Is it wise to Ask out a coworker?

[Anonymous]

I have feelings for her and I think she’s really cute. Gosh I like her and would wish we could date, but she probably has a boyfriend. Should I try at all to express how I feel? Yes there are plenty of others, but I can’t get over her.

[art84]

I would ask her out just accept if she says no that you'll have to see her everyday at work. Don't know if seeing her would be awkward at work if things went south. I personally would ask if she's single by any chance. Then bring up asking her out.

[Asker]

Well the opportunity has passed because work is shutting

[coolhandroo]

If you do approach her I rexommend you up the testosterone. Just comes across a little timid the way you talk about her. Good luck its wirth a shot

[Asker]

Timid mate?

[coolhandroo]

Too nice. Trust me re things that girls say they like are not the case at all. Sensitive caring understanding polite etc, women think they like that but they don't. They like strong tough alpha assholes and you don't have to be a total tool but if you are too sweet she'll treat you like one of the girls.

[Strezzed_Deprezzed]

I feel like you should say something. If you get rejected, at least you could say you got it off your chest

[Asker]

Today I was silent like a dope

[Strezzed_Deprezzed]

honestly, take what i say with several grains of salt. i always tell guys how i feel and it almost never ends well. sometimes, silence can be a good thing

[Asker]

It’s none of my business but are you dating?

[Strezzed_Deprezzed]

that's why i said take what i said with salt. I've never been a relationship and i have no idea what i'm talking about

[Asker]

Why doesn’t it end well?

[Strezzed_Deprezzed]

they don't like me back and the whole friendship gets awkward. you know, the usual

[Asker]

What kind of guys are you chasing?

[Strezzed_Deprezzed]

lately, no one. I don't really have a type tho

[Asker]

What kind of girl are you?

[Strezzed_Deprezzed]

guess

[Asker]

An invisible bookworm who sits at the park watching the guys she is too shy to talk with

[Strezzed_Deprezzed]

lolol pretty accurate except the bookworm part and I don't really like parks. other than that, spot on 👌

[Asker]

go up and talk to those guys, they aren’t polar bears, we don’t kill you