I've been curious about this for a while because some people say stuff like, "Oh, I only date white people," or stuff like "Asians are the most attractive."
Does skin color or race matter that much in a relationship?
People who only prefer one color or race over another it's normal we life what we do dissent make them racist or against it's their preferred desire of I like pizza and you like hotdogs does that mean I'm not s true American I have to be honest here I have dated most races off so color some little darker than I prefer but it's their personality what's up their hearts character that's who I base a person on not look over there man stay away from her she's to White or no way man she's to dark nothing but trouble that's an ignorant way to think pre judge someone I knew a guy once that's how he was pre judge everyone drive me nuts at times and day he was going on negatively about this lady I walked away had enough saw him some time later he was going out with her can't really know some one unless you talk with them or you umm can read thoughts people's minds, and that person hasn't been born as of yeti hope, but I'm attracted to light skinned and or white skinned women being honest my preference
It does at first because a stark white "glow in the dark" ghostly skin tone where green veins are very visible on the face and breasts and other spots on her butt and vag aren't much of a turn on for me. I'm sorry if I've offended anyone but after I shut the lights off or close my eyes and get to know her and if she's nice then it's not too bad but if she's a bitch... forget it. Casper's little sister can float the fuck away cuz then she's way too scary to be around. No one likes having a pasty white thing bitching at them.
Skin color matters to me about as much as picking a color to paint my wall in my room (white), picking my favorite color in general (black), deciding what color to wear (so many options), or picking a crayon to color with. Every ethnicity has gorgeous ranges of color. There's so much variety, that I do not limit myself much. I may prefer certain shades of white, tan, black, or whatever over others just for aesthetic reasons, but I'm not going to pass up sex or dating with an incredibly hot person because they aren't my favorite shade or are the "wrong" color.
Could you imagine the fool who meets prince or princess charming and says "eww" only because of their skin color? Literally, everything else is perfect, and they loose their soulmate over that. The greatest joke of all time.
Not really. I find people attractive depending on their features but not their color/race per se. Although looking back, I seem to have gravitated more towards lighter skinned individuals
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Nope. Face is super important to me. I'm quite particular and perhaps superficial about that, but most everything else is about their mind and character.
It doesn't matter to me, if a person is attractive then they are attractive, if a person is a nice person and one worth dating then their skin colour has no bearing.
However I'm white, middle class and male so automatically disqualified from dating anybody because I'm naturally evil to the core so even though I don't care about another person's skin colour the world is allowed to focus only on my gender and skin colour as a reason for why other races can claim they are of better or higher Virtue than myself and therefore don't have to even have common courtesy when speaking to me let alone date.
My girlfriend is rather fair until she sunbathes at which point she can get pretty darn tan. I enjoy the contrast in her. However, is it her skin tone whicj determind a ‘physical’ interest in her? No. Physically it was more features. Particularly her face. I mean, to me she has a rockin’ body (other seem to think so too) and I enjoy her pretty hands especially with a ring I bought her on one of her fingers and another she bought with both our birthstones upon her other hand. She’s just an adorable Lady inside and out. I know I am a very lucky guy!
For me it does. While it is not the skin color itself, usually the color comes with certain features. Some of these features are less attractive to me.
As such, dark, brown and Asian people are overall less attractive to me that light skinned people.
This doesn't mean I dislike every dark skinned girl, some (usually mixed) I feel really attracted to.
So it's not about color or race, but more about the features that come with them.
Many years ago, YES.
Now? NO!
A lot of Chinese people like light skin color. They used to said they like my skin color.
but, after I joined a summer camp, I got tanned.
they start to say why your skin color so dark? you're so ugly! and my mom said there's no guy wants a girlfriend who has my skin color.
l love my skin and my skin color. and now I prefer drak skin color. If someone hate my skin color, then they can choose go away or dig that eyes out.
Sorry, I didn't get the point. For me skin color doesn't matter at all. But there is some people care about skin color. I hated to say that, but one of my former coworker, she used to told me you gotta marry a foreigner. I was like WHAT? While I working with Her I found out she is a racist girl. I think she said foreigner, it actually means white. I heard she already in Canada with her white boyfriend now. Before she resign, I heard Her boyfriend speaking very good Chinese, but her English? I won't judge that. But I will against all the opinions that she told me.
In terms of what I'm attracted to of course. I evolved to be a part of my race to live and work hand in hand with those type of people to survive. I'm attracted to women of my own race due to evolution.
I am fair skinned and find dark skinned girls very beautiful. I have had very successful loving relationships with girls from various ethnic backgrounds. A beautiful girl is a beautiful girl there love and tenderness does not wear a colour. I am from uk
It can matter significantly when it comes to physical attraction.
It can also matter because of the likely things you may have to deal with if you are with certain types of people from their friends/families.
Skin color does not equal race. A white person with a tan is more attractive to me because I like tans. So I don’t like stark white but I’d still date someone very pale.
However, I don’t find thick lips or booties or wide noses attractive. Also don’t find typically Asian eyes attractive. I do however find blonde hair and blue eyes very attractive.
It isn't about skin color, it's about face features. For example I prefer noses of white girls because they are smaller, but I prefer lips of black girls because they are bigger.
The race of lady doesn't bother me but find myself more attracted to darker skinned ladies. If that makes sense.
It doesn't really bother me but i did write a my take on black women.
Why I Love Black Women
@coolcatk i am from Texas. My skin color is more white. Why?
@coolcatk what is your skin color? 😗
race doesn't matter. i mean i have preferences, i do prefer black guys but i also like Asian and white guys too. race really isn't a deal breaker
Nah if one is beautiful, they're beautiful! Period. It's about characteristics, facial and body structure! Not color
Not really, but It does affect how I treat you, I probably wouldn't start flirting or ask out a black/brown man, because they are more likely to fucking murder me.
you're pretty racist for a second class citizen
Who are most of the school shooters again? 🤔
ah so you're racist and gay. that's like the worst combination. this is why homosexuals are literally the worst. i'm glad the world hates you.
black/brown people aren't more likely to murder you. even hispanics and Asians are also peaceful. it's white people who shoot up schools and kill innocent little children and terrorize churches.
you're dumb. white isn't the majority, Asians are. and i applaud you for staying away from people. i guess social isolation began for you the day you came out with your gender identity disorder. you just keep exposing yourself. shall we add more to your list of mental illnesses?
1) racism
2) gender identity disorder
3) prejudice
what more sick twisted ideals do you got going on there?
I'm in Sweden where the majority is white. And if you want to know all my disabilities then let me just tell you.
I have adhd, autism, anxiety, body dysmorphia, genderdysphoria, dyslexia.
And yeah excuse me for being so fucking damaged and hurt that I can't trust that anybody I meet won't try to kill me.
doesn't excuse your racism. don't try to play the victim. 🤷♀️
Skin color isn't relevant for me, but certain facial features that are mostly present on girls of my race are important.
I think it's a personal preference, like some girls like boys with muscles other doesn't, some boys prefer blonde girls other prefer red heads.
So it's the same with skin color, why not 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Ultimately, no, I have seen attractive women of all colors, white, Asian, black, hispanic, you name it.
The only skin tone that I don't like much is a very pale 'white' - which looks like someone being sick.
@coolcatk Born German, living in Thailand. Why?
@coolcatk 'Cute' surprises me a little. Personally, I'd say: 'encouraging'?
It matters a bit to me, I'm not attracted to certain white skinned people (very pale white, or pink white). I like tan skin the most. Now race itself, I don't care.
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