Do tall women in general think it's fair only to prefer a tall guy as her boyfriend?

[Rubenjann]

As I know most of my male friends , at least don't mind or even ( as in my case) prefer a tall women as girlfriend. And should I say none of my male friends are tall men. So it hurt them very much when they usually hear tall women talk about an average height guy as he's sick or at least out of there league, understood that they couldn't by no way secthem self with a guy shorter than them self, in general do tall women really think it's fair , after all we read all the time about those " poor" tall women havi difficulty finding a boyfriend. When I know for sure far most guys , avarage height and short height would love being in a relationship with those " poor" tall women. I'd love to get some opinions from especially women and particular tall women too

[nella965]

I think tall men typically date other taller women. I find it highly rare to see a tall woman dating a short man. 95% of all relationships, the man is taller than the woman. Its just a biological thing. Same reason why men like breasts, and wide hips in women. You can't argue with shit like that.

[Rubenjann]

Women who are constantly practicing heightism, of course, help push many real men (who are not tall) to want to commit suicide. I think. We should all pay tribute to those women who are not obnoxious heightists but love men who are shorter than themselves. all the women i have been with have luckily been very lovely and very humane, they have all been 190 cm tall or taller, i myself am only181-182 cm tall but very sympathetic and i love tall women who far they most men. Only the tall men fortunately love shorter women, so it is completely ridiculous when women think they should have a taller man, the short women it is fine that they want a tall man as they then have taller children. But downright ridiculous when tall women choose tall partners, it gives tall kids and we have shown tall men enough, they are certainly not desirable as they draw a trail of violence and die earlier as height in men is often a sign of unhealthiness. If women in general were wiser, there are so many amazing men who are not tall, and relationships with a woman who should be branded a lot more, yes, everyone should pay tribute to us. My fiance and I often praise many, as everyone thinks we are a beautiful couple, and my fiancé too much praise for being so amazing that she has chosen a guy based on his personality and not height. hope that there will be more focus on how disgusting heightism is that it will be far more tolerant to complain about women who still hate shorter men

[nella965]

do you see ugly women or ugly men suiciding?

[nella965]

Shaming women for wanting taller men is like shaming men for liking breasts and ass.

[Rubenjann]

I think all your girls know you are trying to defend a sad opinion b, and it's not even close to understand that you can't understand that height can't be changed, if a women told a short guy that he had a rotten personality he typically will change it. If he were far he would loose weight, Michael Jackson even changed he's colour ( not easy but possible) a guy 160 cm can't be 200 cm tall in no way. And I think 99,99% of all women rather date a guy 205 cm tall who look dam ugly and have a rotten personality ( most tall guys properly have a rotten personality) and only those very few avarage height men like me with great personality do get chosen Infront of the monster tall idiot. To your info i don't even have a million $ in my wallet , so it's s miracle my beautiful tall fiancée chose me , or we chose each other, well I would chose all kinds of girls, but like most men might slidly prefer taller girls. But while many women ( 85% I read in a survey) have a height above 6' as a requirement , while men many have a preference for girls height. While personality might is a requirement to men while logical only 15 % of women give a great personality any thoughts , given very few tall guys are supposed bro have any kind of great personality , they don't need to as most women gladly trow there panties after a tall guy, who might be a known massmuder too, and the women wouldn't give a shit as long as he's tall as hell. I know a lot of my girlfriend's friends ( who are pretty tall to due to her playing volleyball ) usually keep on about why she doesn't find a guy her height, and they used to look at me as a strange pet. But I just didn't have a shit and by time they reluctantly accept me , at least when my fiancee are around. But still I know they don't understand what se see in me

[nella965]

you wouldn't date a woman with no breasts or ass yourself.

[katjmj]

It's a general notion. But I only realized how much I've been missing out when I started seeing guys shorter than me in a different light. It's so much attractive when a guy isn't intimidated by the height difference.

I'm from southeast Asia and at 5'8, I'm relatively on the taller side

[Rubenjann]

Would wish we got to hear far more with your experience

[katjmj]

Wdym?

[Rubenjann]

Well women with your insight and that you think positive about men not tall is something very few women do, so I'd wish more women having your experience could stand up and tell. After all very few women really date and live in relationship with a guy over 6' , even in Denmark those tall guys number are less than 20% ( somthing I don't mind at all) , but still we tend to hear about women's sick fashination of tall guys, always the same thing , women in all ages telling how they feel attracted to a guy way taller than herself. How often do you se men litteraly brag about there attraction of women with big boobs or young women etc. We might have preference but never requirement , and most certainly nothing we openly tell about for many reasons, first we will be turned down and made look bad on every media, and to be honest most men really have a moral issue too, somthing it doesn't accure for most of your fellow sisters, so your story is nice and hope more will come. My own fiancee too are a women who break every rule, and fell in love with s guy ( me) much shorter than her ( she's a real giant 198 cm tall) and she too don't mind, though I'd bet if there were a me just 20 cm taller she probably gladly swap him for me.

[katjmj]

I used to prefer taller too but somehow I gravitate towards shorter guys haha. However, it all still comes down to our compatibility and chemistry. I went for a 5'6 dude over a 6'4 simply because I liked him better overall and to this day, he's still the best partner I could ever ask for. 😊

Although I gotta say too that I have a limit on how short a guy I'm willing to date could be.

[DiversityHire]

Tall women don't actually exist, they're just a myth created to give false hope to tall men of a life with less knee and back pain.

[Bandit74]

Not only that, but even average and short women prefer tall men.

[Anonymous]

Dating has never been fair to every single person, nor can it be, because it's based on personal preference. I should no more "have to" choose a short guy then "have to" choose a tall guy. I literally don't know anyone who doesn't prefer some specific quality or physical aspect in the same or opposite sex that they look for, but if I, a tall woman, say, I prefer to date a tall man, somehow that gets chalked up to a lot of short guys classifying me as being shallow but if said tall guy is nice, sweet, and a wonderful guy---I've found what I'm looking for and care not how other people choose to judge my preferences because its hypocritical because they don't just date any old person just because.

[becks3]

Prefering a guy who is taller or same height doesn't mean the women belittles him or shames him for his height.
It's not even about the guy himself much it's about how it makes us feel.
I feel more feminine and cute when I am shorter than the guy.
We are still bound by instinct at least a little bit and I prefer a man who can be protective and manly. So being tall gives the impression that this is the case.
BUT that doesn't mean a man can not show me that he is manly in other ways.
I am 5'5 and am at the moment dating a guy only slightly taller than me. If I wear heels I tower over him but I still like him very much and am attracted to him because he shows me with his attitude and his confidence that he is right for me.
So height is a factor, but it's not more.
Girls get judged on their looks all the time and it's genetic as well so what is your point?
Is that fair?

[Rubenjann]

Try a psychologist

[Rubenjann]

Instead than hating guys for something out of there hands heightism is very horrible and evil, should be forbidden and somthing we all have to try to stop by focuse and shame heightist on the social media , until society start to wake up and treat heightism just as racism after all there's no difference, well heightism is perhaps even worse but because few guy openly want to stand up and admit they are victims of heightism, most are as tall guy get all the credits and attraction and attention. While the 90% of all men are wired upon as worthless and insignificant. And it's all due to women's hate towards us. That said I myself are so happy I managed all my life to attract tall women despite most tall women are horrible heightist too. So my fanatic fiancee is " one in a million" a woman with s super personality , and a woman who very rarely accept guys shorter than herself, given she's 198 cm tall , she don't like guys taller than herself, and like me and most men think it's a mystery why women in bread only date guy's taller than them selves. Well it's fair enough if the woman are 150 cm tall that she want to date a guy 195- over 2 meter, and hell I love to watch s couple were the guy is far taller than he's girlfriend if the woman is very short. But to watch a couple were bouth guy and woman are very tall is tragic as hell, we all know the woman tall only chose the guy because he's tall and he might treat her bad too. And the fact she will end up regret that she chose her guy only because he's tall, rather than for he's personality is so sad. When most guys shorter than her will love s taller girlfriend

[becks3]

You tell me to go to therapy?
If you really think is is euqal to racism you have a serious mental case my dude.
Women can like what they like and you can do nothing about it!
So get over yourself and stop bothering people for their preference. And nice you didn't respond to my argument. Are guys uglyists because they don't like ugly girls?
You are talking bullshit!

[Rubenjann]

I would absolutely like an ugly girl too , as in my case personality is far the most important to me and after that I'd natural like a girl to tower me in height ( mabe obvious) and to be honest I don't really care that you can't se that hating men for ther height is exactly the same as being an racist. Well I'd guess most women will find a 2 meter tall black guy far mor attractive than an normal white guy, unless the avarage height guy will have a great personality. I'd hate to admit there must be something about men and women's intiligens when , so many women can't se what a horrible thing height shaming is and to say height shaming isn't the same as racism is way out , tall men are a race for them self less intiligens and very violent as they usually are unable to make them self understandable , only by violence. And when women are driven by hate towards men who can't change there height, by trying to tell us that tall men are attractive it become very rediculas, sad that women hate avarage height men so much, and hard that men propper height pay the price , for women who think that being taller than her guy should be bad, when most find a relationship with the woman tallest fantastic. I often go and tell a couple like that , I find them fantastic sympatic. While I wouldn't even offer a tall guy and a tall woman couple any kind of support if they were in any kind of trouble. Horrible heightist don't need any sympathy what so ever. Guess that what we all need to teach our kids too. And every normal guy shoul start wake up and start think slot about why 85% of all men have a living hell because of women having thoughts like they have towards them for things out of there hands HEIGHT as it's only things human being can't change. Well guess you can't change your intiligens too, if so women wasn't heights and started to not hate propper men, and not just being madly in love with something as insignificant as a guy's height

[Rubenjann]

Do you admit , women can't think a thought them self, by only act on instinct like stupid animals. I think women are aware that they act amoral and just use the old evolution lie to hide from reality

[Rubenjann]

Should men NOT tall suffer for stupid feelings from women who are insecure about them self, and shoul men shorter constantly feel ashamed and feel guilty for things out of there control, and worse of all , think taller women are out of there league , when everyone know that shorter men make all women feel fantastic and that they are at least just as ssexy as tall guys and way better partner. We should all stop making tall guys something special, world must stop putting so much value in a guy's height, and especially women ought to get s lesson in humanity and compassion towards men who have the sad faith to be born NOT tall

[Rubenjann]

Sorry for offending you so sorry wasn't my attention

[Petra150]

Do you serious mean what you are saying, no women or men for the reason should be allowed to chose a partner just for ther gender sterotypical height, Heightism is so wrong, se what damage it's done to the Duch people, there about the ugliest people in the world because them horrible stupid racistic duch women hate men propper height, and chose only taller men, so the height in Holland has exploded and there population has becomed one of the unheltiest in the world, as height usual is an indicator of unheltyness, as tall people in generel die earlier than shorter people, Just se the age of the worlds tallest man and Woman, that prove, and unfortunatly we tall ( i'm a 204 cm tall woman) usally are less intilligent too, my hubby 181 cm tall are far brighter than me, but he stil love me

[Petra150]

I think the guy is having a point, eventhoug I'm insane tall , if couldn't require a taller guy to protect me. And if I were short as you I'd definitely rather buy a ladder to use, short and avsrage height men , make me feel very sexy and protected. my hubby is 181 cm I'm 204 cm tall , and we have two girls 7 & 12 year old

[theronaldmcdonald]

In high school I quite fancied this guy who was around 4 inches shorter than me (I am 5'8). The guy I dated before my current boyfriend was my height and I wore chunky shoes around him so at times I was taller. I really don't mind it.

[bella4eva]

I'm 5'10 and height doesn't matter to me. In fact my current crushes are my height or slightly shorter... however, they're coupled up so I would never go there

[Anonymous]

I'm not tall but I think it's silly all the whining about women preferring tall guys. It's a preference, men have all kinds of preferences as well. In the end if a woman was to fall in love with a man who is shorter than what she prefers she'd still date him.

[StarGayle]

I'm tall. Height isn't important to me. So far I've only dated guys shorter than me. The guy I'm interested in now is taller than me. Personality is the most important thing.

[-Asca-]

How tall are you?

[StarGayle]

5'10

[Poppymarie]

I mean height isn’t a dealbreaker to me but being tall is definitely a plus since it makes me feel more feminine

[Rubenjann]

Yes tall women are wonderful and I'd always been in relationship were the woman were and is tallest, all my girlfriend's find having a guy shorter , so sexy and fantastic, and my present fiancée she's indeed very tall 198 cm and I love her for many reasons , most of all because of her super personality , the fact she love me and love being with a guy avarage height ( I'm 181,5 cm tall avarage height I Denmark) , she's a dream she's 9 years younger than , she look fantastic fit body due to CrossFit and workout several times a week. She told me she need to do a lot of gym exercise to prevent getting a bad posture. And last but not less important she's TALL as hell I just grow several cm my self when I'm with a very tall woman, and she love the fact I adore her and her height so much. She told me many men get intimidated by her height, it's a mystery to me. I know a lot of guys who live tall women and would be glad to have a girlfriend like mine.

[MackToday]

What ever they like is fair. Tall women come from groups of people that tend to be tall such as in Nordic countries. This is another good example of why your own race is good for you. Removed from that environment they find themselves surrounded by men who are shorter than they are and have trouble finding a taller man.

[Rubenjann]

They do absolutely never have to find a tall guy, most men avarage height are perfect bto most tall women, let the short women date the tall guy's. My fiancee bis 198 cm tall I'm 181,5 cm tall avarage height for a Dane , she just fancy a guy shorter than her and would hat to get children who were tall. Well I'd love hsvi very tall daughters , but like my fiancee we bouth would love having boys who are normal height. And my luck is my fiancee have an 16 year old daughter who is very tall indeed , she's just as tall as her mother about 198-200 cm, a fantastic height for a girl. I have two boys avarage like my self, and never have they felt girls dislike there avarage height. We got a daughter together though we bouth are a little old her 41 and I'm 48 , our daughter is 4,5 years old now and she's very tall too, over a head above the other kids in kindergarten. We bouth hope she will be tall as her mother and sister, and we try to learn her it's a good thing to be a tall girl, and very important we will tell her when she become teenager that it's super I she find a guy normal height, as most girls do deep inside prefer guys that are shorter, given they self are really tall, my step daughter have a boyfriend and he's much shorter than her, and she have never had a boyfriend taller than herself. So I've hardly never been with girls who were tall , who didn't prefer guys shorter than themself. Well as most women I'd been in relationship with were 188 cm tall or taller , they ofcause had more guys to chose among shorter than taller. So it's pathetic when a woman tall complain about problem finding ba boyfriend taller , she should ofcause find a guy shorter it's far better to bouth

[MackToday]

No one is obligated to choose a mate that is not to their liking. The tall racial trait in your aria is natural and should be preserved of course eugenics should also be a thing in any society but it should be used to weed out things like mental retardation or homosexuality etc not distinct racial traits.

[katjmj]

If I want to date a taller guy, I might have to go for another race or live in a different country 😂

[Rubenjann]

@katjmj well I do believe tall guys are an special breed for them self, and they are given far to much credit just for being tall, there only quality if some one think being tall is a quality. I should think for a guy it's rather a disability. A tall guy eat too much , take up too much space , make everyone feel annoyed , look rediculas, are less intiligens, are narcicist, usually like everyone's attention , are self centered and do only love them self. Most tall men causes trouble everywhere they go, when ou in town usually fight and want to beat up people shorter, they simply get into fight with descend people all the time. And worse off alt no women are able to se it. Women who like tall guys have a dobbelstand as the same women typically say they want peace on earth, and to be honest there will never be peace on earth as long we have tall guys, they simply cause all trouble

[katjmj]

Well height is relative. If you go to Asian countries you would probably be considered tall instead of short

[Rubenjann]

@katjmj do you really think 181,5 cm is short for s guy anywhere. Well I know women bye high heels to try to make men avarage height feel uncomfortable an to try to humiliate them , by telling them they " unfortunately" are to shor for them, as they think a guy give a shit about the women towering them. The truth is most guys at least don't give a shit , and many like me have a very big preference for taller women, and hell I'm glad women wear high heels, as still most women unfortunately are shorter than my 181,5 cm. So I'm dam lucky my fiancee is so incredibly tall , and she doesn't need high heels to tower me at all, 198 cm tall is really fine, but sometimes I manage to persuade her to wear them, though she have to go easy on the doorframes. Somthing inside me just get me so turned on watching her have to bend over to pass most doorways. But on the other hand she's so fantastic in slippers too, as her feet just turn me on too. Am I far of for loving her, and are she strange for being attracted to me too. Well I know she also look after tall guys, but hell I look for other tall girls too. But we never have cheated on each other, I couldn't by no way find a woman more fantastic than her. And I just have to constantly try to be my absolute best , so she still favour me

[katjmj]

I consider anyone taller than me, tall 😂 I'm 173 so you're obvs tall.

Though I'm not sure where you got the idea that women wear heels to make men feel inferior? Kinda sad if that's the type of girl you're surrounded by. Women here for sure don't wear heels for that. They wear them to make themselves taller and heels go better with their outfit usually.

It's good too that you encourage your girl to wear them. I threw most of mine away as my partner prefers we're closer in height. I'm not comfortable in heels anyway so not much of a loss either.

[Nikki1989]

I think most women just want someone around their height or slightly taller.

[Rubenjann]

You miss the point is it fair to judge guys on there height , telling them they are I significant and worthless by choosing a guy , just because he's taller than you. Knowing most men will die to be with a woman taller than himself. Unfortunately not everyone can have what he want , simply isn't enough tall women. Good job tall men prefer short women and visa versa. Sad as hell tall women an medium women who by high heel just to tell a guy he's too short for get when she wear her 6-7 inch heels. Sax women are fooled into believe what a Hollywood society have thought them , that a guy shorter are seen at as awkward, while it's just wonderful and show that the relationship is build on true value and first of all love. It's hard to ever believe s woman could love a guy taller than her, there relationship only excist on the fear the woman have for the tall typically violent guy, who usually rule the family bon terror and fear , as it's the only language most tall men understand, and so sad a lot of women at traped in a relationship with a unattractive violent tall guy, especially when 99/100 men will gladly give away there right hand for a taller girlfriend. This is our lives biggest taboo and definitely our problem number one , second comes virus from China and third the well educated wanting to rule over poor workers

[bigben07501]

It's not what's fair it's called preference it is what they find appealing like a girl I knew would only date guys with blue eyes

[Anonymous]

Height doesn't matter to me.
I'm 5'9 ?/¿" And I'd marry a six foot woman if she fit my required but very broad standards

[harimoto]

being a tall is not a problem, having a better sexual life is very important

[AngelLily]

I don't think so.