's voices.

[Regmorus]

I do, I guess. But not quite sure, if what I'm looking for is what a person would refer to as true love. At least it has a lot of similarities.

[Rolando755]

Not anymore, no. I find more men these days are looking for a solid life of peace, calm and tranquility. A lot of times women can disrupt that. If I find a good woman the I will enter a relationship, but I'm not looking for it.

[Oparocky98]

So I do fully agree with what men want. but the thing is women admittedly have a lot of control on aspects like that in our lives as men. whether it be chaos or peace a, woman has the greatest power to rule those aspects of our life. so me personally I'm not really going to give up the pursuit. I want my ultamate peace earlier even if that means a few chaotic patches of my life. 😅

[Rolando755]

@Oparocky98 Good luck everything lol You're 21. Once you've had those two or three relationships where you have sex all day, everyday and have a few women fuck your life up you'll start to look to yourself for happiness.

[dthomas89]

I don't think "TRUE" love, exists. If it did, divorce, and cheating wouldn't happen

But, i do think that, in the sense of "true love", is that, most people just "settle", and hope for the best with that person

[MannMitAntworten]

I suppose men do. We are likely more half-assed about it than women. Me, I took the, “if it happens, it happens...” approach which actually worked in my favor.

[Browneye57]

What does 'The True Love' mean to YOU?
Do you really think there's a 'soul mate', or just ONE? For that is simply fantasy land.

[Oparocky98]

I think the issue is your conflating the two as the same thing they are different things entirely true love is where two compatible people hit it off but a soul mate would realistically be the cheesy stories you hear about an ex from high school lingering in the mind of an old 80 year old issue is with the mentality that it doesn't exist is it doesn't factor in that real life doesn't give a shit so its 100% possible you have a soul mate but it's also possible you will never meet them or things will go wrong at a bad time and ruin it and true love can happen anyway and much more often you can truly love multiple people in your life

[Browneye57]

@Oparocky98 - And why god invented the period, and the paragraph. Dear god.
But I think you might be onto something... LOL

[Aizou]

Some do, but many doesn't quite understand what it means.

[OddBeMe]

Deep down I think we all do. People are accustomed to confirmation bias by only seeing the people in their bubble. If the guys around you don’t seem longterm material, find new venues.

[sweet1Aj]

Yes I'm currently looking for true love and willing to take care of my woman

[KrakenAttackin]

"True love" is a concept of fairy tales and romantic comedies. What you are describing is "lust" which wears off pretty quickly.

[Nahid1707]

Some do yes, some want one girl for love and marriage. That stuff

[Oparocky98]

Fuck yeah! I mean my goal in life is to have a peaceful life with the love of my life and kids so like definitely fam.

[Anonymous]

Generally we don't over think shit, we simply live our life and in doing so we find our life partner if we meet her.

[Anonymous]

No, we don't have unrealistic fantasies that come from cheesy romance novels...

[Oparocky98]

No offense but that's pretty basic of you...

[ArrrThePirate]

i didn't look... i jus found it

[ArrrThePirate]

looking for love is gay,,, there's way better things to do

[RLovesD7792]

yes and I found mine with D.

[COMMODOREII]

I do. I want nothing less.

[Silence00]

No, only free good sex.

[Noctifer]

I did, and I found it

[Plitty-Tank]

Plenty of men looks for true love.

[saggittarius039112]

Oh absolutely.

[bethgurl]

Some do some don't

[Miristheiss]

Many do.

[Dchrls78104]

Yes, me.

[Gedaria]

Yes why not...

[honestGUY45]

Some do, I don't.

[7771999]

I sure am

[Will23v]

I never pursue women

[legalboxers]

Im still looking

[CT_CD]

No..

[Anonymous]

Most don't

[Slim57]

Not anymore